Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?

Posted by James, 29 Sep 07

id.jpgThe other day, I google searched interracial sex… all I got was a massive array of porn sites (what was I expecting anyway?). Well I was hoping to get some insights on the above topic.

Have you ever had sex with someone outside your race? Would you be interested in having sex with someone of another race? Is interracial sex a taboo to you? This is a very controversial topic. “Why the hell would someone prefer to have interracial sex?᾿ most people may ask.

The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial sex – both positively and negatively. Going by the history of the slave era white people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex - even though many white men were constantly having sex with black women. In this “colorblind era᾿, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.

According to a poll done on the blog, majority (67%) of the people that participated in the poll said interracial sex is better than sex with someone within their own race and 15% said it wasn’t better. The rest either never had interracial sex or same race sex.

Adult sex dating among interracial singles is much in practice especially among liberal communities and long-term relationships or matrimony is quiet popular. With the internet being a general platform that brings all types of people, cultures and societies together, we need not emphasize the kind of catalyst it is for those interested in interracial dating and sex… it is a well-known fact.

Most people may decide to try out interracial sex just for the kick of it or out of curiosity. This has brought about statements like “once you go black you never go back᾿ among many others. Given the sexualization and stereotypes surrounding interracial sex, we find most people… especially in their teenage and college life engaging in interracial sex just to prove and disprove such statements.

Most people may not publicly say “interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,᾿ and so on. But when people get behind closed doors with their family and friends comments like “That black dude must have really been packing some heat below the belt. Why else would those white women be interested in him᾿ or “Only white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.᾿ When they go online to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it… and don’t get me started people expressing their thoughts with by leaving anonymous comments on blogs.

So what is wrong with enjoying sex with a person of other race?

For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring… especially when it involves Black men and white women and Asian women and white men. It’s almost like people believe that race is correlated with penis size and a person’s level of sexual desire. But are people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly as most people believe?

If you’ve had interracial sex already, how good or bad were the encounters? Is it possible that they had everything to do with the guys’ or ladies’ performances, and not the person’s races? [tags]interracial sex,adult sex dating[/tags]

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  1.   dave_74 says:
    Posted: 29 Mar

    Sex with someone you love and are attracted to is the best. So if that person happens to be of a different race,( BTW, not surprising to find on an Interracial dating site........lol) then the answer would be yes! Ask this on say a black only (or other racial group only) dating site and I'm sure we would find different answers.

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  2.   piethief says:
    Posted: 15 Mar

    I'm a black male in my late fifties. When I was younger I would of said yes to sex with a lady of a different race was better. And the title going to Latinas (esp.P.R.). Now I say no. I don't know if it had to do with inexperience or the fact that the ladies are older, past menopause or what. I do know know that sex with ALL of them past the age of forty (and I do mean ALL races),a great awakening has occurred. I guess the saying is true" all things are better with age". Older women are definitely more passionate and lively with their movements than the younger ones, and that's any race!!!

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  3.   talnwhite1 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar

    Yes because most interacial sex is between BM/WF. The media, advertisements etc. all reinforce the false sterotype of the evil, stupid, racist, weak white man. So the more 'opinion" polls that support these ficticious beliefs the bettter. A stand up act is the sexualy inadequate white man. But the uneducated, criminal, watermelon etaing black boy would be considered racist. Plus the majority of black women will not go with white men for the fear of "selling out" their own kind yet the opposite is highly encouraged for white people. The discriminated against, rediculed, and taken for granted group in the United States today are white, hetorosexual males that do not act effiminate or date interacially.

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  4.   EJPhelps says:
    Posted: 21 Jan

    I would like to form my own opinion

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  5. Posted: 15 Jan

    Great sex is with someone you're sexual attracted to.

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  6.   duchess02 says:
    Posted: 09 Jan

    Seriously people good responses as for me no experience none what so ever haha xoxo

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  7.   Brownb09 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 13

    LOL, some of these responses are too funny!! Not only is my answer limited to my own experiences .....I truly think it depends on the person people!

