We always talk about Black women and how they can’t date White men. Well, there are those women that only date White men. I remember a pal of mine telling me once that she will never get married to Black man. And even as kids, when playing make believe, she was always married to a White guy.
The reason for women like her who only date white men may be very similar to the reasons why most Black women only date Black men … attraction. Some also feel that Black men treat them better than any other man ever could, and they feel that they’d rather have what they know instead of experimenting with what they don’t know.
Some Black women are just not physically attracted to Black men. And as much as parents usually like hooking us up with people of our own race, well it reaches a time when you have to be honest with yourself. Imagine my pal for example: As a child, her first crush was Adam Sandler, then as she got older, she fell in love with Mel Gibson. This doesn’t mean that Black men aren’t handsome – they are just not her type.
Some also feel that White men (not ALL but many) find black women to be remarkable in every sense of the word; hence Black women tend to gravitate towards those affections. Much as her husband treats her better than any man ever had, one lady admits that she has been with some White men that disgusted her with their behaviors. But she says that generally, older White men and very mature on a broader level than with Black men on many levels.
Some are just wildly turned on by the differences … skin color, hair, being raised in different cultures, music, foods … the list is endless. Its all about the desire for the mysterious and unknown. And for some, its just pure love because there are those that forget that we are ‘black’ and ‘white’ and just coincidentally happened to fall in love with a White guys.
One thing we all have to remember is that not every White man is a Black woman’s dream. It all depends on the individual … good and bad comes in all colors.
With that said, the generic phrase – ‘It should be about love and not color’ – is cute. But in this case, not entirely truthful. Its not only about love. Much as love gets cultivated eventually, there is physical attraction and a declaration to date only one race. Racist or preference?
It’s about preference and choice – something that those might not understand.
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Yes please. Share your thoughts.
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I’m here to officially, set the record straight. The reason the white men are attracted to the dark part of the chicken, is because they originate from us. White men will always and forever be attracted to us, the African American true blooded black women. Allow me to get a little deeper with our history. No, we are not conservative nor are we promiscuous, we just know innately how to love PROPERLY. No one on the face of this earth can EVER compare to the black woman. Did you know that our origins are of GREATNESS? Why wouldn’t you be attracted to that. I know I would. White men are attracted to us in the most elusive way. We are the Mother of all civilization, therefore cementing our birth to what you mere mortals call LIFE.
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Personally i prefer white men, and it not the money, I just get this tingle when i see a cute one. ^ _^
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I believe some the of the reasons as to why black women date white men only is because maybe their pass relationship they might of have.Or it could be what we always say it is, their preference. It could be the type of vibe they get when they see or are around a white man. Or it can be from what they read in these many articles, that white men are more caring, considerate and loving- Maybe they base their love life on that. Some black women may not want the ideal relationship for a black female. We might want to come out of the box, our comfort zone, and try and want something different. I’m just going on with what i think. This is why we all have a preference. Now I have never dated outside my race before and would like to have that experience and see where it may go. I agree with paramore that its not about the money etc. I also think its what your mind and your heart tells you.
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WELL SAID,CHLOE89. YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY TOGETHER YOUNG LADY .YOU LAST SENTENCE SAYS IT ALL. MIND AND HEART,WHEN THEY BOTH WORK TOGETHER,WOW! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN CARES!
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I personally prefer white, men, but i dont exclude myself from other races though. It is never an issue of money, because most of the time i make more money than my significant other.
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thanks for your insight serenity33.
Hot debate. What do you think?
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I like dating white men because there is something erotic about it. I cannot explain it and I am not saying it does not exist with the same races, I am just giving you my experience.
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ALSO WELL SAID LACRYMOSA777! LIKE CHLOE89 SAID. MIND-HEART=EROTIC. YES,THEY CAN GO GOOD TOGETHER! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN
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White men have been my interest since grade 3. I grew up in a predominantly white environment and went to predominantly white schools until my last two years of undergrad. I have not hatred in my heart towards black men, but I am more attracted to men outside of my race…physically and romantically. With the type of personality I have, I have found myself to me VERY compatible to white men.
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I can totally relate with this comment. When I was 5 I had my 1st kiss from a white guy, I grew up in a predominantly white area and when I was around black people, they didn’t accept me because I didn’t speak ebonics or live in the projects. Other cultures (mainly white) accepted me for me. As far as dating, I’ve found that most white men are more caring and lovable than black men. Where I live there is a huge shortage of educated, ambitious black men. Not to mention men who are ready to settle down. I love the way white guys look, to me they are soooooo sexy. I love their voice (it seems to sound more young) I love everything about them. My boyfriend is in the navy and he looks beautiful in uniform lol Best thing is, we are compatible. He grew up around black people, I grew up around white, so no need to explain myself or him explain himself. We like things that constantly change and want a family soon. Can’t beat that. It’s what your heart desires.
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Amen to that!! No wonder you can relate
I wish you and you guy in the best. White men do look great in uniform 
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Just another bitter black man that handle the fact we don’t want your trifling asses anymore….
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Cracking up like no tomorrow! Now you know you are so wrong for that – NOT! You are so right for telling the TRUTH.
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I must agree with you Cynamyn. I, too, was raised in a predominately white neighborhood and have ALWAYS been attracted to white men (even thought there was a gorgeous Japanese gymnast in collage who was quite handsome and sweet). I have only dated white men my entire life and still continue to enjoy the company of white men. I, too, have found myself quite compatible to white men, hence my joining this website!
