The government can't keep them apart

Posted by Leticia, 13 Apr 11

Jeff never had trouble meeting people, given his gregarious nature and his line of work—he’s a snowboard instructor, drummer, and D.J. whose handle is “DJake.”  But he’d found he was most compatible with black women and he wasn’t meeting many of them in his area.  What’s more, Jeff was very eager to meet his match and knew that hoping for the occasional chance meeting might keep him waiting for a long time.

“I wanted someone to fill my lonely heart, and yesterday,” Jeff says.  So he decided to try our site.  “Within the first month, I was talking to so many ladies that I quit searching to meet new ones,” he marvels.  “Several of them are now some of my best friends.  I’ve been teaching one of the girls’ daughters how to do magic tricks!”

Kalama was getting plenty of attention of her own, but she had specific ideas about the kind of man she was looking for.  When she found Jeff’s profile, it struck her as a bit long, but fun and genuine.  She liked that Jeff knew what he wanted.  His profile declared he was “Ready for Love.”  Their personalities seemed compatible, and so did their relationship goals—both wanted to start a family, sooner rather than later.

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There was just one wrinkle to iron out—Jeff was in Ohio and Kalama was in Africa!  Undeterred, they started talking on Skype.  This was enough for Jeff to learn to love Kalama’s laugh, her beautiful smile, and her witty sense of humor.

Jeff decided to go to Africa for a visit to see if their connection would work in real life.  The pair met in person for the first time when Jeff got off the plane in Zambia.  “When I finally met her, she was the same person as on Skype, but so beautiful,” Jeff recalls.  “Her embrace felt so much warmer than a keyboard!”

The young couple felt a little anxious at first but their nerves settled down as their conversation took off.  Jeff and his sweetheart would dance for hours at a local club, until they were the last people on the dance-floor.  Later that night, their first kiss came in the back of the cab on their way home.

Jeff would spend seven weeks with Kalama’s family.  The couple toured the area to see Africa’s wildlife in its natural habitat and visit the world-famous Victoria Falls.  Along the way, they fell madly in love.  By the time Jeff headed home, he was a married man.  Yes, it’s true—Jeff and Kalama got hitched!

Sadly, difficulties with Kalama’s immigration are keeping the couple apart for now.  But Jeff and Kalama are making plans to reunite in Africa.  In fact, they hope to visit impoverished villages in Zambia, offering children entertainment, inspiration and gifts.

“Kalama’s smile, heart and love are greater than I ever could have imagined,” Jeff says.  Something tells us that no government can keep this couple apart for long.

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  1.   Ho75 says:
    Posted: 6 days ago

    Wonderful

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  2.   Kemmy08 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun

    Congrats to the couple, love isn't love until you give it away.

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  3. Posted: 01 Jun

    I thank God that did it for them, the same God who did for them will also join me and some one together one day, all hope are not lost but full with expectation.

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  4.   kipepeo1979 says:
    Posted: 30 May

    They must fait for they love never give up

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  5.   rosiewater says:
    Posted: 24 May

    i'm so happy for u guys.:)

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  6.   Oliso says:
    Posted: 17 May

    I'm happy for them! But it's so sad if you are married to a European man and you are denied visa to go to Europe to join your husband , really annoying , I think they would tell their white men not to marry Africans. I'm also a victim

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  7.   Berre says:
    Posted: 05 May

    Vongs I can't wait to find my meetup to overcome the lonelyness

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  8.   AnointedSon says:
    Posted: 24 Apr

    Interesting! You got to be sure God is in it. A Tobago man left for a Trini gyul, nobody knows where he is today. Listen to inner witness and be bold and brave to try new fronts but be sure God is in it.

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  9.   Nukile says:
    Posted: 22 Apr

    When God says yes no one can says no and when He opened the door for you no one can closed it ameeen.

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  10. Posted: 18 Apr

    Ladies I was almost shading tears hearing this story . It's quite touchy and sweet the same time. I have a date next month of May . He will be visiting me from USA to Germany. We are crossing our fingers . Need your prayers guy ....

