Don't Like His Behavior? 3 Simple Steps to Change It If you’ve been in the early dating stages with a guy, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe he doesn’t call when he said he would. Or he’s ...

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like Have you ever met a guy you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze with your friends every text he sent. You’d worry when he’d go silent for several ho...

Why Do Men Only See Me As a Hookup? Do you find that men only ever seem to chase you for sex? I’ve had hundreds of women ask me what to do when guys just see them as a sexual object, and the answer is twofold: (a) Cut off the wrong ...

The 4 Traits Men Want in a Woman {WATCH} In my programs I often talk about what makes a woman irreplaceable to a man. What does that one woman who seems to effortlessly get into relationships and have men wanting to marry her possess that...

You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...

Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...

Love & Money: 5 Awkward Questions Answered One thing no one ever warns you about happy relationships is just how many awkward conversations they can require you to have. And despite all the big ones of politics, religion and family – I fin...

How to BELIEVE You're Worthy of Love You see the popular person at the center of the party. Or maybe just your friends, letting loose and holding court with ease. Yet, you’re standing alone. “It’s hopeless,” you think. “I’m j...

Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in ...