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ANTHONY2012,IF YOU FEEL BLACK WOMEN ARE AT THE BOTTOM OF THE TOTEM POLE,WHO PUT THEM THERE? THE BLACK MAN HAD THEM FRIST.IF THE WHITE MAN WANTS TO BRING THEM TO THE TOP,MORE POWER TO THEM ! ANTHONY,I THINK YOU NEED TO FIND A GOOD WHITE WOMAN TO BRING YOU TO THE TOP OF YOUR SO CALLED TOTEM POLE! EDDYREADY
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Awwwwwwwwwwww right now (laughing hysterically)! Absolutely love that comment =)
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Hi Kyna,
I’m glad you found happiness in the men you chose. Also, its nice to see people going after what they really want instead of keeping their feelings suppressed due to what this racist society may think of them.
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HEY:,CYNAMYN82,I LIKED WHAT YOU SAID.WE MAY LIVE IN A RACIST SOCIETY BUT GOOD PEOPLE LIKE US DO NOT HAVE TO ABIDE BY IT ! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN CARES!
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I just dropped my this blog, I normally post on another blog, however I just wanted to add, a nickels worth.
After Scoff and I got togeather way or should I say way-way back in our younger day, I thought about dating just white men. Again being at an all black college, (Florida A&M1966-1970) that was not really an option, Thank God I didn’t, as I must say dating black men is not different than dating white men, some you so to speak click with some you just don’t.
After my first husband passed away, I dated several black men some were very nice, but even at my age there was just no spark, I was looking for something at times I really couldn’t explain it just that era where you know that it’s right.
I will regress to something my late father passed on kind of an anlogy, if a pair of shoes don’t feel right when you first put them on, what makes you think that they will fit in 6 months.
When I first ran into Scoff after 30 plus years, we talked on the telephone for God only knows how many hours. Then we and say we because both of us wanted to be sure, decided to meet for coffee at a Denny’s little did we know after two hours of talking that we would be invovled to the depth we are.
I knew that after date if you can call it that, the SPARK was there, I had to fight with myself, to keep from just saying Scoff your place or mine, lolol. We laugh about that now, then he reminds me of our first kiss, and what I said oh my God I kissed a white boy what will people think.
Just passing on a little wisdom, not much but a little, lolo
Love and God Bless
Sarah
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Sarah I glad you and Scoff still had that spark after 30+ plus years, so what did your daughters say when you told them that you had a boyfriend and that he was a wm??? We know what you grand-daughter had said, that he made you happy and that you laugh.
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Sarah I’m glad you and Scoff still had that spark after 30+ plus years, so what did your daughters say when you told them that you had a boyfriend and that he was a wm??? We know what you grand-daughter had said, that he made you happy and that you laugh.
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Ms. Chocolatladi
One of them the oldest, is pretty much okay with me seeing a white man as she is fully aware of our past history, as long as I’m happy. She has met Scoff twice even surprised me with the comment Moma your very lucky to have a true gentleman in your life, he treats you like a Queen. The younger one is very reserved, I can tell she is not comfortable with a white man so to speak in the family, the three encounters that Scoff has been around I noticed she made no attempt to engage him in any conversation.
Scoff and I have made them fully aware of our fiances, we are not wealthy yet we have substanial holdings, to ease any unspoken concerns I gave each of them a copy of my will each will get 50% of my assets.
Will we ever marry, maybe right now we both are content with our current status, at times I may spend several days at Scoff’s then my place for a week or so with Scoff visiting a few days just what ever works for us.
My one sister Ann visits us often, her favorite joke is
Love Sarah
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That was nice Sarah:) You are lucky to have him around to spoil and to take care of you. If something happens to my father and my mother was to remarry it would be prob. be a WM. ‘Cause she is just that type of girl….
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Black Women in the US have finally wisenned up & are exercising
their options to date/marry outside their race rather than carrying
the burden of keeping the Black race together by holding out for the ideal Black man!
I say “finally” because having grown up in Europe, where Interracial marriages
between Black Women & White men or other races has been the norm for decades,
it has only been in the last 20 or so years that the number of Black Women/White Men marriages
have on the upswing.
Better late than never.
Black Women graduate from colleges & grad school
at higher percentages than Black Males.
Black Males that are highly educated tend to date outside their race
White/Spanish/Asian women, at greater percentages than Black Women.
ie. Black date outside their race at a greater percentage than Black Women!
According to 2010 polls, Asian Women/White Men are the greatest percentage
of interracial marriages, followed by Black Men/White Women!
As an Ivy League educated Black female who is a lawyer, married
to a White man who is an Investment Banker, I can tell you that
I was simpley found all the qualities in my
hubby that I wanted, regardless of race.
I will also tell you that more White men asked me out than Black men,
so the odds were stacked! In the 10 years of dating in my 20s before getting
married, I would say about 20 White guys asked me out, compared to
2 Black guys!
True love is color blind.
Also race does not dictate similarity!
The notion that one will have more in common with
someone of the same race is flawed, since no race
is a monolithic group.
All Black people do not share the same culture simply because
of their skin color. All Black people do not share the same ideologies or
views on life.
Both my hubby & I grew up in upper middle class households, valued education,
shared the same religious & political views.
