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Why Having Nothing in Common Can Be the Key
Ever felt that initial spark fizzle out because you and your partner seem worlds apart? It's common to panic when you think, "We have nothing in common." But before you jump ship, consider this: diffe... read more
The Top 5 Excuses for Being Too Busy to Date
In life, there are undoubtedly situations that genuinely hinder one's ability to prioritize dating. For instance, juggling the responsibilities of single parenthood alongside multiple jobs can leave l... read more
Bad Kisser: Are you one and what should you do about it?
Discovering you might be a subpar kisser, or dating someone with less-than-stellar kissing skills, can be an uncomfortable realization. A study reveals that 60% of respondents would end a relationship... read more
From First Flirt to Forever Person
When "BabyGirlForB" sent a flirt to "Dlf233354," neither could have imagined that this simple gesture would lead to finding their forever person. But that's exactly what happened for Vanessa and David... read more
How To Ask for a Second Date and Get It
You've just returned from a promising first date, and the next step is on your mind. The prospect of a second date is exciting, but how to go about it can be a bit perplexing. Fear not, as we are here... read more
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Is it love… or is it just sex? Here’s how to know
Is it love… or is it just sex? Here’s how to know You meet someone new, and a single glance sets off a burst of intense attraction. Your connection is electric, and it feels like you're falling head over heels. But is it the real deal? Can mere lust ...
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9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged
9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged So, you're thinking about taking that big step and getting engaged, huh? It's a major milestone in any relationship, and understandably, you want to make sure you're absolutely ready before you pop th...
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Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships
Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they offered you a compliment that deeply affected you? One where you just carry the sentiment and that warm glowing feeling of validation it brings...
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How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date?
How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date? The beginning of a relationship is one of the most exciting times, filled with bright expectations and new adventures. One of the things that makes this period especially fun is the prospect of vacati...
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Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last?
Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last? I don’t mean to pound the drum like this. Honestly. I don’t look for these articles; they just tend to find me. Thanks to living in the Information Age and the advent of Big Data, we now have the ...
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Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner
Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner At the risk of embarrassing myself (and a friend of mine), I’m going to share with you a conversation I had in 2008 when I was debating whether or not I should get married. It contained some price...
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You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't
You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....
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Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing?
Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...
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Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years?
Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...
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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...
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Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me?
Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me? Katie was in what she thought was a great relationship. Until it suddenly ended after the guy kissed him goodbye. Little did she know it was the last. Here is her story...
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How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later?
How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...
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I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams
I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...
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Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing?
Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?
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You Have To Kiss A Lot of Princes Before You Marry The Frog
You Have To Kiss A Lot of Princes Before You Marry The Frog You’ve been through a LOT when it comes to love. You’ve dated guys with whom you felt the most incredible connection, only to find out that they weren’t serious about you. You’ve dated guys wi...
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Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do?
Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do? One of our readers Elaine dropped us an email wondering why women hate being single. It read: Dear Evan, Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do? I know you say most men are marriage-m...
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About Evan Marc Katz
About Evan Marc Katz Hi, I’m Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who specializes in helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men. I have over 10 million blog readers, over 70,000 newslett...
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Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.
Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex. Laura has been dating online for a while now and has started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted her. They seem not to want anything serious.
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'You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!'
"You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!" My dating client, Mary L., has been happily dating John since our sessions and came back to us with a grateful note. Let's see what she said. "I’ve been thinking about our coaching so much lately! ...
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My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry?
My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry? Margaret has niggling fears over her boyfriend's admission that he wasn’t ready when he asked her to be his girlfriend, and that he had doubts even after he had asked her during the early days. Is t...
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Become the CEO of your Love Life with Evan Marc Katz
Become the CEO of your Love Life with Evan Marc Katz Dating Coaching with Evan Anyone can go to the gym. Those who want the best results work with a personal trainer. I am a personal trainer for people who want to fall in love. My mission is to give in...
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Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man's Confidence?
Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man's Confidence? One of our readers realized that the man she is dating has no confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible. She has resorted to faking it. Should she?
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Can I Have a Lustful Relationship with a Long-Term Partner?
Can I Have a Lustful Relationship with a Long-Term Partner? Evan answers: Why does it have to be a lustful relationship versus a long-term relationship? Why does one need to negate another?
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How Can I Be So Good at Dating and Still Not Find Love?
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