Warning: This post may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The post is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out what people think about black white dating.
In a bid to explain why Black women get upset about Black men dating White women, Chris Rock in his latest stand up comedy says all Black men have done is exercised their option. He goes on to say Black women are angry because they are not attracted to white men so they can’t exercise their option. All they can do is sleep with “pretty white boys” but generally, black women are not attracted to white men.
In my opinion, the above statements suggest Black women only date interracially out of desperation. In fact, most Black men believe so. And the finger pointing between Black men and Black women never ends. I don’t think this is the case though and frankly, I have never understood why Black men and Black women have to come up with such crude and prejudiced remarks while trying to figure out the reasoning behind their counterparts’ dating options. YES! Options.
What do you think of Chris Rock’s theory?
eric some of the things you say are true. with the hiv/aids . but it is a lot of sisters out here that are not carrying any std’s.. okay see no one is being in denial about this thing. sister are careful. some more than others but i am but whites do still sterotype. yes . but the thing is the boob tube we call tv. cable. all that nonsense. has created. isolation with our minds sending what we want to hear not what we need to.
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another thing most majority of people black and white have the herpes virus. some do not know they have it. and men with hpv and chlamydia do not even know they are carriers because they are no symptoms but it can be detected in women. they have std dating sites but even hell they are scared to date. but i used to work for the health dept. so i got the stats bro..!!and i get plenty of whitemen still jocking me. so that is not always true. about we are on the low radar. it is more whitemen dating us. but at the same time i tell sisters they are no different from black men just another race. men are men. all of you want to get fucked and somemore.
but it is up to the woman how she presents herself to the male. that get her what she wants. hate the player not the game.
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Eric and Walter I am simply astonished in the way you guys speak.. I believe it goes deeper you speak as if only black women are capable of having diseases dnt catergorize all black women in that… some if not the majority are descent I my self refuse to have sex til marriage thus meaning I do not have or ever will have an Std( I’ll marry a virgin)…and I know I’m not the only one its wrong to say “black women are off limits” as though we are filthy and disgusting please don’t be so ugly…imagine if I had done that “all white men…this” that’s wrong I want let the actions of certain individuals influence my opinion of an entire race… in the utmost respect these blog were for people who supported the subject not for people who would bring things against it so please go else where with your “facts”(not all of us are in these statisics) and negativity. ..no smiley face
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wow…..such similiar writing styles I notice here….LMAO…..”they” know who “THEY” are…..don’t fall for this “child’s play”, love crazy. Just let Eric/Walter have their time here…..hey we all have “strange” hobbies.
Peace and Blessings
tatted2death
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I see that Eric still goes on his crusade here. And the message is getting louder and clearer: the black women are filthy! They have more STD’s than anybody anywhere! They have it all: genital herpes! aids! clamydia! gonorrhea! syphilis!
The only thing I still don’t get is this: what is your motive here? Put some fear of God’s punishment on people? Make them stop dating black women? Do you try to convince white men not to have sex with black women? Or do you try to stop black women from having sex with anybody at all?
You see, Eric. People will have sex, regardless. You can post these scientific facts all you like, but people will have sex. That is the problem with guys like you. Like the Pope. You guys think that if you make people too scared to have sex, these deseases will dissappear. No they don’t. I know it is very unfortunate, but staying virgin does not make these deseases go away.
What has happened in countries where they have a huge HIV epidemic (like South Africa), virgins have become targets for men. Just because they are thinkin like you are: black women are spreading the virus! Now, because they can’t tell from a grown up woman weather she is a virgin or not, they go out and rape children. Just to make sure that they can f*** STD free somebody. This is also a scientific fact. Is this something you wish to see happening in black community in USA? Men raping children so they that they can avoid STD’s? If not, then what is your goal? What do you want people to do, other than be too scared to f***?
I just try to figure out your idea. I get these scientific facts of yours. Yes, it is a bad situation. But what is your solution? Do you even have a solution? I doubt.
The only things you have said are that black women have more STD’s than anybody, that black women f*** around like horny rabbits, that black women are the MAIN reason (not the only)for the aids epidemic, that white men should stop seeing them, that everybody should stop having sex with black women, that everybody should have sex with white women, asian women or latin women, but not with black women. Am I getting this right? Is this the Message that you try to get out? “Do not have sex with black women”.