The only difference is that I am Black (mini version of Naomi Campbell) and
he is White (looks like Tom Brady)
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Changing times:
Recently I had lunch with one my cousins, noticing she was rather distraught, I questioned her if some thing was amiss. After some subtle prodding she finally divulged that her youngest daughter who is in her last year of college was involved with a white man. Being like the ol’woman I am, I just had to ask some questions, as to the character, where did they meet, what does the future have in store, oh y’all know the regular drill.
Almost in tears she started filling in the blanks he was in graduate school getting his master’s in some sort of high powered science type field, (hmmm I thought okay this means probably a good income), they have been in a steady relationship for over 6 months. Fumbling in her purse she pulls out a photograph and hands it to me. Examining the photograph I noticed it’s a group of what appears to be ordinary college students, few black and few white, I did note my cousin’s daughter on the front row. I then asked is the boy in this group, she nodded yes, as she reached over and pointed him out. I commented wow is is very handsome, tall well built blond hair. Holding back her tears she replied her father and I have tried so hard to instill in her not to bring no white boy home when she was growing up, and now look at her she actually flaunts it right in front of us as well as the rest of the family and friends.
Setting back I again asked some blunt questions, does he treat her well, is this a serious relationship, adding as an after thought does she appear to be happy and comfortable with the relationship. Sipping my coffee I kinda let these questions or comments sink in.
Breaking the silence, she mumbled yes she does, and the young man is a very hard worker and already has a very good paying job in a lab somewhere. (again I’m thinking things could be a hell of a lot worst besides him being white) I couldn’t stand it anymore I had to offer my advice just support her and let things work out God has a plan trust him.
Driving home I thought back to some of my white friends through the years and the dilemma they had with Don’t bring no black boy home.
Thought I would just share this, kinda of interesting.
Love and God Bless
Sarah
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No Shaggy138…Is not common in black families to not want thier daughter to date outside their race…My family do nt have a problem with me dating a white a guy, not at all and I love white man because they are loving, caring, romantic,easy to be with etc…I have some friends dating white guy and they are happy to be together as well as their family are happy for them…There are some black family having a problem with their daughter/son dating white people, just like there are some white family having a problem with their daughter/son dating outside their race, but there are some white/black family who dont have a problem with their relatives dating outside their race, so it just depend…Good luck on finding your right black woman again…
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I find that last comment very interesting, considering the hatred I got from my ex’s family. They could not stand the fact that she was dating a white guy, even though I treated her and her son great, was loving and nurturing, was finishing my masters and had a great job, and she was happy. The pressure from her twin sister and father got to her after 3 years of dating and 2 years engaged, and she broke it off and cut me out of her and her son’s life completely.
I was personally shocked, as I thought it would be my family that would have the issue with it. Surprisingly all my parents said was “Are you happy? Is she a good person and a good mother? That’s all we care about” This after having heard plenty of use of the n-word and racist jokes my whole life, was quite a surprise.
Is it common for black families to not want their daughters dating outside of their race?
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Hey Shaffy138. I can’t speak for all African-American families, but for mine; In the past, when it was not common or popular to date outside of your race, I was doing it. My family never verbally expressed thier disappointment, but I could tell by comments they said about others that they did not agree with it. Later it was explained to me that my family knew that I would be successful some day and felt that I should keep my talents within my race to further my race. I always found this ironic because I am African-American and Native American and have cousins of every hue. Today, they have grown and just want what is best for me, whatever that might be.
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Having raised two daughters, we had this discussion come up several times through the years. Being in a military enviroment, there exposure to many cultures, more so when we were stationed in Europe limited there dating choices as often they had dates with white boys. Still in all when it came to marriage they both married black men. Now was this a concous choice I have not idea, one of those husbands turned out to be a big bust. The other one is a hard working honest man, that any woman would want to be with. So who knows,
from my expierence, it’s the character not the color. Of course I can say this all now, regressing to the mid 1960′s when Scoff and I were invovled, we both would of been run out of the county, if not physically harmed. I do truly believe that our families would of disowned us, like I said changing times, not changing hearts or mind set. Just adding my thoughts, like many we all have our opinions.
Love and God Bless
Sarah
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I just think we have to be careful not to generalize too much by saying things like, white men treat you well and black men don’t. It can’t be that uniform but rather varies from individual to individual. I’ve been treated very well as well as very poorly by both black and white men.
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Is it fair to say the same thing about Black men? That they are jealous of the white man’s high ranking in the world and the many “opportunities” they are presented with over black men?
“its funny cause they be quick to be ignorant wen a blk guy is with a white girl ..lol.. they the biggest hypocrites around”
The same goes for black men! I was out with my girls one night when a couple, a black woman and white man, walked by holding hands. A group of black guys walking behind them made it their business to make a comment about them, loud enough for everyone around to hear it, “There is nothing worse than seeing a bad black woman with a white man!”
I personally have never understood why SOME black women have an issue with black men being with white women. You fall for whoever you connect with!
“white men are just living out there fantasy and blk women want a piece of what white women been gettin all along…”
And the same can’t be said about black men with white women? Wanting to be catered to? Treated like a king as I often hear “black women don’t do for their men”? Your statement goes both ways and can be said from both ends.
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So true SoDamnSweet, I’ve personally lived that story about the catcalls many times. I even had coworkers confront her and say stuff in front of me, since we both worked together for a time, hence how I met her. From white friends it was all the ignorant questions about what is sex like and s*** like that, but most of the black friends seemed to take issue with it.