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  8.   DJD2013 says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 13

    The answer for me is a simple one. Foreign men are far better. Period. I've seen every size there is and...let's be honest, all because they have the equipment doesn't mean they know how to use it (damn shame). And for Shylamae's comments below, your religion, its beliefs and following it are your own. People of OTHER religious affiliations, beliefs, followings, practices should never be looked down upon because it doesn't mesh with your own. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of between two consenting adults...sometimes three...lighten up, see and explore the world (without sex for you).

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  9. Posted: 07 Jul 13

    I've had sex with men of other ethnic groups and the only difference I'm seeing is that more African-American men (not all) know how to move their hips and take their time to really do the thing! Caucasian men typically love to kiss (ALOT) and have sex like rabbits (like time is a wasting). But more recently, I'm finding the young black men are inexperienced also because they have been dating outside of their race and haven't learned how to move...oh, and the selfish factor of the guy wanting to get off first. Also, anal sex is becoming a much wanted feature of casual sex along with ALOT of porn star moves (spitting, swallowing, etc.). I've been told that the typical Caucasian woman loves to have it fast and hard. But when they get with an African-American man that knows how to move and take his time, it's a MIND BLOWING experience! ALSO, color contrast is the most used response. Which is totally lame. So, you know what that means....the guy or female is NOT interested in you as a person. Typically, as a black woman, I've been told by "too" many white men who want to have sex with a black woman that they are just "trying it out, because they've never had the opportunity to have sex with a black woman." Conversations like, "I want to lick that black puXXy" are the norm. I was married to a Caucasian man for 8 years and race was not the focus of our relationship, although I had been his first. He never made it a huge subject. He truly liked me for me, looks, intelligence, etc. Now a days online, its very rare to find a man who wants you, more than sex. Sex is the norm and the women are THROWING it out there, even to older men and men who really shouldn't be having sex (unemployed, losers, mentally challenged, etc.). Interracial dating seems to typically happen when persons from the same ethnic group (black/black, white/white, etc.) aren't giving the person of the opposite sex ANY play (typically because lack of attractiveness, oddities, intelligence). Sex is awesome if both partners know what they are doing and both are patient and can teach the other. (not sure how a woman can teach a man how not to put all of his weight on a woman...that's a good move). Well, that's my say on Interracial sex being better than sex with someone within your own race.

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  10. Posted: 27 May 13

    To the comment made by shylamae, I was in love with this man when I was with him and wanted to marry him. I'm sure there are many girls who lost their virginity at a younger age. I am well aware that God is forgiving. I lost my mother at a young age and I didn't have her guidance to teach me that my body was precious to God. My dad did the best he could.

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  11.   shylamae says:
    Posted: 23 May 13

    Sex should be done after marriage.. and just in case you fail to keep your virginity for your future husband , just tend to not engaged sex again for Sex is only for married couple.. ashamed not for you lost your virginity , God is a forgiving God. you knew inside yourself that Sex is not aproppriate thing without the blessing from God who giveth us the breath of existence so I think we should value and live this life through doin things in accordance of His will and not by our own, lust.. peace..God speed everyone

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  12. Posted: 19 Apr 13

    Um, Is Chris Brown available? No, seriously I've got to say I have never had a chance with black men because I only dated white guys and I had a very strict religious upbringing. I lost my virginity at 23. I was deeply in love with him and he taught me about sex. He got me to open up and stop being ashamed of my body. He was amazing and Italian!

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  13.   Rranderson says:
    Posted: 23 Dec 12

    It's all in the person. If the attraction is there and everything falls in place, race really doesn't matter. Great sex can come in all kinds of packages. Though I will admit that when something is more forbidden or not the norm, it can be a real turn on. I love the color contrast of a white man against my skin when making love.

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  14.   NaijaBabe11 says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 12

    I like the way the skin of white men feel, so I would have to say that sex with them is the greatest. That's just me, though.

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  15.   subbob says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 12

    uhhh yes.......next question?

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  16. Posted: 10 Jul 12

    You know what they say, "Once you go white, you'll know it was right".