Why not have a new message: Everybody, get tested now! Get tested for all STD’s! Right now! Wouldn’t that be more productive?
By the way, you never answered my question: have you been tested? If you haven’t, you’re part of the problem you are preaching about. So tell us all: have you been tested? Are you 100% clean?
I have been tested many times during the time I’ve been sexually active. I have no problem with that. I practice safe sex. But I have sex. I sleep with nice women. Black or white. Or pink or blue, or green or yellow, or rainbow color. If I’m not sure about my sex partner or if it was a one night stand, I go get tested even I used a condom. Just to be safe. It is that simple. Could that be a solution? Get everybody tested? Maybe if people would know that they have STD’s they would take care of themselves and their partners?
Oh, I forgot what you have said all along: Black women keep on spreading the deseases even if they have a higher education, even if they are aware of HIV. Because they are black women, right? What a croak of s***.
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This Eric person keeps talking about “facts” and “denial” but he keep referring to the down low black male as lies. Now who is really in denial.
What this character fails to mention is that if the reported cases are so low among black men, it is because many of the cases are, no doubt, unreported.
It burns me up that this man brings his black rear end in here to completely throw black women under the bus, as if black men are so innocent and clean and have nothing at all to do with the high rate of infection in the black community.
LET’S KEEP IT REAL!!
Sure some black women may have been infected by drug use, some maybe from white men. Many no doubt from being prostitutes. However, I think it is pretty safe to say that for the majority of black women, their sexual partners have been black men. Now if you refuse to acknowledge that, then who really is the one that has their head in the sand.
Deny it all you want, but you say you are a man of statistics. You well know the high percentages of black males that are or have been incarcerated. And since you choose to accuse black women of being infected by white men, why don’t you run a check on some statistic on the number of white men who have reported they were raped by black men while behind bars. Yep, they rape the gay men too. Who do you think gets the full affect of that when these men are released back into society? Their wives or girlfriends.
I could go on and on. Telling what I know, not think. Women who have been in what they thought were monogamous relationships, given diseases by cheating men who frequent prostitutes, strippers, other men, and countless other women. Old married men who discovered the blue pill and cheated with young women and brought their diseases home to their wives.
How dare you come here depicting the black woman as something so nasty and so dirty, and the poor , poor innocent black man with no other choice but to join all other men and run to other women.
HOW DARE YOU!!!
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Comment by tatted2death on 21 July 2010:
wow…..such similiar writing styles I notice here
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I have to admit I thought the exact same thang!!!
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Poor Eric, you just keep ranting and ravin! You must be greatly disturbed here because in one sentence you talk about me being a black man when actually I am a white man, like everybody here know by now. Then you talk about the statistics and claim that I deny them. Where did I do that? I said that I get them. I just don’t get you.
And once again, like all the preachers in this world, you don’t answer a single question: have you been tested? Because if you have not been tested, then you are part of the problem.
I practice safe sex and I’ve said this to you in all my texts. I also get tested. Do you?
Why don’t you get from your high horse and put your money where your mouth is and get tested? Start practicing what you preach. First person to influence is you yourself.
You can be either part of the solution or problem, and frankly, as long as you don’t get tested for ALL STD’s, you are part of the problem that so much troubles you.
What bothers me in your rambling is that you make a lot of effort to prove that black women are the reason for all this trouble, for all the STD in black community. You know that this is a whole lotta bull. You ever heard Magic Johnson??
I’m not hurt by your childish anger and new born moral issues at all. I don’t care about your political or moral creeds, ideas, ramblings or religions. What bothers me is this: you keep blaming the black women, your own that is. What is behind this vengefulness, this hate of yours? Why do you want to put the blame on black women alone?
You know what is a theory about Adolf Hitler and his intense hatred of jews? Some researches have speculated that Adolf Hitler got STD from a jewish prostitute in Wienna before WW 1 and that is the reason behind his pathological hatred of jews. Just one theory. I don’t know how close this gets to you, but one wonders…
So my advice for you is this: 1. Get tested. 2. If infected or have any STD take care of yourself. 3. Stop acting like a witch hunter and start to find solutions to that horrible situation. This way you can be something positive instead of being a major a-hole.
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@ sam, ms brown and tatted
eric/laurelton/walter is a joke.