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    • INEEDTHATMAN says:
      Posted: 01 Jun

      Don't worrie, Almighty God who started it will perfect it for you guys, just believe and be well focus, and you will dances in the open for Joy, Read the Book of Genesis in BlBLE : 1 - 18 - 23 -24, Read it with understanding and believe it is done, God blessed both of you and may God words be accomplished in ur life's In Jesus Name Amen.

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  11.   Tidaps says:
    Posted: 04 Apr

    Wow!!!! beautiful story . Mine is on the way !!!!!!

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  12.   Maya2017 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr

    what God has put together,no man can put asunder.Let the govt do the couple 's wish and let their dream come true.Bravo guys !

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  13.   EmmeGem says:
    Posted: 01 Apr

    If only I could have the same someday

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  14.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 24 Mar

    Waiting for the one who will fulfil my lonely heart

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  15.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 24 Mar

    A

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  16. Posted: 20 Mar

    Yaaaaaassssss!!!

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  17.   Akuvi23 says:
    Posted: 18 Mar

    Waiting for that day

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  18.   Malindzi says:
    Posted: 08 Mar

    Match made in heaven,government or no government....

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  19.   Floridamove says:
    Posted: 03 Mar

    Love u guys

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  20. Posted: 20 Feb

    waiting for the one who will fl my lonely heart

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  21.   Malizacat says:
    Posted: 16 Feb

    Awwwwwwwwwwwww...

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  22. Posted: 29 Jan

    Woooow love knows no boundary.

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  23.   Ragdolly says:
    Posted: 29 Jan

    Good to see a couple so much in love. Remain blessed

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  24.   macyline says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    woooow ....wishing you all the best

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  25.   Rona69 says:
    Posted: 17 Jan

    Nice story

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  26.   Springo says:
    Posted: 14 Jan

    NOthing conquers true love

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  27.   Matiniz says:
    Posted: 03 Jan

    Am happy for both Kalama and Jeff if god in the middle of them every thing will be good I wish them a happy married, even me am waiting for the right one

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  28.   KOMKER says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 16

    wawawa, got should give love a chance; very crazy couple........enjoy u r marriage and God's blessings.

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  29.   9773821178 says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 16

    If this story real then very Amezing love story If fake story then God bless them I say that's it only

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  30.   Williamross says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 16

    Can you please to looking for female penpals friends 40to59yearsold to need help for ladies friend like welcome highland scotland would like mixed both people good hope you enjoy time

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    • Babu1960 says:
      Posted: 10 Mar

      How old are you. Williamross.I am looking for a companion divorced.separated single 50-63 yrs.someone to love and be loved.I am a divorcee 57yrs.

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  31.   T-Gurl says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 16

    Amazing love story

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  32.   lollil4 says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 16

    The government should actually give u guys a free visa and air ticket for u to reunite. Your such a sweet couple

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  33.   kweya says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 16

    Love you,with God all things are possible

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  34.   Mabuki says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 16

    God bless you

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  35.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 17 Oct 16

    Beautiful couple God bless..n happy marriage..

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  36.   Zina38 says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 16

    Awwwwww

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  37.   ogenga says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 16

    with love everything is possible

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  38.   Sathya8 says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 16

    Hi

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  39.   JaneMar says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 16

    Beautiful couple..God bless you both..

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  40.   Nosabe says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 16

    Love conquers all. Congrats to the couple....May God see you through. God bless!!

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  41.   odeam says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 16

    Wow so beautiful story,

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  42.   p.cool4 says:
    Posted: 06 Jul 16

    Congrats, wish you guys happy marriage

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  43.   Santyn says:
    Posted: 28 Jun 16

    Congratulations Jeff n Kalama.i wish you ahappy life hopping that tomorrow is my day since today is yours.

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  44.   jazmine06 says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 16

    Very very touched by Jeff and Kalama's story

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  45.   johnsonn says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 16

    Cool...love without boarders .in a faced world

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  46.   Mabhee says:
    Posted: 24 May 16

    Nothing can keep them apart. They are in love n love conqueres all

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  47.   dimbosa says:
    Posted: 21 May 16

    Wooow so inspiration

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  48.   catenel says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    So sweet a couple they are

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  49.   taytee says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    I would just say wooow perfect couple

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  50.   marwu says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    God bless your marriage

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