Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?
It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.
Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.
However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman’s confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity…᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.
So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?” Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?
Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.
Bottom line, you don’t have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.
i think people should stop being racist and one human family as long as we are all human being
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I joined this site to find a lover and friend that will last the rest of my life. I did not join to find a white man or any other particular race for that matter. I am willing to date a white man (I’ve had a few dates with a couple of them, but nothing physical), but was unsure about what stereotypes he may hold; so I asked several white men on this site, why they want a black woman… the one I received that was the most heartfelt was “just be you and don’t change”. I’m more convinced that there are white men who sincerely want a woman for who she is and not just her ethnicity, skin color, lips, hips, and resilience; even though these are also some of the reasons given for loving black women.
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The fact is Opposites attract!
The fact is you are Black and I am White!
The fact is you are a Women and I am a Man!
As folks get to know each other, Those labels of Black and White disappear.
More facts ” LOVE IS LOVE So you must not fight it or you will be alone. God has embraced you with Beautiful skin tone , Let your new Man love you without wondering why .
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I am a white man and I like/love black women because they are who and what they are. They don’t TRY to be something or someone they are not. I love the way their skin has a natural sheen without having to put a ton of make-up on to make themselves look good. They have the self confidence and self esteem to make a man WANT to be with them. THAT is why I like black women and that is why I am searching for the right woman to “go the distance”
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Most men find e attractive white and black. I find it interesting that people are fixated with colour….it doesn’t matter! Date someone you love people
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Opposites attract
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Am black and i love my colour..onething i have learnt,is that people wil always criticise.i aint an angel,but i believe am a good person and i know that i wil find that special white man..everyone has a right to fall inlove and be with whatever race they want!
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I love my Agyama because I have never ever had any woman treat me as she does!!! In every way!!! Color makes no difference. But my woman loves me with her heart and soul!!! I’ve never had that before!!! And her soft supple skin is beyond expression!!!!
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I love how people are still commenting this article in 2013. 6 years after it was written.
White men love black women because black women are the hottest.
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I just had to read this article to find out more because i love white men…and i wanna get married to one in future!
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That make us real happy to hear, Because we want the same.
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You are a beautiful young woman so should not be a problem. I think attraction is what gets things in motion. If you find a person attractive then you are more open to get to know more about them and this will either lead to a relationship of some kind. Usually friends at first and then without knowing it, it may blossom into love. The first step in any relationship is communication. Eunicitah I know you will find someone I hope he will love and cherish you and you both will be happy together.
God Bless you!
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WHITE MEN ARE REAL AND ATRRACTIVE AND THEY BELIVE IN THE TRUTH….I WANNA GET MARRIED TO A WHITE GUY IN FUTURE
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The combination of two different colors form a beautiful rainbow of colors. This society need to set aside the big blocks of mental stereotype.
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I love the Caucasian male, with them you can be yourself. They’will love you no matter what you’re.
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The frequency of White men with Black women is increasing somewhat… but still lags behind many other combinations of other couples.
For me, I have never dated WITHIN my race… and probably never will.
Some men stumble onto interracial relationships (although, for some, would call it more satisfying a sexual/ cultural curiosity) and some, like myself, specifically target Black and Hispanic women for serious relationships.
Ladies, wouldn’t you say there was a difference?
Thoughts?
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The only serious relationship that I have had has been with a white man. As I am now ready to settle down. That is where I immediately referred to, and the sex was amazing too! I love this site. Like minded individuals
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i always thought it was racist of me that i wouldnt want to date or mary a guy from the same race,because most of them are like brothers to me,i thought that having a white husband will just be an unrealistic dream.but this site showed me that its possible.i havent found the one but i know white men as passionate love spreaders especially to black woman.my aim is to find a muslim white guy.i hope that dream will come true.thank you afroromance for being an eye opener.
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I am 39 and the only serious relationship that I have been involved in was with a white man, so for me its a no brainer. I cant speak for all white men but I know the one that I fell for changed my whole outlook on life, love, sex etc.
We did part ways but I’m hoping that there is another white knight in shining armour ot there for me.
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i believe on that too,so lets be happy!
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I really wish white men would stop being so uptight. I for one love white men and want to be a serious relationship with a white man. I think white men are the best lovers and you can be 100% free with them I find them to be fun and adventurous.
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I love white men… I love the combination of black and white. Lovely
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It’s like they say…. once you go brown , You don’t return!
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Unfortunately there a a LOT of white men out there with a huge appetite and lust for black women. They prowl npick up night spots or bars and clubs for casual sex or even start casual hook up relationships but you know they will never commit coz the truth is there is still an incredible stigma in society with WMBW relationship. WM face a whole of social rejection for going “lower” and many people see this as really scraping the barrel. Here in South Africa its probably many many times worse. When I’m out with my boyfriend people openly say the most horrible little comments to him in his language (Afrikaans) or to me in my language (Zulu) like “r u so deperate for money u would sell yoself to a white man. A young girl recently said to him in a mall “you seriously can’t find a real woman u have to end up with that” He got so angry and said some nasty things back. It takes real guts to stick this type of relationship out. But when were together alone its all worth it. He’s the most attentive, loving man, he’s worth it.
So ladies its all worth it if you find the right one for you. But I would say avoid those older men from overseas- the 65yr old, 55yr old lecherousd guys drooling for young black a** and whip out their wallets before u can say Love lol. There are way too many of them around. Not to mention the married white guys (usually old) that will make you their concubine. Its not worth it and will break your heart in the end. Trrust me there are young liberal white men in our country you just gotta look a bit harder and be more discening. Those guys at work that will look at you a little longer than neccesary- be friendly and open, you might be surprised.
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I am interested in trying to date a white guy,never done that before but I have been hearing good stuff about white guys and am hopeful that I will find that right guy for me,I hear the Caucasians are the best, can’t wait to find my match and I wanna be real and not change a thing about me,
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I can only say why I am attracted . Every bodies got their own likes and dislikes . For me its several reasons . I’ve been married twice to white women . Never cheat , hit them and always went to work . It wasn’t enough for them . MONEY ! Both ex’s were all about money . Forget the fact I tried the best I possibly could for both , they wanted more . Of course I to want more and better for myself but for most people it takes time and a little saving up . Example . Why are white women so into Lady Diana and the Kate ? Money . I’m in no way saying black women don’t want more , but most are like me and know it takes time and you have to save . Its not always best to have it right now , then your suffering financially . And finally for me is they are down right beautiful .
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Well, i tink white men are d best of gentlemen n they are truthful, lovng n hardworkng. Thats why i’ve always dreamt of being wit a white man all my lyf, its funi i knw cuz am black bt i cn neva choose a blck broda 4 a husbnd ova a white man and datz why am here, i pray God gives me 1 2 cal ‘my drm’
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thanks my lady that’s true words.
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I can not say that i do not separate a white woman from a black one. Since I was in my teens I had a knowing that Black females was just my choice in a woman. They are both physically and mentally attractive. Even though I dated two white women before, I knew I didn’t want to retain a longer relationship, but every Black woman I thought “what can I do to make her happy”, how can I keep this one. So, I think i was born to be with a black princess and that is that.
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