I just assumed it was the south side of Chicago that’s like that, since nobody else seemed to have that kind of a problem. God knows there is ignorance in abundance in all races there.
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Not now, nor ever have I been rejected by my own race.
“we just would possibly have atleast one thing to ourselves without, other races getting the grand share n profit, beneifits of it …..put simply…by all means date all the black gurlz you want please”
And that is what exactly? A better question… how do you go from this:
“Black women and white men , I think there perfect for each other !… Know that there together Maybe just maybe they can leave the rest of us who date outside our race alone becausr instead of eye balling , makin noises , laughing , and raising eyebrows they can join in to there real wants and needs disguised by envy and hate”
to the post above? You said “most black people arent too educated on who they are”
but do YOU know who you are? You flop back and forth between disliking black women to “wanting one thing” to yourself “without other races getting the grand share n profit”. It’s clear you have an issue with black women through your rants, raves, and contradictory statements. So why do you even care what we do? If we choose to date white men then that’s what we choose to do! You said yourself you date outside your races so what’s the problem? It’s ok for black men to date outside their race but not women? Typical. If you don’t like black women or the way black people operate then don’t associate yourself with them! It’s as simple as that.
Please take your own advice… “leave the rest of us who date outside our race alone” and go do you! “The rest of us who date outside our race” catch enough backlash and don’t need it from a bitter person who doesn’t practice what they preach.
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@ SoDamnSweet
AMEN!!!
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Anthony2012, I’m not sure if you really feel the redoric that you are spewing, or if your just saying it in order to spark debate. One thing I can say is that it is sad. You made reference to GOD in one of your post, but you spew so much hatred with your words. When GOD created man, he did not say that it would be inproper or a sin to date someone that didn’t look exactly like you.
As for black woman not knowing who they really are, I think you are again in error. I think most black women have overcome so many odds that they know exactly who they are and where they’ve come from. Knowing this makes us that much stronger and confident in ourselves and the choices that we make. Because we know who we are, we are ok dating outside of the box that society has put every race in, in order to prolong racism and hatred. I refuse to be put into a box, or to ever make excuses for what I choose to do with my life.
My last boyfriend was Asian. The Asian community was not thrilled about me dating him, nor was the black community. I did not hate them for their thoughts though, I PITYED THEM FOR THEIR CLOSEDMINDEDNESS, WITH A SMILE.
Be Blessed
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@ SoDamnSweet
I add: HALLELUJAH!!! Amen!!!
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LOL…If he hates the fact that Black women like white men, he should just go to black planet and look for love there….simple!
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LOL…I think he is just mad because he can’t get the attention he wants from women. That is why he comes here and harasses them. It’s pathetic if you ask me.
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Phonys from the fakes, LOL….they are the same thing. He is so angry with the fact that some black women like white men that he can get his word and thoughts straight. This is just hilarious.
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Anthony2012 you prove your ignorance…you also prove the reason why so many black women are considering dating outside of their race…..the foolishness and childness you exhibit unfortunately is very common and might I add is also very typical in many confused brothers. If you don’t like black women dating men of other races…maybe you should act like a gentleman instead of a childish teen and break the stereotype.
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.Some white men – like me – adore the virtues and values that black women have. Compared to white women. Educated black men often are considerate too, but others take a black woman for granted. And request obedience. I love what these black women in here say. !. because they are considerate, and has a warm heart. Others don´t.. It all comes down to the person. I am so glad that more and more black women educate themselves, So that they get a proper appreciation of who they are. Gender roles are also so much more easy with a black woman. Which makes it a bliss to be with a black woman. Black women wants to be proud of their man. Which is natures meaning. We should respect and love each other for who we are. I love the Obama family for their devotion to each other. I have met so many black women who was molested by black family members or black men, that they would never consider a black man as a possible spouse. Love doesn´t have to do with color but respect, love and appreciation Some black women will abuse your kindness, but that is – to me- a matter of lack of self esteem. My white family are racists, but I have NEVER met that among black parents. My black women’s parents have respected me for who I am, and their father have been like brothers to me. . I try my best to be loving and caring, and don´t expect to understand all the choices and desires that my black woman have . But at the end of the day I know that she want us to be happy together. Black women can be tough on each other. But not on me. I´m a medical scientist, and neither a white or black women understand what I do. But a black woman appreciate that I do my best to make a difference, and my hard work. Praise be on the nature of black women. We laugh, have fun, and are still are able to be real. It is – to me- a bliss that a black woman hold on to her basic values. Yes black women can be stubborn if they have big responsibilities. ( I have a boy of seven with the former Chief of Finance in H-P. And she put her job before building a family and brought our son into foster care for 6 years.. That is just not acceptable to me. But a lot black women want to do their best. Also at their job. That was to much for me, since I loved her to death. ) I once landed a senior job for an African woman in an international company. She was greeted by the CEO himself, and presented as their new collegue, But she was too scared take a simple test, and was insecure about her own abilities. So I praise that a lot of black women get a descent comprehension of their own virtues, and educate themselves. BTW. Where has all the Goddess´s gone. ??. A black woman is often like a goddess to me, though I treat her as my beloved. Praise also to the initiatives to educate black women, especially in Africa. Since an educated woman will do her best to secure good health and prosperity to her children.
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Some of us only date white men because they are better.
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LOL….and the really attractive and secure black men don’t feel the need to come here and make stupid comments about who black women date
No wonder you were called a coon!