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  17.   NOPLAYER says:
    Posted: 06 Jul 12

    IMO its about what youre familiar with, if Ive been with bw more than non-bw, then Id have to say sex with them is better because Ive had more encounters with bw, so its a numbers thing. It also boils down to the number of serious relationships verses pillow friendships because I think sex is more intense when intense feelings are shared between the two people. Dealing with IR situations you may wonder is this other person just taking you for a test drive while looking to satisfy a curiosity based on some prevailing sexual myth, but with a person from your own group that thought never crosses your mind because more than likely they already know what thats about (LMAO)! When two people (despite if theyre an IR couple or not) have that special something between them and they dance that most intimate dance, how wonderful it is as long as they both know how to stay with the beat!!!!!!!!!!

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    Posted: 03 Jul 12

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  19.   devnull says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 12

    Errant nonsense surely someone is lacking in ideas.

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  20.   adventsport says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 12

    I don't know if its better, I can tell you one thing about sex, when comes the race card, SO ARE HIGHLY OVERRATED!!!!. Sex is about the person and sometimes cultures plays an important part of how they deal with sex.

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  21.   turtleman03 says:
    Posted: 30 May 12

    It's not the race that makes the difference as much as it is the "culture". I think the best sex I've had was with a European woman. Hungarian to be precise.

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  22.   Tropical615 says:
    Posted: 19 May 12

    All I can say is this, once you have tasted dark chocolate, is it hard to go back to milky bars.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      there it is.....(sorry Tropical) but you did what the typical Caucasian does....use of terminology....dark chocolate, chocolate, carmel, milky bars....etc.

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  23.   Carlos1486 says:
    Posted: 17 May 12

    wow!!! i can admit that i have had fancied interacial a long time but simply because its a fantancy .. i guess the adventure of it is the thrill and i guess its coz you are both different thats all

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    Posted: 16 May 12

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  25.   fnance71 says:
    Posted: 15 May 12

    My first experience was when i was 19 and she was 36. I'm black and tall and she was hispanic and we attending the same college. I dated a japanese woman and we have a son. Since i've broken up with her 17 years ago, i never looked back. I dated black women ever since. I don't hate other races, i'm just not going to deal the bs that goes with IR dating For me, the IR road is one road less traveled.

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  26. Posted: 13 May 12

    The previous writer commenting on maturity and one other lady who discusses sex versus love, are dead on with their thinking. I am considerably older than many who have offered their comments, and women are looking for a man who understands how a woman feels and wants to feel in a loving relationship. For most of us, to just have sex for the sake of the physical act is a very temporary, non-committed act of gratification without the feeling of being bonded to one another with heart and soul. I have had that type of relationship in the past and the shallowness eventually takes its toll and wears off. I have chosen to be a member of this site because I truly wanted to broaden myself in terms of seeing all people as children of God with much to offer to the right person, irrespective of whatever our ethnicity may be. Soon after joining in December, 2011, I was contacted by a lovely woman who is approximately 25 years younger, yet my picture and profile had a magnetic quality to her and she wrote to me, hoping that she would not face rejection and that it would be positive. She just felt that I was the man whom she has been looking for all her life. From there, it has evolved into the development of a mature and loving relationship via live messenger, email, telephone, and soon we will meet in her city. She is ethnically black non-African and Hispanic/Latino, being from Havana and now residing in the U.S. Soon, she will become a citizen and has already received her Bachelors Degree in Engineering, both in Cuba and in the U.S. Building a wonderful, trusting, and loving relationship has been a feeling of our destiny and of God's Will. All of the doubts, trepidations, and anxiousness have been replaced with trust, a strong faith, patience, understanding, and wanting a loving relationship based upon chemistry, and becoming true soulmates in one skin. We know that if all that is present in both of us, that the love she wants to give and express will be natural and spontaneous. To the lady who talked about sex versus love, that is something that I can relate to. My lady said that I don't care about how large your endowment is because that is for those on the internet who only want the physical and to be impressed. I want to make love to you, naturally and spontaneously, and this is something that I will admit I have never experienced in my life, even in my 25 year marriage which I am convinced more and more now that it was arranged. We are so looking forward to meeting in person, getting to know one another, having long talks, feel the love, the excitement, the tingling, and just let that develop so that ultimately we will unite in a beautiful and passionate expression of our deep love for each other. Even though we have not yet met, our feelings have never wavered, and have grown stronger. This, we feel, is a Divine Presence in our lives, and that we are being tested to be patient, keep the love of God in our hearts, and all will result in a beautiful, committed, lifelong relationship. I wish everyone of you the very best in finding your partner, for I give thanks to God for directing my profile to her because I truly feel that it was meant to be.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      PERFECT..... "For most of us, to just have sex for the sake of the physical act is a very temporary, non-committed act of gratification without the feeling of being bonded to one another with heart and soul. I have had that type of relationship in the past and the shallowness eventually takes its toll and wears off."

