You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection

Posted by Leticia, 30 Aug 12

“Online dating does work, and I’m living proof of that,” says Nandi, who used our site to meet a man she’s mad for. “For some people, it doesn’t take long to find that certain someone. For others, it takes quite awhile. The main thing is, don’t ever give up. The longer it takes, the more rewarding it’ll be when you find that special person.”

Dustin, Nandi’s new beau, advises singles to “keep your head up and keep looking. Just because you don’t find someone right away doesn’t mean you won’t! Your perfect person is out there.”

Nandi joined our site with the sense that this could be big for her. She explains... “I was more confident than most because some of my family members have found their loved ones on dating sites.”

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A newcomer to the online personals scene, Nandi was excited by the possibilities as she explored our site. “It was my first experience! I thought it would be fun. Plus, it’s easier to narrow down what you’re looking for.”

Dustin, however, was wrestling with significant doubts about dating online. “I was not confident,” he admits. “I was losing hope. I wanted to try online dating because there were no good women in my area I would want to date. I figured online dating was my best option.”

Unfortunately, Dustin’s initial forays into the online dating pool were unsuccessful. “I had used several sites before, with no luck.” Still, something convinced him to roll the dice on us. “I was giving online sites one last try before cutting my losses,” he says of his decision to sign up.

Nandi and Dustin joined at about the same time. It was only a couple of weeks before their paths crossed. Nandi wrote in her profile that she was interested in quantum astronomy and quantum physics. So “Dustin86” sent “Seaflower912” (Nandi) an email complimenting her on her intelligence. He didn’t expect to receive anything in return. But Nandi wrote back. “We began talking every day,” she says.

Sometimes people seem great on the surface, but the more you get to know them, the more you know there’s no match to be made. In Dustin’s case, Nandi passed each successive test with flying colors. “My first impression of her when I saw her profile was ‘Wow! She’s smart, and pretty!’ That impression solidified and I knew I was hooked. This girl was everything I was looking for: intelligent, sweet, charming, beautiful. The whole package.”

After close to two months of emailing and calling one another every day, Dustin and Nandi were ready to road test this relationship in the making. “I thought I knew as much about her as I possibly could without meeting in person,” says Dustin. So he decided to take this courtship to the next level.

For their first date, they went bowling and had dinner afterwards. Nandi shares her impressions. “My first thought was how tall he was, which I loved, and how handsome and well dressed. He was a gentleman. He was also very independent and mature for his age.”

Dustin was intoxicated by Nandi’s feminine grace. “My first thought was how pretty she was, and how much I liked her hair,” he says. “But I was surprised she was so quiet, when we had talked about so much on the phone and over email.”

Nandi may have been a bit shy in their first meeting, but Dustin’s gregarious personality filled the silences. “I was surprised at how outspoken and lively he was, although I shouldn’t have been because he’d seemed that way over the phone.”

As the end of the date drew near, neither party wanted to walk away. “We both had a wonderful evening and wanted to see each other again,” says Nandi. “The fact that I didn’t want to part ways after our first date was a reassurance for me.” Dustin was thoroughly convinced, as well. “I knew I wanted to go out again!”

Their relationship progressed steadily from there. Nandi came to find that the guy in her life was even more impressive than advertised. “Many things didn’t come across in his profile that I know now and really appreciate. He’s extremely caring and protective. He’s also very driven, which is good motivation for me!”

Dustin didn’t corner the market on ambition, though. “I really like how passionate Nandi is,” he says. “In everything she does, she tries to accomplish it to the best of her ability. Whether it’s writing a new song, or cooking a meal….”

We usually ask couples if their partner is exactly the person they always hoped to find, or a surprise match. Of Dustin, Nandi says “his personality was different than my ‘type,’ but better than what I’d hoped for. But we are very similar when it comes to intelligence, creativity, and physical activity.”

Dustin didn’t have a type in the traditional sense, but he did set priorities before embarking on his search for love. “I had actually written up a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a partner. Nandi has every attribute!”

Nandi is still blissed out by her good fortune. “I never really thought having someone in my life could make me want to experience more, or even make me happier. But I’m happier now than ever, and it’s a great feeling.”

Dustin and Nandi are helping each other to grow and mature. Their mutual and individual goals seem much more attainable with a supportive partner in their corner. Dustin is well aware of the impact his sweetheart has made on his life. “Since I met Nandi, I am a lot happier and more motivated to push myself. I want to succeed and accomplish a lot, not only for myself but to make her proud.”

For singles seeking the advice of someone who made our site work for them, Nandi has this to say. “You have to know exactly what you want when you begin. You can’t accept every Flirt or message you get from people, because it’s a waste of your time and theirs if you know they’re not what you’re looking for. Use that time searching for the one you want!”

Dustin has also thought about suggestions to share with our membership. “There are a lot of people who you may think you could like but, without definite guidelines, you can get lost in all the profiles. Don’t settle for someone you will not be truly happy with.”

