Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?
It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.
Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.
However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman’s confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity…᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.
So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?” Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?
Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.
Bottom line, you don’t have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.
oops sorry for the typo…lol
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This is 2011.things has changed,and you love whom you love.Stop bashing and follow your heart.I will and all the bashing will not stop me from love no matter what your race is.Sometimes looking outside the box is the best thing for you.I married outside my race.And will do it again.
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Yeah I have been in a situation where dudes have given me crap for dating a white man, but you know what I am going to date who I want to date. As long as the man I am with treats me right. I don’t see color, I see a wonderful man
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I love wm and forever wil.i guess i was born this way
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I have only to say this; several years ago I had occasion to become involved with a black woman. It wasn’t on purpose, it just happened that way. I later realized that I was not even looking at a huge segment of the available female population. She even seemed surprised when I pursued her as if we were somehow “supposed” to be separate. She was a beautiful, strong, desirable black woman. Even though it didn’t work out over time, she is still my good friend and I lover her very much.
Being a single(divorced) white male, 50 years old, at least 50% of the women in my life are of color and, I have a very strong attraction to them. My ex and my grown children joke about it (good naturedly) “Dad only like black women” but hey, a whole new world and groups of cultures have opened up to me. I feel blessed.
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That was very well said!!! I have also noticed that in interracial relationships, some White men seem to appreciate the very nature of the Black woman. I wear my hair natural and its is curly with alot of frizz to it lol, but however I have noticed that black men tend to veer away from the natural look.
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@ Coach26
I liked your comment,you hit the nail right on the head
! There is nothing more jazzy than a Black women showing her true god givin beauty ! If it’s not broke,don’t try to fix it 
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EddyReady cares !
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I think it is only fair to keep all the options open in love and relationships. This is a very controversial subject still for the day we live in, because there exists so many hidden and unwritten rules of social etiquette that frowns upon interracial dating and marriage. But I married out of my race, and would do it again. I am not ashamed of who I am, I just know what I find attractive in a man and I get drawn to that often before even considering the race. I am not a stereotypical black woman and neither are many others. But sometimes society would like to keep us in a box, neatly wrapped for its own warped purposes. If others can break out of the box, why can’t I?
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Now that I am mature and all grown up, I realize why my father always made sure that his wife and children had the opportunity to reside in a diverse neighborhood. I do not think it is wrong to date a white male. People should date who they feel close to and have real feelings for. Life is good as two,people want it to be. Smile.
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im attracted to features that i dont have, thats how ive been. and its really flattering and also a huge turn on when someone with those features finds interest in me or better yet, finds my features attractive.
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i believe dy reason y dy luv blacks is because of dere god given creature, nd d way d luks. Bt i fink i prefer white guys dan black guys.
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i believe dy reason y dy luv blacks is because of dere god given creature, nd d way d luks. Bt i fink i prefer white guys dan black guys, cus white guys kns hw 2 luv.
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I love white men and always will..:)
Its just inbuilt in me… and will never change my mind..;)
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White, black, yellow, pink or white….she is a woman not a skin colour.
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@Thom Loveless – you are clearly the wisest one here. Great comment.
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what matters is what one feels for the other not colour.
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