Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?
It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is why some white guys are opening themselves to black women? Let’s concentrate on that.
Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.
However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman’s confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity…᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.
So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?” Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?
Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.
Bottom line, you don’t have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.
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Thanks for giving your perspective, Twilight101, but I am looking for post from Black women(not guys because I trust a woman’s perspective on this more than a white guys especially those who go for all types of women) who think they know why white guys are attracted to them. And Black women have ideas why white men are attracted to you and especially the Black women who have white guys that ONLY like black women? That would be truly interesting to know and learn from because that is what the post is about. Not how many different races a guy can be interested in because there are too many guys that are interested in ANY female of ANY race that is attractive and willing and I would like to here from Black women who date men who are ONLY attracted to Black women or white guys who are ONLY attracted to Black women. That would be what the topic of the blog is really about and educational to us curious about the topic of the blog. Thanks.
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Interesting reply and very true.
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I prefer the stereotype like “black women are sexually conservative sluts?
You can tell the attitudes from these articles come from people who never date interracially.
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I’ve never dated a white guy before. I am intrested hince that’s the reason I’m here. As I write I realize I’m not answering the question that was being asked, cause idk the answer. To tell the truth I had no idea that it was such an intrest! I guess since it’s not as common as the blk dude white girl. From my prospective or maybe it was just an stereotype I’ve grown to beleive is white men don’t really find blk women attractive. Alot of us dnt have the long flowing hair, and were let’s say meatier, we have “the attitude” ( which is so not true) that makes us not dateable. I wanna meet that guy who finds me to be just another person who he likes for whatever reason and our race not even be an issue. Neither I or any of my friends have dated someone white so I can’t speak on the subject. I bet ur probally going ” what the hell you comment for” ? Cause I can (lol) j/k idk really just wanted to say my two cents!
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I have recently entered into my first relationship with a black woman. I really didnt even think about it-this woman just blew me away from the beginning. I’ve never been against dating black women, it just never happened. Maybe I just wasnt exposed enough for it to happen. Either way, I’m glad it has happened, as this could potentially be a wonderful relationship. I’ve dated white women my whole life and none of those have worked out! lol I only hope that the race issue isnt/doesnt become a problem for her…that would be a huge dissapointment.
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I’m Happy for you Jackson, I hope it does work out for both of you.
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I don’t really know what to think about how this article is written. Parts of it appear to reinforce stereotypes and continue to keep up the “hype” and then there are other things stated that makes sense for more or less, I guess.
I sometimes wish articles like these could actually be written from a White Male’s perspective as opposed to someone offering up a suggestive “assumption “about BW/WM thoughts on the issue.
I can tell you a few of the things that I find very attractive about white men, and I must admit that my opinion is mostly based on the ones I went to college with, worked with and dated. Most were raised to be solid paternal parents, and a super strong drive to succeed. They exude perseverance to me. What woman doesn’t find that attractive.
When I dated this guy a few years ago, during our relationship, I don’t think I have ever felt so protected and appreciated. I am confident, that’s just how I was raised but it’s different with white men. I love the fact that they know exactly what they want in life at a very early age, WM will tell you exactly how they feel, aren’t ashamed to fail, and can admit their mistakes. I love a man that can be gentle yet strong at the same time.
But this is from my personal experience.
shotgun007
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Good Morning to All,
@Shotgun007
It is good to read that you have had some pretty good experiences with white men and that you have included them as eligible for dating. I hope that your expierences continue to be positive while dating white men but be aware there are some bad ones out there as well. I hope that who ever you find and fall in love with he will treat you special and will love you endlessly.
@friendly13
Hope all is going well with you and your family. Just wanted to say hello and let you know still enjoy reading your posts ad I like this new thread. Blessings to you!
@Jackson1223
Sounds like you have been taken by this young lady. I hope that all goes well and your love for her and her love for you grows. Love does conquer all and it will be all that matters between the two of you. Good Luck and blessings to you both.
@stop6chix
Well you may have never dated a white man but you have been tinking about it and that is a beginning. If you are open to it it will happen. Ther is a white man out ther that will find you attractive and want to be friends and that may grow. I hope that who ever you do fall in love with that you will both love each other for ever. Blessings!
@Nawl
I Hopeall is going well with you and hope that you are not to busy to enjoy yorself. Life goes by so fast and many forget to enjoy each day. I hope that you take te time. Blessings!
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@tattered2death
Hello! Hope all is going well with you. I hope you are stil reading this thread. I don’t know about you but I likethe new look. Bless you dear!
Scoff / Sarah
I just wanted to sy hello and looking forward to the rest of the story. Blessings!
bamababe2k9
Hello to you as well hope all is well wiith you. Hope you still read this thread and are reading some of the new posts. Good to see more people with their own stories and thoughts on why white men love black women. Blessings!
Hello to Godiva61 and Chocolatladi I hope you both are doing well. Blessings!
God Bless!
Danny
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