294 responses to "You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection"

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  1.   Pintostud says:
    Posted: 10 hrs ago (Awaiting moderation)

    This is so cool

  2.   Isleck says:
    Posted: 10 Jul

    Congrats my lovers my god gives your'll his spirit and blessing to your loved ones and I willing to being just like you guys

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  3.   Isleck says:
    Posted: 10 Jul

    Congrats my lovers my god gives your'll his spirit and blessing to your loved ones

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  4.   Jemo84 says:
    Posted: 05 Jul

    Such an inspiration. 'All the best '

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  5.   Malisali says:
    Posted: 05 Jul

    Yeah really it's nice to have someone loves you

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  6.   Mkhule says:
    Posted: 04 Jul

    Good lovers n good relactionship

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  7.   dahiruka says:
    Posted: 03 Jul

    Amazing ideas

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  8.   ingaxna says:
    Posted: 28 Jun

    Wowwww, wat a lovely story!!! All da bst in relationship.

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  9.   babyprinty says:
    Posted: 26 Jun

    Hope to get someone serious to marry....

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  10.   Boyfriends says:
    Posted: 26 Jun

    Hope to find some one serious

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  11.   Fluffy_123 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun

    Hope to find true friendship leading up to serious n lifetime.

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  12.   Sadat16 says:
    Posted: 08 Jun

    I hope I will find my partner as soon as possible on here that's all I need in these life. Good night from here

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  13.   Empress230 says:
    Posted: 06 Jun

    Thanks....I hope I will find my partner too..I just need to be patient.

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  14.   llorich says:
    Posted: 04 Jun

    Nice

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  15.   Jay_Ross says:
    Posted: 02 Jun

    Nice

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  16.   Amsboy says:
    Posted: 01 Jun

    So super.Cant wait for my time.

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  17.   dalatjie says:
    Posted: 29 May

    Good to seee that hope will find my partner soon

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  18.   Abudust says:
    Posted: 23 May

    Good news I hope to see my partner here an God could give that person has soon as possible,Good night to you all

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  19.   Febelyn says:
    Posted: 23 May

    Congrats both of you..i hole i can find my partner in life here soon

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  20.   ifemini says:
    Posted: 21 May

    cool

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  21.   ritah1988 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr

    Congs nandi and Dustin

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  22.   Anasdo says:
    Posted: 18 Apr

    How I wish I met my love so soon

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  23.   Dennieee says:
    Posted: 17 Apr

    How I wish to come my way ooh my God. God bless.

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  24.   Josh98 says:
    Posted: 01 Apr

    Wow that's great guys wish to meet my women here so soon enjoy!!!!!

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  25.   Yummia says:
    Posted: 30 Mar

    Thanks for the incouragement I wish and pray soon I will meet my soul mate here as well, I'm almost give up ...

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  26.   Presh12 says:
    Posted: 30 Mar

    That is wonderful. i hope il get my dream man here as well so that we can start our own family

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  27.   neema6240 says:
    Posted: 29 Mar

    Nice and lovely couple ,thanx for encouragement

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  28.   Ysard says:
    Posted: 27 Mar

    Am looking for something beautiful that can make a man happy

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  29.   vishupati says:
    Posted: 26 Mar

    Lovely couples

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  30.   sajjg says:
    Posted: 05 Mar

    Congrats

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  31.   Tidaps says:
    Posted: 04 Mar

    Wow!!!! Wonderful experience !!!!

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  32.   lovenfeel says:
    Posted: 04 Mar

    Lovely couple.hey .You guys proves that nothing is impossible.I'm so inspired.Stay blessed .

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  33.   Lisamake says:
    Posted: 01 Mar

    Congrats, that is d work of God, I wish them d best for life,I pray God answers me too,to meet someone ,

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    • Samarithan says:
      Posted: 09 May

      Peace and mercy to you from God the father and his son Jesus Christ our lord, amen.

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  34.   Niiice says:
    Posted: 27 Feb

    Congratulations.Thanks for encouragement.

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  35.   thamiii says:
    Posted: 23 Feb

    Nice one,congratulations guys may God.

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  36.   SkyeSkye says:
    Posted: 17 Feb

    Wow what a wonderful one,u go girl,I'm happy for you.All the best

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  37.   Posn says:
    Posted: 17 Feb

    Lovely couples

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  38.   Luraca says:
    Posted: 09 Feb

    I love it beautiful couple true love really exists..

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  39.   Agyandy says:
    Posted: 03 Feb

    Congratulation guys you are such amazing couple

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  40.   Hanibaby says:
    Posted: 29 Jan

    wooo this is lovely

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  41.   Muhandu says:
    Posted: 27 Jan

    Hmmmmmmmmmm you are a blessed couple wish to find my everlasting here too

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  42.   Nagubevu says:
    Posted: 26 Jan

    I wish i cn find my partner too "congratulations "

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  43.   Sekel says:
    Posted: 24 Jan

    Wooow that is so amazing

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  44.   sandnya says:
    Posted: 23 Jan

    nice to all friends

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  45.   queenlious says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    One day it would be me

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  46.   06991 says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    I wish this could happen to me too..

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  47.   peeno22 says:
    Posted: 17 Jan

    Hello everbody is beautiful here

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  48.   chamsbabie says:
    Posted: 04 Jan

    Congratulations because wishes makes realty

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  49.   Crystalic says:
    Posted: 23 Dec 16

    Amazing and all the best

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  50.   Gomale says:
    Posted: 18 Dec 16

    Good luck to all. You are all testament that true love can happen.

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