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WAY TO GO BABY GIRL! SPUNKY,I LIKE THAT! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN CARES!
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LMAO…chocolate09, your posts had me dying too. If it talks and acts like one, then that’s what it is. I don’t apologize for anything I said to him or any hateful imbecile.
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Oh and why do you care so much about what I’m doing with my account?? Again, another insecure and unattractive black man cannot fathom the truth I’m speaking. You have been told to go find other women who want black men, yet and still you harass the black women who prefer white men by saying stupid stuff?? LOL…I find that hilarious. You know that you can’t measure up to white men when it comes to there looks and ability to hold a relationship and you are bitter about it. You have no game, Anthony!! If you did, you would not be here taunting black women who CLEARLY don’t want you….SAD!!! Instead, you would go on about your business picking up other chicks on the site and in real life. Now go away!!! You cramping up our flow!!!
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KEEP TALKING SWEETHEART! STRONG BLACK WOMEN ARE SO BEAUTIFUL. EVEN WITHOUT A PHOTO! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN
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I take that back…you are not cramping up our flow. You are just making us laugh and making it harder for other black men to be taken seriously.
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chocolate09, you are too funny….I can’t stop laughing
Doing laundry & checking the blog in search of entertainment…GOT IT!
I’m tired of the………. BLOCKERS too.
Now….SHOO FLY!!!
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WE ALL GOT IT , KISSIME ! CHOCOLATE09,IS THE BOMB! AWSOME ! EDDYREADY/BIGTEN
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Nothing wrong with liking someone who looks different_OPPOSITE ATTRACT_EVEN GOD DIDN’T LIK THE DISCRIMINATION AGAINST MOSES AND THE ETHIOPIAN AFRICAN
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There is nothing wrong with having a preference and nobody needs to approve of the reasons for your preference.
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TRUE THAT SS.THAT’S WHAT BEING AN ADULT AND LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.IF WE MAKE MISTAKES WE LEARN FROM THEM.I THINK SOME PEOPLES PROBLEM IS THEY ARE MORE INTERESTED IN WHAT SOMEONE ELSE IS DOING AND THEY LET THEIR OWN LIFE SLIDE.
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I actually agree with the point that I think Empress is making here. Yeah, I’m one of the women she addresses because I do have a preference but there’s no need to make generalizations about entire groups of people. I may prefer white men, physically, in a lot of ways, but I know that they’re not all great. Similarly, not all black men are bad. There are a few douche bags who keep contaminating this thread with their hatred (like you Anthony) but they don’t represent the entire group. We don’t need to stoop to the level of some of the negative men we’ve encountered by making hasty generalizations. I also have to admit that there may be some truth to her claim that this preference, for at least some of us, is influenced by the media. I wouldn’t cite it as the main reason but that influence is impossible to ignore so there may something to it. However, the causes, whatever they may be and if they can be defined, don’t have to invalidate our feelings. We like what we like so we act on it. It’s that simple and there’s nothing wrong with it
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Well…..you better get used to seeing black women getting with and preferring men of other races (especially white men, because they are so HOT) if you are joining an INTERRACIAL dating site, LOL. You’re hilarious!
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THANK YOU, CHOCOLATE09! NOTHING ELSE NEEDS TO BE SAID. WE MISSED YOU.GLAD YOUR BACK! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK,BABY GIRL!
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Ya’all are cracking me up like no tomorrow.
Believe it or not, I saw not one, not two, but three interracial couples today and I was like so happy for each and every one of the black women that were with their loving, caring, sensitive, and sincere white men. One couple had a newborn baby and was coming home from the hospital, and that was such a beautiful sight. Another couple sat across the table from me while eating breakfast and his immediate family (mother, father, and sister) was starting the day off to treat his lovely lady to breakfast for her birthday, and the other couple was hugged up in a grocery store waiting in line.
The word is out that the black women should connect with a white man if she wants to be in a meaningful relationship.
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VERY SAD COMMENTS ! BLKPRIDE? YOU MEAN TO TELL ALL OF US ON HERE YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN A SUCCESSFUL BLACK MAN IN YOUR SO CALLED WHITE MAN SOCIETY. I SEE THEM EVERYDAY! I BET IF THE TRUTH WAS KNOWN,YOU ARE NOT DOING TO BAD FOR YOURSELF,RIGHT NOW.
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How is it that black women belong to black men?
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@BookKitty123
Good point honey,nobody belongs to any body! It’s called freedom! Freedom to make are own choices in life.EddyReady cares!
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Black women are women first and foremost and like all women we are entitled to the men of our own choosing. We are not going to let rhetoric such “earth mother” etc detract us from choosing mates that meet our desires and standards.
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Oh your voice was heard, but we aren’t listening. The time you spent typing in this forum was a complete waste. Now run along to blackplanet.com. You will find plenty of black women who want black men there, since you have no problem in that department, haha. Not very man of us care what saddens you or who breast fed you, LOL.
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So he joined this site to harass women about their choices. Apparently we owe black men something simply because we share a similar phenotype.
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LMBO…SS you are funny and you are real!
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SS AND THE OTHER LADIES ON THIS SITE YOU ALL OWE NO MAN ANYTHING! JUST KEEP LOOKING AHEAD AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING! YOU LADIES ARE DOING JUST FINE. IF YOU RUN INTO A BUMP ALONG THE WAY YOU SMOOTH IT OUT OR GO AROUND IT AND KEEP ON PUSHING! EVERYBODY KNOW’S BEHIND EVERY GOOD MAN IS A GOOD WOMAN SHOWING HIM THE WAY!
