You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection

Posted by Leticia, 30 Aug 12

“Online dating does work, and I’m living proof of that,” says Nandi, who used our site to meet a man she’s mad for. “For some people, it doesn’t take long to find that certain someone. For others, it takes quite awhile. The main thing is, don’t ever give up. The longer it takes, the more rewarding it’ll be when you find that special person.”

Dustin, Nandi’s new beau, advises singles to “keep your head up and keep looking. Just because you don’t find someone right away doesn’t mean you won’t! Your perfect person is out there.”

Nandi joined our site with the sense that this could be big for her. She explains... “I was more confident than most because some of my family members have found their loved ones on dating sites.”

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A newcomer to the online personals scene, Nandi was excited by the possibilities as she explored our site. “It was my first experience! I thought it would be fun. Plus, it’s easier to narrow down what you’re looking for.”

Dustin, however, was wrestling with significant doubts about dating online. “I was not confident,” he admits. “I was losing hope. I wanted to try online dating because there were no good women in my area I would want to date. I figured online dating was my best option.”

Unfortunately, Dustin’s initial forays into the online dating pool were unsuccessful. “I had used several sites before, with no luck.” Still, something convinced him to roll the dice on us. “I was giving online sites one last try before cutting my losses,” he says of his decision to sign up.

Nandi and Dustin joined at about the same time. It was only a couple of weeks before their paths crossed. Nandi wrote in her profile that she was interested in quantum astronomy and quantum physics. So “Dustin86” sent “Seaflower912” (Nandi) an email complimenting her on her intelligence. He didn’t expect to receive anything in return. But Nandi wrote back. “We began talking every day,” she says.

Sometimes people seem great on the surface, but the more you get to know them, the more you know there’s no match to be made. In Dustin’s case, Nandi passed each successive test with flying colors. “My first impression of her when I saw her profile was ‘Wow! She’s smart, and pretty!’ That impression solidified and I knew I was hooked. This girl was everything I was looking for: intelligent, sweet, charming, beautiful. The whole package.”

After close to two months of emailing and calling one another every day, Dustin and Nandi were ready to road test this relationship in the making. “I thought I knew as much about her as I possibly could without meeting in person,” says Dustin. So he decided to take this courtship to the next level.

For their first date, they went bowling and had dinner afterwards. Nandi shares her impressions. “My first thought was how tall he was, which I loved, and how handsome and well dressed. He was a gentleman. He was also very independent and mature for his age.”

Dustin was intoxicated by Nandi’s feminine grace. “My first thought was how pretty she was, and how much I liked her hair,” he says. “But I was surprised she was so quiet, when we had talked about so much on the phone and over email.”

Nandi may have been a bit shy in their first meeting, but Dustin’s gregarious personality filled the silences. “I was surprised at how outspoken and lively he was, although I shouldn’t have been because he’d seemed that way over the phone.”

As the end of the date drew near, neither party wanted to walk away. “We both had a wonderful evening and wanted to see each other again,” says Nandi. “The fact that I didn’t want to part ways after our first date was a reassurance for me.” Dustin was thoroughly convinced, as well. “I knew I wanted to go out again!”

Their relationship progressed steadily from there. Nandi came to find that the guy in her life was even more impressive than advertised. “Many things didn’t come across in his profile that I know now and really appreciate. He’s extremely caring and protective. He’s also very driven, which is good motivation for me!”

Dustin didn’t corner the market on ambition, though. “I really like how passionate Nandi is,” he says. “In everything she does, she tries to accomplish it to the best of her ability. Whether it’s writing a new song, or cooking a meal….”

We usually ask couples if their partner is exactly the person they always hoped to find, or a surprise match. Of Dustin, Nandi says “his personality was different than my ‘type,’ but better than what I’d hoped for. But we are very similar when it comes to intelligence, creativity, and physical activity.”

Dustin didn’t have a type in the traditional sense, but he did set priorities before embarking on his search for love. “I had actually written up a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a partner. Nandi has every attribute!”

Nandi is still blissed out by her good fortune. “I never really thought having someone in my life could make me want to experience more, or even make me happier. But I’m happier now than ever, and it’s a great feeling.”

Dustin and Nandi are helping each other to grow and mature. Their mutual and individual goals seem much more attainable with a supportive partner in their corner. Dustin is well aware of the impact his sweetheart has made on his life. “Since I met Nandi, I am a lot happier and more motivated to push myself. I want to succeed and accomplish a lot, not only for myself but to make her proud.”

For singles seeking the advice of someone who made our site work for them, Nandi has this to say. “You have to know exactly what you want when you begin. You can’t accept every Flirt or message you get from people, because it’s a waste of your time and theirs if you know they’re not what you’re looking for. Use that time searching for the one you want!”

Dustin has also thought about suggestions to share with our membership. “There are a lot of people who you may think you could like but, without definite guidelines, you can get lost in all the profiles. Don’t settle for someone you will not be truly happy with.”

