Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug 07

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   master4slu says:
    Posted: 3 days ago

    I love women and do my best not to judge on superficial things. What is most important is how she treats me and others. I really hate fake people that say one thing to your face and another to your back. I still believe women are Gods gift to man, and should be treated as such.

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  2.   AHappyLady says:
    Posted: 5 days ago

    I never explain why I am attracted to white men. I just am. Period. Always have been. Some people like chocolate ice cream, some vanilla. And who says you MUST be attracted to someone who has the same ethnic background? Who made that rule? I ignore all the naysayers, the people who say I have 'self-hate' (sooo ridiculous). I have never paid those people any attention whatsoever. I am glad there are sites like these where you find people who, finally, are not afraid to acknowledge their preference. Good luck to everyone...myself included!

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  3.   Tre66 says:
    Posted: 19 Sep

    Skin color, body features, more willing to open themselves up

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  4.   Chris2791 says:
    Posted: 09 Sep

    I can't really put a finger on why i like black women. I grew up watching beautiful black women on tv like Sade, Sheila E, Janet Jackson, Angela Basset, etc. I always thought they were so beautiful. All women are different, no matter the color. I will not make a blanket statement like "all black women, or "all black men", that is basic stereotyping, and borderline racist. Yes, i do love the color of thier skin, lips, etc. I love intelligent, caring women, but if they are mean spirited inside, then they not for me.

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  5.   simonjoy says:
    Posted: 08 Sep

    I just love white guys. Naturally,I wish 2 b lucky 2 find one someday

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  6.   jimmyjbird says:
    Posted: 04 Sep

    That is beautiful heart full story glad see happy

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  7. Posted: 14 Aug

    White men like non-white girls because white men don't really care about skin color and would date women of any color. That being said, white women are by far the most provileged class of people to have ever walked the face of this planet and all they can do is complain, black women (and women from asian countries or eastern Europe) on the other hand seem to appreciate us white men more than the average white woman (And men wan't nothing more than to feel appreciated/needed/useful). Besides this, black skin is just jummy and the sex is more fun.

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  8.   Uno_Kay says:
    Posted: 13 Aug

    This article is great, i just love the way white men look at me and smile, am just waiting for a hi or in there words, u r so beautiful

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  9.   Dreamstarr says:
    Posted: 07 Aug

    The father of my kids is white. I Loved him so much but he could not give me that love back. So l left. Now he's regretting, but it's too late. I'm looking for that man who can love unconditionally.

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  10.   joymbulus says:
    Posted: 02 Aug

    I soo love white men since I was a young gal til today I hope one day I find my true love from them...xoxo

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  11.   Judy-95 says:
    Posted: 31 Jul

    Percentage wise, most white men secretly like/admire black women, I prefer the term dating out of culture, but it is the fear if being judged for dating a woman of colour is not a crime

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    • oldtrail says:
      Posted: 22 Aug

      Agreed white men secretly admire black women

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    • TeeCee77 says:
      Posted: 27 Aug

      Agreed Judy-95. There are quite a few white men that secretly like or would want to date black women. On my job I know this to be especially true. You can just tell in the way they interact with you. For some this would be taboo but you know deep down they are feeling something or just plain curious. However, they let you know in their own way they are interested they are just afraid to admit it.

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  12.   Estrela24 says:
    Posted: 25 Jul

    Well at the end of the day you have to surround yourself with people who want you to be happy and support you. I'm just saying the opinions of people who don't care about your happiness shouldn't matter to you?

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  13.   QueenCreole says:
    Posted: 24 Jul

    Well I feel strongly that we as people only look at the color of a person. Which is the outside and never looks at what is on the inside. God created man and woman he didn't say I'm going to create a color format so they can tell each other apart by their color. It doesn't matter we all are Gods creation we all have what he crated us with. God doesn't look or sees color he see his creation. So why should we. Thanks for reading my comment take care and be Bless.

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  14.   Kimblelene says:
    Posted: 13 Jul

    I've never dated a white guy before, but from observance, I like how confident and appreciative they are where their woman is concerned.This is why I've decided that a white guy will now be my way to go :-)

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    • TeeCee77 says:
      Posted: 27 Aug

      I've recently met a white guy on another dating site. He specifically dates black women. When asked why he said that he finds white women hard to talk to and as someone else stated on another site they are too privileged. Though I love my black brothers I find it hard to get a real commitment from them. I'm sure this can be said for any race but it seems to me so far that white men are more likely to comitt and marry. So I too have decided to take a chance and date outside my own race to see where or how it will end. Sometimes you have to step out of the norm or out of your comfort zone to really find true love and happiness no matter what race or creed or color you are.

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  15.   Doro2 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul

    I love the white guy so much,they do take care, lovely, honestly and romantic.muah I love them.