1) bm are a 1 in 16 chance of being carriers or infected with hiv/aids this joker knows it
2) bw are 1 in 30 chance and chucklehead knows that as well
3) gay sex male on male accounts for over 70% of all new cases and that guy stated it in his own post.
4)it is twice as likely to get this disease from a black male than a black woman.
so i do not understand why this brain dead schmuck continues to try and deflect it. it is smart for all people of every race to get tested regularly and to practice safe sex. that is not new information and i am betting his has been tested, has it and is looking for someone to blame and he doesnt want to blame his boyfreind from jail.
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It is important to know statistics,but they are only bits and pieces of information,data that is up to the individual to interpret and apply accordingly.
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At what time did I say or imply that I am a non-believer in statistics? Or imply that they are wrong? Of all people, I am a lover of truth and logic. I simply believe that just because statistics may be unfavorably high,doesn’t mean I have to become one. I am an individual who takes responsibility for my own choices and with extreme prejudice,excercises my own judgement. Data is data.Numbers and ratios,which hold a certain element of truth because they are factual and factual because they can be proven. But, if I am ONE responsible individual who is not a part of the statics,multipy that exponentially…..,why there are millions of African-american women who are just like me! Is it fair to take those statistics and paint with such broad strokes? I am responsible for me today.
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Comment by Eric:
“I have already presented the facts concerning black men ’supposedly” being on the DL, and affecting all these black women.”
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“supposedly” huh? Allllll righty then.!!
Say what you want, you know what’s up.
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@ Walter or whoever you are:
You stated:
“I became very concerned about this topic because I have dated black women for almost two years, had relations with 14 different women, and haven’t one time used safe sex.”
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Ya know what… you don’t sound to bright.
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too even
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well “walter”
i guess you have the same reading comprehension problem as “eric” since neither one of you seems to understand the statistics that you have referred to.yes i will agree black women account for better than 80% of the cases in FEMALES but only21% of total cases. MEN account for more than 70% of total cases with black and white men each carrying about 30% of the load. and with only 13% of the total population it makes black men the riskiest group by far.as well over 70% of all new cases are directly attributed to gay MALE SEX because it is the transfer of fluids that spreads the disease and for your information women do not usually leave there “fluids” inside you butt you boyfreind does. but by your limited understanding and theories we should all be dating either asian, latino or white women and stop dating inside our own races. that way every race can share the burden equally … right ??? spread it around we got lots…i like your way of thinking guy(s). do i need to point out thats sarcasm or did i lay it on thick enough for you to get it all by yourself. it really bothers me to watch people claiming to be educated massacre something like these simple numbers so badly.
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Walter,
YOU ARE UNQUESTIONABLY A TOTAL FOOL. You lead THAT kind of promiscuous life style,and blame BLACK WOMEN as the risk????YOU did this to yourself by having NO self control AND having unprotected sex!!!!Idiot, town idiot,if you increase your OWN chances of contracting HIV and ANY OTHER std what do you expect?????.As you stated it only takes once to end up with a life time of regret,and again,you slept with 14 different women,that you admit to,with no protection. Hell, you shouldn’t be reading the CDC site,you should be REPORTING IN TO THE CENTER.
African-Americans always get blamed publicly for what whites are equally,if not more to guilty of. You all have always been good at throwing the rock and hiding your hand,then you use white privilege to cover up the shit stains,like a child who hasn’t learned to wipe himself well yet, but without the innocence. But praise be to God above,no matter what you have thrown at us,he has kept us,made us strong….survivors. Yes, some may have made mistakes and become statistics but they give back by reaching back to educate others,if only in their family they place themselves as an examples of living warnings. It would be pleasantly ironic if you contract HIV from a non-black woman….LOL.
MAN! GET OUTTA HERE!….LMAO
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Punching holes,
7/18/2010 Walter states: I came to this site about a week ago, so this means on or about 7/11/10.
In his post on 7/23/10 Walter states: I have only been on this site for about three weeks now, so from the 11th until the 23rd, that’s about 12 days, not three weeks.
7/18/2010 Walter states: that he has been dating black females for a little more than two years now. He then went on to say that he recently met a nice black female that he wanted to get to know better, that is, until his family and friends intervened on his behalf to convince him otherwise, blah, blah!