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chocolate09,
I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING!!! I’m in tears! :=p :..)
I keep imagining a sad baby being breastfed
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KISSIME,CORRECT ME IF I’M NOT RIGHT HERE,BUT I THOUGHT ONCE YOU BREAST FEED A BABY THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO GO TO SLEEP. HOW COME BLKPRIDE IS STILL AWAKE! LOL!
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I don’t know, EDDYREADY/BIGTEN. Maybe she’s not lactating.
I think it’s time for a Breast Pump!!!
He probably sucked her dry
I don’t know about you all, but I find fussy babies extremely annoying!
But this baby definitely needs to be MUZZLED!!!!
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I’m laughing hysterically because I was thinking what you already typed! He is the classic example of why I don’t waste my time with black guys.
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BLKPRIDE,COULD YOU BREAK THAT DOWN INTO UNDERSTABLE ENGLISH,PLEASE.MAYBE YOU HAVE ALREADY BEEN TO CHOCOLATE09′S BLACK PLANET! YOUR TALKING IN OUTER SPACE!
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Ignorance is not bliss. There are consequences to every action. Eventually one will deal with their ignorance. I know your heart pumps when doing the wrong thing–even the ignorant has a conscience.
When we live our lives with love in our hearts because of what we all have learn in life-base on our individual history, we will live blissfully in knowing we are not hurting anyone because of who we love.
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Why do some BW only date WM? ” BECAUSE THEY CAN “!
Regardless of their reasons, it boils down to them having the freedom to do so and with that said, we should leave it at that. As BM and BW some of us take others of us dating or marrying IR too personal, some of us see it as if we were rejecte because they didn’t chose us and it’s not so.
I understand the natural possessiveness and positive jealousy that comes with belonging to an ethnic group and wanting to see your own togehter and making eachother happy and there’s nothing wrong at all but lets face reality, some people will date and marry outside of their ethnic or cultural group.
Me personally, I’m too busy to worry about why a sister is dating who she’s dating.
1) I’m already married
2) It’s no gurantee that had we met prior I would have wanted to date her or vice versa
3) By her dating who she’s dating it leaves me free to experience the happiness that I’ve already found, so why should I be mad, there’s no harm / no foul!
People lighten up a bit, life is too precious and too short to dwell on why someone is dating or marrying someone outside of their ethnic group, go out there and find the one thats looking for you because they’re out there and they maybe be from your own ethinic group and if not so be it, receive love from the one who wants to give it to you!
I’m happy when I see my sister happy even if she’s not with my brother ( that’s who I’d love to see her with), I’m happy and I’m hoping that she’s getting the love that she so rightfully deserves.
No hatting going on here!
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@ NOPLAYER
THANK YOU!!!!!! Coming from you, that comment is a breath of fresh air. People need to chill out and mind their darn business, instead of getting offended by the preferences of others.
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Oh and another thing….you’re right. Some black women date white men only, because they can (and want to). Plain and simple.
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TRUE THAT,CYNAMYN82,BUT WHAT ABOUT NOPLAYER! THE MAN’S GOT HIS ACT TOGETHER! WHEN HE TALKS YOU WANT TO LISTEN,NOT LIKE THAT OUTER SPACE STUFF BLKPRIDE BE TALKING!
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NOPLAYER , I’ve missed you. And I love you. It’s so good to see you.
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BLKPRIDE,THANK YOU FOR CALLING ME THE OLD WHITE GUY.THAT’S ABOUT THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE SAID ON THIS SITE THAT MAKES ANY SENCE.I MAY BE OLD BUT I’M LIKE A BOTTLE OF FINE WHISKEY,I JUST GET BETTER WITH AGE,AND I DO KNOW HOW TO TREAT A BLACK LADY.MAYBE WHEN YOU QUIT BREAST FEEDING AND GROW UP,YOU WILL TOO!
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EDDYREADY/BIGTEN,
I don’t think he’ll ever grow up.
Read between his cries….
He wrote “Tough titty but the milk’s still good” he’ll be flicking & sucking.
As I’ve said…he sucked her dry.
I’m usually kinder than necessary, because I know everyone is fighting some kind of battle.
But you’re messing up my chi.
I’ve been single for almost 3 years—so you all know what that means.
STOP BLOCKING!!!!
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CLOSENESS THAT OTHER RACES DO is a broad statement .
Adolf Hitler killed six million Jews. They were of the same race-White.
The Yugoslav Wars:
Europe’s deadliest since World War II. The first since World War II to be formally judged genocidal. ..resulted in deaths of 140,000 people within 4 years!
Below are Some of the wars of Europe:
Anglo-Irish War
Hungarian–Romanian War
French Revolution
Great Turkish War
Italian Independence wars
First Italian Independence
Second Italian Independence War
Third Italian Independence War
Livonian War
Napoleonic Wars
Russian Civil War
Russian Revolution
Russo–Swedish Wars
Swedish–Novgorodian Wars
Russo–Swedish Wars
Finnish War
Spanish Civil War
Turkish Invasion of Cyprus
War of Austrian Succession
War of the Polish Succession
War of the Portuguese Succession
World War I (1914–1918)
World War II (1939–1945)
Soviet-Japanese Border Wars
Yugoslav Wars
These wars have killed the spirits of humanity.