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  27.   orchid759 says:
    Posted: 10 May 12

    I think the quality of sex depends on the maturity of the person and it has nothing to do with race or one's culture. If you really care about someone, you will do your best to please that person and vice-versa, and I think all of the myths and lies about interracial sex and race is stupid!!! The negative comments are usually not true and some of the other comments are over-exaggerated. It all depends on the person and what they are willing to do or explore with you.

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  28.   viet says:
    Posted: 09 May 12

    it intensify the sex

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  29.   irishson1 says:
    Posted: 08 May 12

    I've had sex with someone of almost every race. I don't even think about this queston about is interracial better. It all depends on the person you're with really. I'll admit, I like sex with black and latin women most. I just have more of an atttraction to them. But, determining who might be better, it's not really worth analyzing in my opinion.

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  30.   427skies says:
    Posted: 05 May 12

    I'm young, and personally, I never thought about having sex with someone because they were of a different "race" or because they were of the same "race"... O.o I've only had sex with one person, and he was of the same "race" but he was West Indian, but I didn't have sex with him because he was the same "race"...I had sex with him because I loved him.

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  31.   Khoa says:
    Posted: 03 May 12

    I love white women but haven't found one interested in me that I have equal chemistry with...the journey continues...sigh

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    Posted: 01 May 12

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  33.   shydude74 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 12

    i think so honestly much more of a turn on

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  34. Posted: 27 Apr 12

    Sounds to me like the person writing this was lacking in his own sense of masculinity below the belt, and looking for someone to prop up his ego.. LOL. Seriously what a stupid question. Having dated many women of many races, black, white, asian, middle eastern, and enjoying a global business that keeps me in touch with so many vast cultures, only a fool would even entertain a lengthy discussion about this and even equate "love" or the best sex with physical characteristics of any race. Real bonding is responsible for the "best sex". We've all dated those beauty queen gold diggers and realized how poor their performance was despite their endowments they got from Mom, they weren't raised to be a real woman, more like a selfish teenager, and never make for a good lover, and that can be a woman of any race. Having had plenty of experiences with different women, stereotypes about vaginas and race is also silliness as much as it is with stereotypes about men... don't assume all Asians are the tightest squeeze... you may be slightly disappointed... and as many of my black ex's have informed me, their ex black boyfriends weren't exactly packing much heat either... LOL. So when people get into any conversation about stereotyping any race, individuals, religious groups, they really are projecting their own insecurities. Intelligent people take sex as an individual act of bonding, and love is colorblind. And to the older white woman talking about "passion" and race.. that's foolishness. Italian men may be the most passionate of all anywhere in the world.. take a trip to Italy.. LOL. People are always projecting their own wishes, there is never going to be any 'fact' behind opinion. To each their own. I have my preferences, but its not because the 'sex is better'. I would be lying to say it is better with an Asian girl than a black or white woman. Depends on the person.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      so, very true. God knows MOST black men are NOT packing!!! Folks need to rethink that lie!

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  35.   larz_3700 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 12

    Interracial sex rules!!Some people are affraid to try it,because they don't want to be judged by today's society;but they would love to have that experiences.Some will go to other places where nobody knows them to get what they really like.