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  16.   scoffy60 says:
    Posted: 02 Jul

    My special saying from my black wife, "oh my God I kissed a white what will people think". scoff

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  17.   HankR60 says:
    Posted: 21 Jun

    To tell you the truth, will the black lady accept the white guy? Some black women feel that dating a white guy is going the wrong direction. And yet there are many black women who want a white man, cause he's dependable. I find it hard to meet a black jewel, cause she's afraid of what people will think, and say.

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    • Leanie69 says:
      Posted: 25 Jun

      Sometimes the white gentlemen feels the same, especially here in the south. Most white men are afraid of what their parents will think.

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      • chrisz5z says:
        Posted: 02 Jul

        "most white men are afraid of what their parents will think"... there will always be exceptions, but the younger the white man is the less relevant that thought becomes. I'm 31 and that has never been an issue for me, nor has it been for any of my white friends

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      • TeeCee77 says:
        Posted: 27 Aug

        Agreed!

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      • Aristoteles1 says:
        Posted: 05 Sep

        I don't even care what my mother thinks or my other family members for that matter. But then again... I think they only care that I'm happy, they don't really care in what way, shape, form or color that happiness comes in.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 24 Jul

      Not all BW care what people say or think I know I don't. Remember that song I was country when country wasn't cool. Well I have dated and married a White man way before it was considered cool or acceptable to do so. I think that more BW are realizing what I have always known and that is that love knows no color at the end of the day its all about how you feel about the person you are with

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  18.   Conphy says:
    Posted: 08 Jun

    That sounds cool

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  19.   Ms.B2016 says:
    Posted: 29 May

    Nice.

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  20.   hotcott says:
    Posted: 11 May

    I just love some white guy's, they are so intelligent, understanding, loving, caring, kind all of the good stuff. I love them so very much !

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    • friartuck16 says:
      Posted: 06 Jun

      As a white man who has multiple black women and has bi-racial children, you just admire their strength,passion,and freedom of personal expression

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    • HankR60 says:
      Posted: 21 Jun

      Nice to read your kind words, you know how warm a man's heart.

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  21.   unodde says:
    Posted: 11 May

    There is no definitive reason why individuals love each other. There is an attraction, a spark, a flame...its just that unique bond that becomes stronger between two souls. Can't really say "white men love black women" based off of a small percentage of the earth when there are white men who hate black women. As this applies to any other race.

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  22.   DFCU says:
    Posted: 12 Apr

    colour doesnt matter what matters is love and comitment

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  23.   Godf1st says:
    Posted: 12 Apr

    Interesting, chemistry counts, plus white men can b very romantic, nd we as black women like to be loved the way we give love!

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    • rosej8 says:
      Posted: 17 Apr

      SOME white men.

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      • Angel4King says:
        Posted: 26 Apr

        I agree..I think all men of any ethnicity can be extremely romantic but, it does seem that the men who I have dated who have been white have been more open emotionally, and vulnerable emotionally. At times I was the one not used to that and not mature enough to appreciate that because those qualities were not so transparent in other guys that I had previously dated who were black men. I'd encourage men and women of all colors to be open with how they feel and what they need from their partners. Its really important in lasting relationships.

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  24.   Chuchum says:
    Posted: 01 Apr

    The culture one grows up in matters too and the environment

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  25.   NYGriego says:
    Posted: 31 Mar

    Growing up Greek American where I grew up in NY, opened my eyes very much. In my school the kids ranged from black, white, hispanic, and then... me. I was not black and I wasn't "white enough" for the white kids because I spoke a different language and so I was "adopted" into the Hispanic group. Being around the hispanic kids in my school most of the time had taught me a lot about people and cultural differences. As I began my journey into puberty, I began noticing girls of all shapes and shades and how they carried themselves. I did a simple process of elimination by courting a girl from each group. I quickly found out that white girls had a lack of culture and didn't know who they were. Next, black girls. I liked how some carried themselves and how much they were into their culture but I felt as if something was missing. I didn't dismiss them entirely, I just set my point of view aside for the moment. I then tried Hispanic/Latin women and I felt like I was home in the sense that they could empathize with me and my families trials and tribulations of growing up in an English speaking society and how we also had to assimilate our parents culture and the American culture and then try to make sense of it all. Little by little, I found out that these women came in all shapes, sizes and shades. I was a bit partial to the darker girls because they carried themselves like how the black girls did but there was just something extra about them that I could feel even more comfortable with socially and psychologically. For me, it's definitely how a woman carries herself, how she knows where she came from, along with her "curves... edges... and perfect imperfections."

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  26.   Charismat says:
    Posted: 28 Mar

    It's about chemistry,there's no different,only difference is black women have a lot of potential,love is incredible.