362 responses to "You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection"

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  1.   1Praise says:
    Posted: 12 Apr

    Wow. I wish you happiness

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  2.   Ebby-girl says:
    Posted: 06 Apr

    Wow nice wow bravo

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  3.   Flashvbjjkg says:
    Posted: 04 Apr

    Waaaoo what an inspiration

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  4.   Ever.kathy says:
    Posted: 26 Mar

    I believe everybody in life has a time destined for him or her. There time came and they utilized it adequately. Mine is soonest

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    • Johnraju says:
      Posted: 01 Apr

      Really you write true time is everything in life and everything God give

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  5.   Aanandm says:
    Posted: 22 Mar

    OK I hope n god will help to search my true life partner

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  6.   masamza says:
    Posted: 17 Feb

    Bravo

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  7.   Romio13ar says:
    Posted: 15 Feb

    I am in need of a friend please msg me if u think like me

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  8.   Abbybe says:
    Posted: 12 Feb

    Wow wow wow , I envy you people. It gives me hope

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  9.   AkuLov22 says:
    Posted: 10 Feb

    It's really nice I wish I ll be one of this story one day

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  10.   Ik69 says:
    Posted: 31 Jan

    I have also waiting who is real love me I have need good girl she understand my filling

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  11.   asamoahn17 says:
    Posted: 30 Jan

    Am sick and tired of waiting for my soul mate,for how long must i wait? Any way time is money.

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  12.   Mareledi says:
    Posted: 28 Jan

    Nice,ul be patient waiting for my soulmate

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  13.   sharma1969 says:
    Posted: 16 Jan

    Hi

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  14.   herb22 says:
    Posted: 09 Jan

    it's quite okay

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  15.   Boowow says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 17

    quite remarkable move and inspiration especially to me

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  16.   Bubblehoo says:
    Posted: 27 Dec 17

    Nice really there is nothing mordan that

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  17.   Newamkaima says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 17

    Very nice indeed! Am also would like to make that same love Destiny.

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  18.   PaulaD says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 17

    Nice I hope have my king

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  19.   budesiyana says:
    Posted: 07 Dec 17

    Its very good, let me wait maybe next time I will get girlfriend/window to be with her forever

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  20. Posted: 06 Dec 17

    Mmmmm wonderful experiences,I will not give up ,I believe I will find my right man here .

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  21.   Jenneluv says:
    Posted: 05 Dec 17

    Very nice hope to meet mine soon

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  22.   Dornlee says:
    Posted: 02 Dec 17

    Timely tips. I am happy for ýou. Clearly, the moons were aligned and nature çhipped in. Two souls became one. They twinned and thats a basis for true and lasting love. I love this story

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  23.   shiellla says:
    Posted: 29 Nov 17

    thanks to quintos miss leticia

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  24.   Mwambur says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 17

    That's so interesting and encouragement for others I think we have to learn from their experience and that nothing good comes from a silver plate u ve to work hard and commit urself fully too I wish them all the best in their r/ship

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  25.   yeshvarma says:
    Posted: 07 Nov 17

    Thanq for valuable information and congratulations both of u...

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  26.   sam_82 says:
    Posted: 31 Oct 17

    Okey. ..My. Ssweet princesse

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  27.   colamashaa says:
    Posted: 28 Oct 17

    It is nice to meet lovely and honest person.

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  28.   Mariadiana says:
    Posted: 25 Oct 17

    Sweet story.... I hope i will have soon my sweet story

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  29.   Musiclover_ says:
    Posted: 21 Oct 17

    Hope I can find my true love here..

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  30.   Oracle555 says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 17

    Nice one n enjoy ur relationship to de fullness

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  31.   Emmah-bless says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 17

    Wow very touchy

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  32.   Raajaah says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 17

    Interesting n touchy

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  33.   yanini says:
    Posted: 27 Sep 17

    enjoy your time and good relationship

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  34.   Ioverly says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 17

    Hi.congatulation to you two

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  35.   alice26 says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 17

    woow.....am so impressed and congratulations to you two

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  36.   hlehleriza says:
    Posted: 16 Sep 17

    Woooow that's great,I wish I could get my king too

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  37.   snora says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 17

    Thanks for such wonderful advise because I almost gave up and I was told that easy come easy go so I must take my time

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  38.   rohitg12 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 17

    Sorry

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  39.   Debliek says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 17

    Have you a nice day.

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  40.   Johnnyflyer says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 17

    I agree you cant accept every flurt or message and have a clear idea in your head also how far you are prepared to travel as well to meet each other. Good luck to both of you.... john x

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  41.   Ciallo says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 17

    All the best to all those who live a testimony. Happy for you.

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  42.   Ciallo says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 17

    I am a one person who never easily give up but I have wondered all over to get my partner but nothing so I tend to give up. To this point am tired I guess

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    • Elliot13 says:
      Posted: 17 Aug 17

      There so many people who are single but just because others they don't use this site to find their lovers that's why it's not easy to have it but keep trying don't give up ok , am also one of those but am trying up to when I'll find my loved one.

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      • Henyhola says:
        Posted: 26 Aug 17

        Ur right partner will surely hookup with you I believe things will be alright

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      • shiellla says:
        Posted: 29 Nov 17

        im new here .i join a lot of dating site but is really.difficult to find a right man for me .hope this site can find my true love.

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    • sharifshaon says:
      Posted: 27 Sep 17

      Nice

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  43.   Betty1974 says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 17

    Am wandering if am going to be lucky

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  44.   Jamesvertex says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 17

    Wow that's great congratulation to you, I know my is one day

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  45.   Comanche999 says:
    Posted: 27 Jul 17

    I can never find me a native American wife who's a jahovahs witness plus before I became a witness the wemon only wanted a quick or you're money or they say hit the road

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  46.   La-toya says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 17

    Love is lovely

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  47.   Pintostud says:
    Posted: 22 Jul 17

    This is so cool

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  48.   Isleck says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 17

    Congrats my lovers my god gives your'll his spirit and blessing to your loved ones and I willing to being just like you guys

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  49.   Isleck says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 17

    Congrats my lovers my god gives your'll his spirit and blessing to your loved ones

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  50.   Jemo84 says:
    Posted: 05 Jul 17

    Such an inspiration. 'All the best '

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