Yes, I’m sure a lot of the older ethnic groups of the above wars are holding grudges against each other. I have a few Bosnian & Croatian friends.
African Americans & Blacks in general–we have closeness. So stop trying to separate & conquer, BLKPRIDE.
People like you are the reasons unnecessary wars continues.
In addition, you better hope God bless you by allowing you to live to see the age 60. And hopefully you will not be disrespected & called an old man as if aging is a disgrace.
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BLKPRIDE ,
You’re the black version of Ku Klux Klan. You’re an extremist.
Pride should be a pleasant, exhilarating, emotion.
But the pride you display is a complex secondary emotion. The only love you have is of your own excellence. You have yet to master the true meaning of pride.
You lack humility.
The language-based interaction you’re using is a form of Air-Spray. You’re using negative psychology to trap people into your cult. You’re full of fear and hate.
…You’re old enough to know using Air-spray only makes crap smell like shitty-flowers–it’s a combo. And it’s not pleasant to our senses.
Your pride is consider a sin.
In the process of trying to manipulate black women into dating black men you’re trying to cause damage– for your own gratification. It seems you think by ill-treating others by bringing up history (when it is obvious you’re not going back enough to make your point) to your own superiority the greater- because you are a hateful man.
I know my history. I know of most of our history.
The history of men kind-period. It has not been pretty.
Your picture seems so peaceful. But you’re not. Your writing gives away the amount of hate in your heart.
Your pride is for satisfaction with meeting the personal goals set by yourself:
To manipulate people into your beliefs
This is an interracial dating site. Not a Cult recruitment site. And definitely Not a hateful site.
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Long- winded speeches about the Willie Lynch will still not distract black women from exercising their choices. It sounds like pseudo intellectual drivel.
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BLKPRIDE,
I have expressed my opinion about the black women who has disrespected black men.
I believe that too is self-hatred. It’s not ever okay to generalize a whole race base on stupid individual’s behavior. Women or Men upsetting the moral function of any race is to be questioned of their morals.
Love is all around us-Love is within us.
Have you ever been stab by a fellow man/woman?
Sometime the one who has our back is the least expected.
William Lynch, was a White slave owner, in 1712.
He was the evil of his time-amongst others.
My child shall not suffer because of my sins.
The Rwandan Genocide
Between 1970-74 Tutsi’s murdere 250,000 Hutus.
In 1994 the Hutu decided to seek revenge and killed the tutsi Minoriy.
The Power group directed the genocide mass murder of an estimated 800,000 people over the course of 100 days.
The point: Evil-Begets-Evil
My child should not suffer because of their sins.
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@KISSIME
I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID IN YOUR COMMENT. PERSONALLY I HAVE BLACK FRIENDS, WHITE FRIENDS, HISPANIC FRIENDS….ETC TO LABEL ME HATEFUL AND RACIST IS EXTREME. I GOT LOVE FOR ALL!!! HOWEVER, I AM VERY MUCH INTERSETED IN THE RICH HISTORY OF MY PEOPLE AND I PLAN TO ADD TO THAT RICH HISTORY. IF A GERMAN OR IRISH PERSON WANTS TO KEEP THEIR HERITAGE ALIVE THAT DOES NOT MAKE HIM/HER RACIST OR HATEFUL. IT MAKES THEM PROUD!!! PROUD TO BE WHO THEY ARE AND SHARE IT WITH THE WORLD. SO WHY DO I GET THAT LABEL???
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I find it very telling when someone with the moniker Blkpride chooses this forum to express his views about the black community. We all know that quite a bit of black women only date black men and a few date non-black men let alone white men. I question the reasoning of this poster to make comments about white racist Willie Lynch in the discussion about why black women only date white men.
The few black women dating non-black men are in no way destroying the black community. This smacks of an obvious attempt to guilt trip black women who choose to love white men.
If you asked me the destruction of the black community could be attributed to the failure of black men to protect and care for their own offspring (Willie is truly rejoicing).
The latest statistics state that 72% of black children (not biracial) are born out of wedlock. If anyone is truly serious about fostering black pride then the first place would be to start with the fathers of these kids as well as the kids themselves. This would be my last statement on this issue.
I choose to date white men because I am attracted to white men. The fact that white men possess traditional family values is a great selling point.
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BLKPRIDE
your initial comments did not convey peace. The part of history you brought suggested anger. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anyone wanting to stay within their race or be with another. Your comments were bricks to my face & therefore, caused us to -once again lost in translation (for the most part-hopefully)
When I was 6 months pregnant I was hospitalized twice. I was told by my physician there was a high chance of miscarriage. We were devastated. All we wanted was to have our baby boy which was already named a week within our 1st date-a year before conceived.
I remember walking out of the hospital and being winced at by a black man (the dirtiest look I’ve ever gotten) because my husband at the time was holding me & it was obvious we were pregnant, and the father is a white man.
It is great to be proud of your heritage. And sharing it with the world positively is highly appreciated. But constantly having people’s dislikes thrown on your face masked as pride is not needed. At a time of possibly losing my unborn child at 6 months of pregnancy- the look of disgust, the pride one claims in order to hold on to hate and used to make me feel uncomfortable, obligated, unworthy, a traitor, guilt, is never gladly accepted-if gladly or accepted should ever be a perfect fit within the line of sentence within the unacceptable acts of hatred.
You are not the first nor will you be the last to be proud of your race and your rich history.