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    • bklyn2tx says:
      Posted: 06 May 12

      thank you skidivfly007!! Interracial /intraracial is all the same.it depends on the person. When you actually take you own self-imposed racial limits off and just enjoy the person not get some high because this person had sex with you--so you must be special cause you are a dffierent ethnicity-- you will see its all the same and really enjoy some action! The real question is sex v. love. There is the sex where you think damn!!! that was great but you dont want to see them again and then there is the sex with feelings/bonding involved where you cant wait to up the ante!! that what I'm talking about!!!! on another note... I find it interesting that in all these different artlcles about black women and white men dating the comments are about love, respect, understanding all that. No one is putting down the black man, in fact they big up the black man, but in the one article about dating white woman, it is a black man who puts down the black woman..... why??? is that really necessary??? Anyway, he is just one man, so he does not speak for all black men, but I will point out that, that was the reason most quoted as to why black women are dating white men. to get the LOVE and RESPECT they are not getting from black men (men like the one on the white girl article...you know who you are).

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  36.   BROWNTANTRA says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 12

    I AM A U.S. NAVY VETERAN WHO HAS HAD SEX WITH MANY WOMEN OF DIFFERENT NATIONALITIES. INTERRACIAL SEX IS NO DIFFERENT THAN SEX WITH YOUR OWN RACE. WHAT IS DIFFERENT IS THE INTIMACY LEVEL THAT YOU SHARE WITH THAT SPECIAL LADY THAT RAISES SEX INTO LOVE MAKING. NOW THAT EXPERIENCE CAN BE BREATH TAKING, EARTH QUAKING, AND BEAUTIFUL.

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  37.   pjislooking says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 12

    I have comparisons in my life and I must say that black men are more passionate...more detail oriented.....there is that rhythm to their lives that carries over into the bed room. They feel deeper and are more straight forward about their experience than the average white male. A woman needs to know she is appreciated. ..If you think about music for example...its those soulful songs from the black artists hearts that take you to those intimate places of passion and escape from the world around us. A black man knows how to get lost in that passion and take you with him. pjis looking.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      the rhythm to their lives that carry over into the bed room??? soulful songs from black artists? come on..... Then you are leaving out Brazilians, Latinos, Italians, etc. You have a homework assignment to do...if casual sex is what you are seeking...(have fun)!!

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  38.   SweetWIlly says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 12

    Good sex......when you both are finally finsihed and are laying on your backs in a massive pool of sweat and bodily fluids trying to move your limbs but can't, trying to catch your breathe but can't and your heart feels like it is ready to explode out of your chest...that is great sex!!!

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    • nika23 says:
      Posted: 15 Jun 12

      I couldn't agree more, you described it best. It's all about the person to me, not their race or their penis size. I've heard some women, black women included, say they want black men because of their size and I don't know how that stereotype came into being. I've only been with one white guy, but I've dated other races and I've seen huge Asians and small black guys. Size aside, I'm always more interested in the type of person and how they treat me because that is more exciting. I want a man who cares about pleasing me too, not one who's so impressed that he has a large penis.

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  39.   hazelr50 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 12

    I can't believe this question, Noooo,ofcourse not it all depends on how well one know how to handle their woman.

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  40.   RachE12 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 12

    Personally i've only had interracial sex. So i wouldn't be able to shed light on it. But i love what i do get. I love the way (black guys) skin feels. I love everything about it and its a huge turn on.

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    • Carlos1486 says:
      Posted: 17 May 12

      i love the honesty of a woman who is not afraid of what she wants thats awesome rach

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  41.   LUCY101 says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 12

    Shocking. I can't believe this is an issue.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      oh, it truly is an issue. I'm sure LOADS of black women get rude comments from men outside of their race!!!

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  42.   sodominican says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 12

    Americans in general arent very forthcoming or even sexual progressive people. Sex is a private stale robot dance enjoyed after achieveing stabilty and then forgotten like the milk on the counter til it ferments. Honey you left the sex out again! My friend once asked me, How do you know your are good at sex. My answer is if you are enjoying it and arent embarassed youre doing an excellent job. Sex is not a tool to get what you want or a chore, it is the ultimate expression of intimacy and indulgence. You dont skim on your cars detailing, why rush the physical details of the one you love?

