Valuable Advice ALL Black Women Can Use As black women, we face a unique set of challenges at the intersection of our race and sex. Cultural mores, seen as “the done thing” in the black community, such as birthing out of season, accepti...

Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy? Here's an interview with a 62-year-old baby boomer who married a white guy. She has some important perspectives and advice to give.

Black Women: The Article on Love You Need Here is the thing, forget media sensationalization and the hype. You are in the game when it comes to love. There is a lot of data out there about love, marriage, and black women. A few years ago th...

Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...

Black vs. Biracial... Should we keep clinging to the one-drop rule? Much as once upon a time someone came up with the one-drop rule, isn't it time that we made room for biracial people like other countries?

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...

Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts You “No! Stop! Help Me! Please Help Me!” Those were the words I heard when viewing a video in which someone conducted a Facebook Live of a woman appearing to be drugged and a man forcibly raping her ...

The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in "Bird Box" [SPOILER] The Netflix film, Bird Box is a definitive hit. Produced by Sandra Bullock, the sci-fi horror film where an unknown force compels people to commit suicide is comprised of a ragtag group of people bar...

Why Other Black Women are Becoming More Vocally Against Us 'Swirlers' I guess as the head-girl advocating black women expanding their dating options makes me Public Enemy Number One. This has been historically predictable from territorial men, but the vitriol is ramping...

This is What 'Micro-Cheating' Does to Committed Relationships Back in the olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a...

If You've Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people. It can be hard to read someon...

When It's Time To Quit A Relationship Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationsh...

A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 2 {AUDIO} Joining us for the second part of the Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation is Mickey Royal is a former gangster, drug dealer, pimp, and mob enforcer, someone who not only survived under what mainstream...

Do NOT Make This Common First Date Mistake Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s ...

Are You Fantasizing About Changing A Man? Watch This! The other day I was going through some of the comments my followers left and I couldn’t help myself when it came to this topic. I decided to do a deep dive into why so many people are enticed by the...

A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 1 {AUDIO} A smart kid under the wrong circumstances isn’t necessarily destined for success. But “wrong” isn’t a word for someone who wants to survive stocks in their vocabulary. And on this episode, w...

Too Unsexy to Date? The Truth About Body Image & Attraction In this week’s video, we dig into a fascinating study in which nearly half of the people surveyed said they would call off a date if they weren’t feeling great about their body that day. We’re...

How to Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Shattered When someone’s betrayed or hurt us - especially when we didn’t see it coming - it's hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an an...

How to Make What Matters Effortless {AUDIO} Do you want 10x the results of any endeavor without putting in 10x the effort? , Do you find yourself procrastinating on a project because it’s not perfect enough to your liking? Did you know that �...