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  27.   Guisepp says:
    Posted: 13 Mar

    Another awful article with very little (if any) substance. Is the author making stuff up as he goes along? How about some real data showing evidence one way or the other? More than one anecdote from one person??? I'll offer up another point of view. I date black women for the same reason I date Korean women, Albanian women, Hispanic women, etc. - because they are novel. They are different than me and therefore interesting. Plus white women tend to be picky and bitchy, with not enough going for them to be that picky and bitchy. I'll pass on that, thank you very much.

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  28.   Only-One-Me says:
    Posted: 11 Mar

    I enjoyed the article.

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  29.   jorancho says:
    Posted: 08 Mar

    I am mixed race (Crole-Italian) I have always dated & preferred Black women. I find Black women more sensual, beautiful, they have my admiration my heart . Only looking for that one special lady to spoil.

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    • penelope77 says:
      Posted: 16 Mar

      sono molto contenta che tu sei innamorata le donne del colore . Non'e bisogno lo spechio per vedere se everro o no ma communque ogni uno de noi abbia il suo gusto e come sono passo per uomini bianchi e figli del mist. Bravo....

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    • Lysah7 says:
      Posted: 08 Apr

      . i love how you put your comment.hope you find her one day.

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    • ronah2 says:
      Posted: 09 Jun

      Black is about love

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    • chi2015 says:
      Posted: 21 Jun

      sounds like a plan did you find her already?

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  30.   tryingit24 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar

    Really like this

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  31. Posted: 14 Feb

    I am a lover of sexy white distinguished educated fun loving men.

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  32.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 05 Feb

    Im a lover of blackwomen!!!!

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  33.   rosej8 says:
    Posted: 05 Feb

    i find it disgusting how black women are agreeing with white males that comment something sexual about black women like "i like black women because they are good in bed". first of all that's not a reason to like someone and black women shouldn't date any white male that looks or treat them as an experience or just want to have sex with us. please be smarter girls its plenty of men out there that'll love you for you, do not let any white men treat you as an experience or get the chance to. thanks.

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    • urbanposh7 says:
      Posted: 06 Feb

      I agree with you, but I would rather two low quality people to date than for a man that would make a comment like that to pursue dating me. However, since the black woman is the most hypersexualized woman in the country, she doesn't need to subject herself to further sexual exploitation by ANY man.

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    • Metrine says:
      Posted: 20 Feb

      That's so on point....I like white guys too but will never stoop that low...

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    • NYGriego says:
      Posted: 31 Mar

      " and black women shouldn't date any white male that looks or treat them as an experience or just want to have sex with us. please be smarter girls its plenty of men out there that'll love you for you, " You say one thing but your pics with your tongue hanging out gives the wrong message. So, which is it? Stand by your words or double standard?

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      • Beemi says:
        Posted: 14 Apr

        Its not double standards. Its just different groups of black women. Those who respect themselves and those who have low self esteem. Same applies to white men! There are those who love and respect us and those just playing!

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      • rosej8 says:
        Posted: 16 Apr

        Yes because sticking your tongue out in a "PICTURE" playfully, not in a sexual way with just my face showing means that I am looking for nothing more than Sex. What a loser! And I was talking to black women not white men who thinks it's okay to sexualize women for sticking their tongue out

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      • greyskies1 says:
        Posted: 15 Jul

        I reactivated my account just so that I could respond to you. Thank you for challenging black women on what message they are sending when they post sexually provocative pictures. It makes me weary seeing women who are deliberately posting pictures with their tongues sticking out, body shots, and shots that focus on their cleavage. It dilutes the respect of all black women. I wish they would go to sites that are specifically designated for hookups to find what they are looking for. I am a respectable, quality woman, but I deactivated my account because it was obvious that the guys on here had dealt with women who were only looking for a good time, not an enduring relationship. I know that some black women may get angry reading my response to you, but I really don't care. Only hit dogs holler. If they become angry then I guess they are taking my criticism personally, and maybe they should. They are thirsty, and looking for attention, not having learned that attraction based only on lust, and sexual attraction, is ultimately not going to last or bring sustained fulfillment.

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        • AHappyLady says:
          Posted: 5 days ago

          I agree 100%. I too am a respectable, educated woman and have met some men here whose motives are highly suspicious. But they are easily identified. You need to wade through the frogs even when one is not dating online. I am exercising patience and will NOT lower my standards...I am not deparate.

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        • AHappyLady says:
          Posted: 5 days ago

          Excuse me..."desperate". Hit the reply button before I could correct! Unfortunately, we live in the age of the Kardashians. Many women...not saying anyone on this thread...have followed their example. Sad.

