Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...

Black vs. Biracial... Should we keep clinging to the one-drop rule? Much as once upon a time someone came up with the one-drop rule, isn't it time that we made room for biracial people like other countries?

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...

Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts You “No! Stop! Help Me! Please Help Me!” Those were the words I heard when viewing a video in which someone conducted a Facebook Live of a woman appearing to be drugged and a man forcibly raping her ...

The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in "Bird Box" [SPOILER] The Netflix film, Bird Box is a definitive hit. Produced by Sandra Bullock, the sci-fi horror film where an unknown force compels people to commit suicide is comprised of a ragtag group of people bar...

Why Other Black Women are Becoming More Vocally Against Us 'Swirlers' I guess as the head-girl advocating black women expanding their dating options makes me Public Enemy Number One. This has been historically predictable from territorial men, but the vitriol is ramping...

Robert De Niro Splits from Grace Hightower. Why It Doesn't Matter. Last week’s news cycle comprised of the very sad news that Robert De Niro split from his wife of 20 years, Grace Hightower. Critics of interracial marriage in the bowels of the black sector of YouT...

Are Black Women More "Submissive" to White Men? There’s a lot of salty complaints from men of our culture who say that black women magically become more feminine when they are paired with white men. When a non-black man enters the picture, black ...

Korean Men Dish On What They Think of Black Women In this video, Korean men dish their opinions about black women and reveal their attraction and admiration of them.

[VIDEO]This Counter-Intuitive Text Reveals His True Intentions for You I was recently coaching a woman who was frustrated with the texts she was getting from a guy who she’d met on a dating app.

Use These Words to Put YOU in Control if He's "Not Sure" He Can Commit! "I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now..." Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from a guy you genuinely like. Someone you’ve invested time...

How to overcome a crush on best friend Learning how to get over a crush on best friend isn't easy especially if your feelings aren't reciprocated. Read more as we tackle this...

"Moving Too Fast" for Him? 17 dates and you guys are still not official? 6 months of seeing each other and he’s getting mystery texts from some girl? Whole weekends spent together only to have him ghost? I don’t want to ...

Say THIS to Him, Then Watch Him Melt Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date...

This is how untrained brains are ruining America In this age and era, its rather unfortunate that we often can’t tell the difference between genius and stupidity, and we are often guessing about how to interpret situations based on our own view of...

Sick of Family Asking "Why Are You Single?" Here's Your Answer The holidays can be a magical time with those we love. They can also be a time when those we love ask us intensely awkward and annoying questions. Questions like...“So, why are you still single?” ...

How to make billions Do you have a way to access the most creative part of yourself? Do you acknowledge your secret dream and chase it with rigor, or do you neglect that dream and let it turn toxic inside of you? On th...

Stop Ignoring His Red Flags and Get the Respect You Deserve Falling in “like” with someone can happen in a flash. On the heels of a thoughtful gesture. After a witty joke that sends you into belly laughs. When he looks at you with flirtatious energy tha...

How to wrestle with failure without succumbing to its impact There is a lot of abundance these days. However even with the highest ever rates of longevity, wealth, and education, we still have the highest ever rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide. The prob...