Here’s the kicker for me with Walter or whoever he’s calling himself today, he also stated on this date 7/18/2010 that : Some of my friends and other guys that I have known over the years have in the past dated black ladies, but no longer because of AIDS. They are fearful over the prospect of being infected with AIDS by black women and I can’t blame them because I feel the same way.
Now here we are, some 5 days later and Walter thanks Eric for openening his eyes to this problem, a problem that he himself had already admitted to having knowledge of, in his own words. Also I’m not getting why he as a white male, who is fearful of black women would INTENTIONALLY come to an INTERRACIAL dating site, doesn’t make a lot of sense to me!! When a person is fearful of something or someone, wouldn’t it be wise to stay away as far as possible??? I’m petrified of lightning so I wouldn’t intentionally go out in a storm, while it’s lightning!
AIDS/HIV has been on the radar since 1981, almost 30 years. One of the pieces of information that has been in the forefront on how NOT to contract this disease, is to ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS! Yet Walter just admitted to NOT wearing condoms!!! In his own words, “the women never mentioned condoms, we just did our thing”. What a dumbass!!! My favorite part from Walter is when he said ” if those black women that keep coming here as we all see here, that are in denial and aren’t intelligent enough to wake up and smell the coffee, then I think their fate is already sealed”. This is from a man that admitts to having unprotected sex, with fourteen women! What a dumbass!!!!
I’m wondering if in the future if Walter is going to be man enough, honest enough, to share with his future partner as to how many women he had unprotected sex with??? I’m wondering also if Walter is aware of the fact, that he himself has placed himself in the high risk category by having unprotected sex, with multiple partners, again, what a dumbass!!!! I do hope Walter is also aware that even though his test came back negative, that does NOT mean that he is in the clear!!! Check out the incubation period, dear Walter, you can test negative today, and six months from now, it may be a whole different story.
Yes Walter every man/woman shall reap what they have sewn, this does NOT apply to black women only.
Please reference your motives, and your behavior here in the book of Proverbs, 6th chapter, verses 16-19.
Your friend is NOT here, get over it! I’m on to you, you are NOT clever at all!!!!!! You gave yourself away on the very first day, and it’s not just what you said, it’s what you didn’t say, the time of day, and no matter how many aliases you come up with, I can still hear that angry, bitter, and rejected man that you are!
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@bigeyes31,
Hey there! Love the picture!!
love
godiva
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“You all have always been good at throwing the rock and hiding your hand,then you use white privilege to cover up the shit stains,like a child who hasn’t learned to wipe himself well yet, but without the innocence.”
Even if I am a white man, I found this hilarious! Way to go, Bigeyes31, well said!
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hey big eyes
firstly i liked the new pics as well.
now i know you are expecting this but the whole “white priviledge” thing when in the past stating the evils of stereotyping. not all white countries fall into the same evils nor all white people. unlike walter i have been with 4 women in the last 20 years and i still get tested regularly “just in case” as should EVERYONE regardless of who or how many people you are sleeping with. 14 in 2 years unprotected??? that is just ridiculous shows no self-respect or respect to the women he is involved with and it would be their fault if he got a disease??? WOW he has also just proven some people have no class, there is more to growing up than growing old (told to me by my grandfather, a real man) end of discussion.
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Hey Ms. Godiva! Thank you so much for the pic comment. Good to hear from ya.
Hey Sam,LOL.
Thanks for getting the humor in what I said and I am glad you didn’t take offense to it. I was chuckling to myself as I was typing. It was only designed to offend the one to whom it was directed. I was targeting the hidden racism that I suspect is there in his heart.
Hi looking for Life
Thank you. I’m glad you like the pictures.
I know that not all whites are the same but this guy seemed to be into generalizations,so I threw one his way. Obviously a racists if he can be apart of the very behaviour that is causing HIV to be as epidemic as it is and STILL blame another race and gender of people as the problem…whoa! Also,he just really pissed me off.
Peace
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big eyes ,
i know the feeling i have written more here in the last 2 weeks than the last year. laurelton/eric/walter pisses me off as well. i thank you for straightening that out and as i said i was sure you were expecting it
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@Bigeyes:
OMG you’re in “color.” Wonderful photo of you! YOU GO GIRL!
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MzBrown:
Tatted knew right away (I was skeptical). But I’m so glad he’s been outed! I wonder how others who co-signed with him feels now? I’m disappointed that I could not “see.”
And you are right, he don’t sound so bright!