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    • amore007 says:
      Posted: 02 Apr

      You are so right ,have experienced guy's (causcian male)especially who see black women as fetish object.they were only interested in having fun,one night stand e.t.c In my experiences they were not interested in having my child with a black.because some of them have already have children with their ex white wife's who treated them bad. I made a decision that I am not interested in a second or third hand used object,that I deserved the best of best.I am a woman of great worth and honour not sexual object for a Caucasian guy to used to gratify his sexual urges and fantasy. As a black women we deserves the best not trash or garbage. And I am not saying all white men are like that but some not all. Thank you

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    • Mariedododo says:
      Posted: 16 Apr

      Well said sistee

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  34.   Brunsugah says:
    Posted: 02 Feb

    It is all about attraction but black women do have a certain way with men that is hard to resist once you have tasted it.

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  35.   Jbec1337 says:
    Posted: 31 Jan

    It's just my preference, and what I am comfortable with. I just prefer to date black women. I have always been more attracted to black women.

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  36.   Gypsy22015 says:
    Posted: 14 Jan

    Why white men love the black woman? and Why black women love white men? Easy answer: The Attraction for one another.

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    • K61Neece says:
      Posted: 05 Mar

      I find Black women to be more irresistible than your average white woman. there is just something about them that is just, well.........just simply put..they are just more gorgeous!

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  37.   Mosiah7 says:
    Posted: 10 Jan

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

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    • Beemi says:
      Posted: 14 Apr

      Perhaps its just that not as many black women are open to white men as asian women. Have you considered that?

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 13 Aug

      Mosiah, is there a reason why you are here posting on a topic that does not concern you?

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  38.   Blekrose says:
    Posted: 08 Jan

    Black is gold, but what matters is love.Love has no color

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  39.   kawasakie1 says:
    Posted: 05 Jan

    Black woman is very strong an passionate we take care of our man all d way...ride or die...am hoping to find my white prince....

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    • Ms_DMarie says:
      Posted: 21 Jan

      You couldn't have said it better. I am with you waiting on my white prince to become my king

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  40.   SHASDW says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 15

    Whatever your reasons are. I say LOVE a whole lot. I'm not just referring to only the physical either. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU ALL. I wish you unspeakable PEACE, HOPE everlasting and unwavering LOVE.

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  41.   Niece_B says:
    Posted: 12 Dec 15

    I have been saying for the longest, once the lights are turned off we are all the same color. I have dated all ethnicities but prefer a Independent, educated, white man. Today I went on a date with a man and it was turned on by the conversation, and how he conducted himself. We have a second date approching this upcoming week!

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  42. Posted: 26 Nov 15

    Black women look great on the beach sipping a cool wine, they remind me of a paradise island every time I see one.

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  43.   toniiaa28 says:
    Posted: 26 Nov 15

    Love is love.most times what attracts you to someone at first is their appearance but what attracts you more and keeps you in love with someone is their personality. By knowing them better, you see past the physical looks and more concerned with the inner person. Thatz why sometimes, the good looking guys don't end up with good looking girls and vise versa. Its that simple.

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  44.   lupira says:
    Posted: 21 Nov 15

    As an English woman,i even dirvoced my ex hubby to fulfill my dream of been in the arms of a white guy,I love them cause they are honest,loving, respectful, understanding, and helpful in all departments

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  45. Posted: 18 Nov 15

    Honestly it should not be an issue of why white men love black women it should just be a man loving a woman and vice versa. At the end of the day love whoever you want to love but do it fearlessly and with every ounce of you society and stereotypes have made us feel as though there is something wrong with wanting to be with someone outside of your race there's nothing wrong with it as it says in the Bible we are all created in His image we are all alike image of him so love whoever the hell you want to

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  46.   denese1974 says:
    Posted: 15 Nov 15

    I gonna marry a white man that comes my way

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  47.   BklynMike1 says:
    Posted: 11 Nov 15

    Some white guys find black women attractive. It is what it is as. End of story

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  48.   meoni says:
    Posted: 01 Nov 15

    Honestly guys let's get real, white men are easy to love,understand and they are quite selfless. So to ma fellow blacks ,am marrying a white man what come may.

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    • loyal4lfye says:
      Posted: 07 Dec 15

      A man is a man. If white men was so easy to love then you would be married to one right now!

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  49.   ShayBanks says:
    Posted: 26 Oct 15

    Some of the comments on here by Black American women are outrageous and ignorant. You can like who you like but some of the comments smack of self.hating. I date any type of woman, I'm an African man but I will not be so ignorant as to put down my own Black women.

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    • desireeeee says:
      Posted: 26 Nov 15

      so TRUE

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      • blackbelle01 says:
        Posted: 28 Nov 15

        No one is putting down BM. BW are just expressing their love for the men who love them. How is that putting down BM?

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    • urbanposh7 says:
      Posted: 01 Feb

      I hope you share this same sentiment regarding self-hate with black men who make comments like these and worse.

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  50.   Loztaz says:
    Posted: 11 Oct 15

    The fact is that guys like simplicity no mater the race n black ladies love being simple in all aspects compared to white ladies..

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