A Teachable Moment Happened Last Night on the "Bachelorette" This season’s historic Bachelorette continues to surprise me. Rachel’s charm, wit and intelligence is delightful, and her ability to be sweet, but when necessary, direct and vulnerable makes her a...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it’s publish date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortunat...

The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit I started to bristle. I thought it was going to b...

5 Adorable Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week Instagram is a bastian of #swirling cuteness. Doesn’t take long to find some standouts, and here’s five that caught our eye this week… . California Loveeeeee A post shared by Chelle Di Giova...

Do You Prefer Dating White Men Who Have ONLY Ever Dated Black Women? White men exclusively dating black women We’re working on a new series, The Pros and Cons: Dating White Men, for later release. In the meantime, we’ll be releasing little snippets of interviews t...

Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date! 38 year old woman who has never been on a date, kissed or had a boyfriend asks: "Can someone that lacks so much experience in dating and relationships find it at this advance age?!"

WATCH QOTW: "I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates." The Question: I’m a 29 year old, single black woman (of caribbean descent). I’ve lived overseas for a few years and I’ll soon be returning home to the UK, where I plan to date with a view towar...

CLUTCH Writer Reports On a Black Woman Who Experiences Black Abuse, Then Proceeds to Abuse Her Too I often go to a variety of sites to get news and updates, and CLUTCH has been one of my pit stops for years. But one article that struck me as particular this morning was one written about ESPN writer...

WATCH: Try This ONE THING to Increase Your Success In Interracial Dating We talk about travelling through different ecosystems to discover opportunities to meet quality men, but let’s face it–many black women have had little to no contact with non-black men outside of ...

Watch: White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It's a Fetish. How many of you are absolutely fed up with how some people try to make non-black men (especially white men) feel guilty about having a preference for black women and label it a fetish. This notion has...

Feeling Insecure? This Video Will Change Everything Dealing with insecurities This video lets you have a peek behind the curtain and see the footage from my live retreats on dealing with insecurities. And I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incr...

WATCH: 7 Sneaky Signs He's Flirting With You It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting. Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious. What seems to women like normal male behavior at a party, a bar, o...

Audio: Take Pride While considered one of the biblical seven deadly sins, pride — of the right dosage — can be a boon. After all, confidence — unquestionably a quality for which we all strive — relies on pride....

WATCH: The REAL Secret To Getting Closure (It's not what you think...) Let’s face it, I have a weird job. My friends think so. My mum definitely thinks so. This week, if you’ve ever wanted a behind-the-scenes preview into the actual life of a “dating coach” (God...

Audio: Skill Vs. Talent If something can be learned, it is a skill. If it’s innate, it’s a talent. The reality: most so-called talents are skills in disguise, so stop making excuses that you’re not talented enough to d...

WATCH: Exactly What to Say When He Pulls Away What are the real signs a man is losing interest? He sends less frequent texts... check. He’s less available for dates... check. A feeling of “distance” in the way he speaks... check. You ...

Watch: Is He The One? 5 Questions to Know for Sure How do you know if a man is the perfect guy for you? Many women assume that he has to tick a bunch of traits on a checklist (e.g. he’s not too short or tall, has the right career, loves animals, pl...

Audio: Emotional Intelligence 2.0 A lot of people put stock in having a high intelligence quotient (IQ) as the fast-pass to a successful, rewarding life. But how many of us know our emotional quotient (EQ)? Emotional Intelligence 2.0...

Watch: The Major RED FLAG You Should Never Ignore In A Man It’s so easy to ignore all the warning signs from men. You like him. He has a good career. You have amazing sexual chemistry. But there are things that you know make him wrong for a relationship: ...

Watch: Fifty Shades Darker In REAL LIFE... 50 Shades of Grey is a weird story. Christian is a hot, emotionally-damaged billionaire with some crazy ex girlfriends and a craving for sadomasochism. Ana is the young, bookish wallflower with whom h...