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Hey Petite Gurlll. How you doing?
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Hey Petite, you are the sweetest! Thanks so much for the compliments. I thought I’d follow your lead and do something in color,lol. It’s funny how I took this picture last Tuesday with my cell phone camera sitting in the car on lunch break ,hence all the sun light shining in,LOL,bored as hell,LOL and it turned out nicely,at least according to you,LOL. Thanks a bunch! I think I’m going to try your hair-style this time but I thinks it’s your personality and style that makes it rock,LOL.
Love ya lady
Peace
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Glad they FINALLY pulled that other MADNESS out of here…..LMAO….some will NEVER learn…
Peace People
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MzBrown:
Hey sistahhhhh! I almost put an APB out on you. LOL.
I’m good, hope you’re well and all in your life is too.
*smooches*
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MsBigEyes:
Girl now you know you rocking that pix. It’s really nice. And you took it with your cell? I can’t do that. I’ve tried. My mess comes out looking like umm, err, what was SHE trying to do. LOL.
Thank you for the compliment sis. Change is good!
I’m honored to know a sistahhh appreciates my thoughts. Truly!
Ummm, I suspect you won’t be bored long looking like that though!!!!
*smooches*
Love ya much.
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Hey Ms. Tatted!
I had to scroll up real quick and you’re right! Those posts are gone. That’s a good thing.
This sort of thing “open blog” in my opinion makes the quality of the dating experience here go down. Anyone can post here. People with the wrong intentions read this stuff and other blogs and then join up with preconceived notions or with thoughts that Black women are desperate. We ARE NO SUCH THING.
I’ve left as an account holder and on to another site – w/o all of this as a distraction. Quality is lacking here in my humble opinion. But that don’t mean I won’t run into the same or similar elsewhere. I just think this blog causes trouble for serious daters.
Good to see you sistahhh!
I don’t post as often, but I’m around sometimes.
Best to my sistahhh friend!
*smooches*
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Comment by tatted2death on 28 July 2010:
LOL……as a side bar….
Man, I wish you could start your own threads here….I would start my own “pic gripe” section…
Addressing issues such as
Why did the pics get SMALLER??
And personally, sometimes I just feel like if you don’t have a pic YOU NEED TO BE IN YOUR OWN “SPECIAL” blog….LOL
Peite:
YES!!!! Especially the no photo. I’ll chat up a no photo person here (member) on the blogs but I certainly wouldn’t take it any further. You can see me, and it would be a MUST that I see you.
On point, yet again!
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@ Petite:
LOL yep I figured that APB was coming. Figured I bettuh show my face before them laws come showing up at my door.. hehehe!
Actually for the most part I just lurk pretty often. I still put in my 2 cents worth every once in a while.
I’m doing well. Not every day is all sunshine and roses, but I am Blessed and Highly Favored. Thanks for askin.
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HIya Petite….
I totally understand why you have left the site (especially after the fraud you experienced)….
…I guess I have just “found home” here in a way and the chatroom that is attached to the site is a hoot….LOL.
I wish you all the best on the new site
Peace and Blessings to you, sis
tatted2death
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Well im going to answer the poster because some of the responses ive read are disturbing at best.
I dont think that black women date other races out of desperation because black women have been dating other races as long as black men. Definitely at a lower percentage but just as long. I have always seen black women with other races. So its nothing new. Are there some ignorant reasons out there why they do it? yes but no different than why black men do it.
Honestly there is a real problem within the black race period and dating outside the race is not the most important reason but its part of the problem with the black race.
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So much truth in your words snickers38.
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Wow. There is a lot of various views on here. I personally view everyone as individuals and can’t comment on black stereotypes male or female especially since I am white and haven’t read any studies out there on it. I think everyone is cool until shown otherwise. I am just curious, has there been any studies on what was stated in this myriad of viewpoints? I don’t know personally. So I am not challenging anyone’s view whatsoever on this blog. I just wanted to throw a general statement out there. Studies do show that internet communication as well as higher movement rates of all races around the country are moving around the country more. And in person, people tend to date who they are surrounded by and in close proximity the most so maybe the greater desegregation of races as they move around and intermingle causes more interracial dating in general as well as the internet bringing people exposed to people they wouldn’t normally be exposed to because of lack of proximity. Just throwing out a possibility.:-)
Joseph Moyer
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