You are not the first nor the last to try to make one feel ashame because you can not control the affair of the heart.
My message was a state of urgency truthful to my heart. And it was not intended to attempt to change your heart. Nevertheless, your agreement suggest your heart may not be too proud to hold on to the darkness I orriginally believed based on your pasted truth of evil in disguise– as a man from 1772.
So, I think you for a little breath of sunshine.
…oh, I enjoy writing and, at time a little excitement runs away with the pen (in this case,my fingers)
But honestly, the label should not be a bother when you know the truth.
Good Luck in finding the love of your life. Your African Queen, I’m sure will love you dearly.
Kissime.
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These topics are like landmines, one wrong step and boom! I like these topics because they have a way of forcing people to show their hand. They say drunks and mad people are very honest and by reading some of these comments some of you are telling some painful truths.
The fact that these topics become so heated between BM and BW is a tell all sign that there remains an attachment between us even after all of the pain we inflict upon eachother out of our anger and fustration at not being able to get what we want from eachother.
People that no longer care dont waste their time arguing and trying to come to some kind of understanding, no matter how fustrating the process might be, when they’ve given up, they shut up and get to moving.
I’ve found BM and BW who say they exclusively date IR that can really bring the heat during one of these discussion and these are people who claim to have no interest in dating a brother or a sister but they really lay it out on the table when the topics comes up, trust me folks there’s more to it than some of are willing to admit.
So lets see if we can use some of this energy in a more positive manner and try to open up and really get to the heart of the matter.
I’ll be back!
Peace
I
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Attachment between me and black men is inevitable. I exist because of a black man.
No one should ever question the love I have for my people and for myself.
Attachment between me and the human race is beautifully unfathomable.
I would nurse a motherless child.
What would you do if you had 900 days to live?
No need to reply to my question.
Contemplating wouldn’t hurt
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I’ve always said, “you don’t have to date me but I’ll be damned if I let you dog me”!
BW (or anybody for that matter) shouldn’t have to explain why they love whom they love, we have the right to love the one that’s earned our love but we don’t have the right to tear eachother down as a justification for loving who we love.
I find it very suspect when a BM or BW has to find fault and place blame on another black person in an attempt to explain why they’re dating or married IR, to me thats lame as hell and it says more about you as a person than it does the one that your’re dogging out.
It says:
1. You don’t know how to select a mate and as a result you ended up being selected by someone that wrong for you
2. You find it easier to blame others than to take responsibility for the bad choices you’ve made in your love life
3. A quote from gandma, ” If it wakes up next to you, that means you took it home with you!”
I’ll leave that alone! LMAO
I think many of us don’t trully understand the power of the spoken or written word, how many of us have heard, ” and the word became flesh”, meaning that words become things in due time. Words are like the seeds that you sow and one day you’ll have to come back to reap those words that you put out there.
Some of the things we say about eachother is beyond hurtful it’s to the point of being disgraceful. It’s trully speaks to our ignorance, it’s one thing for others to tear you down but when others can sit back drink a coke and eat a bag of popcorn and enjoy the show that we put on, it’s pathetic.
I know some of us do these things out anger, fustration and resentment in response to not feeling valued, respected or loved by eachother but we have to look beyond our pain and get to the source of our pain.
We’ve been engaged in a battle of psychological warfare from day one in this country and the world over as black people and you’d expect assaults to come at you from the outside but it seems that these blows are more damaging when they come from those that you would normally look to shield you from those blows.
It’s one thing for the world to say how great you are but let your mother / father, sister / brother or wife / husband tell you, “you aint shit” then the admiration of the world means nothing to you.
“And the word became flesh”
It’s very difficult to try to love those that are constantly tearing you down, it’s like they team up with your enemies and they work non-stop to berate you. Is it any wonder why some of us are so bitter hateful towards eachother.
As a BM I know what this world has put on us and how we sometimes in our ignorance can become an accompliss to damaging ourselves sometimes beyond repair, so I clearly understand that we’re not whole and we’re not what hour Creator made us in the beginning and if I understand this, that means I have to assist in the restoration process.
Whatever your issues are, I have a responsibility not to piont them out before the world but to cover you and to keep the world from looking in and down on you while you’re in the process of healing, thats what the hood in the term brother / sisterhood is about, it’s about covering, shielding and protecting your brother or sister from hostile outside elements in the environment.
When we tear into eachother and lable eachother we don’t assist in the healing processs we only rip open the wounds and as a result we cause eachother to act out in response to that pain.
Next time you want to open your mouth to tear a brother or a sister down ask this question, WHY?
Why are they angry, overly sensitive, defensive, emotionally distant, unwilling to open up, distrustful, unable to commit, insecure and a whole list of others.
What societal factors; social, political economic, or educational may have played a part in shaping this person’s present reality or do you believe that Black people are just f*cked up naturally.
Many of of know what lies at the root of many of our relationship issues as black people, we know how many of these problems came to be but many of us find it easier to attack eachother than to deal with the reality of our issues and many of us just lack a knowledge of self to even begin to understand why we have some of the problems that we have when trying to relate to eachother.
I find it funny that so many of us on the IR scene want to embrace, heal and restore the world and love everybody else on the planet but remain fragmented and hateful of our ethnic counterpart.
Charity begins at home so why not love?
I’d also feed a hungry child or a dog for that matter but not if it would mean one of my children or my own dog would go hungry, now thats love for ya but most important it’s common sense.
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