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  43.   Cassie92 says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 12

    Well, I just recently started being sexually active, but I can tell you interracial sex isn't too shabby! Haha. I'm in an AMWF relationship, and let me tell you, whoever said Asian men have small penises lied. I mean, obviously, I can't compare, but I know based on statistics that it's quite a nice size. ;) The thing is, my boyfriend is the best. He makes me feel like his guardian angel, and I feel the same in return. I think about him first thing in the morning and last thing at night. I trust him like I've never trusted another human being ever. He is one of the few people I have ever felt comfortable "loving". I think that makes any expression of our love great; it's not based on skill or genetics. I don't think it's the interracial that makes sex great, though. I feel like dedicated interracial couples have to have a deep love for each other to accept the relationship, and when two people have such deep feelings, those feelings can only be expressed beautifully and passionately (even if a bit awkward at first.)

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  44.   Maheva says:
    Posted: 27 Mar 12

    As a black woman I have to admit that endowment is a big aspect of a sexual life! But with time I learned to see beyond that and onnect with the person , at this point sex becomes spiritual and when you get to that point trust me color has nothing to do with it. Please people don't even think that only black makes are hung like horses , cause I met a hits guy that was hung like one and it did not make sex better but painful cause there was not connection at all !!! So I will say attraction, desire and connection are the keys for good sex not race. Cheers

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  45.   Jas93 says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 12

    My first time was with a white guy. It doesn't feel any different. The color of his skin didn't even come across my mind. Plus the sex wasn't any good anyway. Had more to do with him, than him being white.

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  46.   Sirikit says:
    Posted: 22 Mar 12

    I'd rather use the words making love than sex as I do this act only to the person I love, with that said, i say where there is love, everything is great. When you know that you are in an inclusive and honest relationship, the mind and the heart are in sync so the art of making love becomes more enjoyable, more pleasurable. My views may be a bit conservative but this is my personal opinion. I'm Asian and my ex is black. He satisfied me to the max as I do the same for him. RACE does not play any part in it.

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  47.   jaypea says:
    Posted: 20 Mar 12

    you can't help who your attracted to period black,white whatever....some of the comments on here make me question people's moral fibers....love is where you find it,as for me i love all women...

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  48.   WhiteMamma says:
    Posted: 19 Mar 12

    It's time to center sex around the needs of the woman, not the man. Standard sex is everything is about him & his pleasure - why have we put up with it? Now it has to be about our pleasure, he has to prevent his until we have had ours, even if it takes an hour or two. Haha, foreplay, massage, kissing, making out, oral, everything, for one to two hours until the woman is happy......because once he gets his, it's over, he rolls over & falls asleep or else out the door. We women have to demand our own pleasure, they have to have respect & value for us...whatever race they are. I date both black & white & they all need to learn, how to pleasure a woman, they do not know how - sometimes they don't care. Don't listen to what they say, they all talk big. Once behind doors, it's the same ole' story. You have to DEMAND what you want & stick to it. Tell them ahead of time, "This is how it will be, otherwise, don't go home with me." You have to mean business or it's all about them, & then, good bye. They don't even know you the next day. College girls tell me the same exact thing.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      WhiteMama...thank you!! You get an A++. You are saying it clear and true. Too much casual sex is happening right now.... Too many women giving it up because the men are PRESSURING the women, taunting them and then saying they are sluts for giving it up. Wow...seriously (smh)

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  49.   kutu7 says:
    Posted: 19 Mar 12

    wow, damn, live and learn.

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  50. Posted: 03 Mar 12

    WoW! After reading all the previous comments, it's a lot to process... I was adopted by two loving parents when I was 6 months old and was never treated any differently because my skin was lighter than theirs. I can't understand some people's ignorance levels thinking that the color of skin has a direct correlation to the way some men or women may act or if they "pack heat" or not. I have seen how some people still treat others poorly within and outside of their own race. As far as interracial love goes, True Love is generally colorblind (at least that's what I'd like to believe so leave me w my fantasy-haha I get it that not every situation is that way) I just hope sometime in the future we all get passed what color skin which partner has thats different and see it as what things they have in common.

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