The government can't keep them apart

Posted by Leticia, 13 Apr 11

Jeff never had trouble meeting people, given his gregarious nature and his line of work—he’s a snowboard instructor, drummer, and D.J. whose handle is “DJake.”  But he’d found he was most compatible with black women and he wasn’t meeting many of them in his area.  What’s more, Jeff was very eager to meet his match and knew that hoping for the occasional chance meeting might keep him waiting for a long time.

“I wanted someone to fill my lonely heart, and yesterday,” Jeff says.  So he decided to try our site.  “Within the first month, I was talking to so many ladies that I quit searching to meet new ones,” he marvels.  “Several of them are now some of my best friends.  I’ve been teaching one of the girls’ daughters how to do magic tricks!”

Kalama was getting plenty of attention of her own, but she had specific ideas about the kind of man she was looking for.  When she found Jeff’s profile, it struck her as a bit long, but fun and genuine.  She liked that Jeff knew what he wanted.  His profile declared he was “Ready for Love.”  Their personalities seemed compatible, and so did their relationship goals—both wanted to start a family, sooner rather than later.

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There was just one wrinkle to iron out—Jeff was in Ohio and Kalama was in Africa!  Undeterred, they started talking on Skype.  This was enough for Jeff to learn to love Kalama’s laugh, her beautiful smile, and her witty sense of humor.

Jeff decided to go to Africa for a visit to see if their connection would work in real life.  The pair met in person for the first time when Jeff got off the plane in Zambia.  “When I finally met her, she was the same person as on Skype, but so beautiful,” Jeff recalls.  “Her embrace felt so much warmer than a keyboard!”

The young couple felt a little anxious at first but their nerves settled down as their conversation took off.  Jeff and his sweetheart would dance for hours at a local club, until they were the last people on the dance-floor.  Later that night, their first kiss came in the back of the cab on their way home.

Jeff would spend seven weeks with Kalama’s family.  The couple toured the area to see Africa’s wildlife in its natural habitat and visit the world-famous Victoria Falls.  Along the way, they fell madly in love.  By the time Jeff headed home, he was a married man.  Yes, it’s true—Jeff and Kalama got hitched!

Sadly, difficulties with Kalama’s immigration are keeping the couple apart for now.  But Jeff and Kalama are making plans to reunite in Africa.  In fact, they hope to visit impoverished villages in Zambia, offering children entertainment, inspiration and gifts.

“Kalama’s smile, heart and love are greater than I ever could have imagined,” Jeff says.  Something tells us that no government can keep this couple apart for long.

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  1.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 3 days ago

    Waiting for the one who will fulfil my lonely heart

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  2.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 3 days ago

    A

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  3. Posted: 20 Mar

    Yaaaaaassssss!!!

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  4.   Akuvi23 says:
    Posted: 18 Mar

    Waiting for that day

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  5.   Malindzi says:
    Posted: 08 Mar

    Match made in heaven,government or no government....

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  6.   Floridamove says:
    Posted: 03 Mar

    Love u guys

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  7. Posted: 20 Feb

    waiting for the one who will fl my lonely heart

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  8.   Malizacat says:
    Posted: 16 Feb

    Awwwwwwwwwwwww...

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  9. Posted: 29 Jan

    Woooow love knows no boundary.

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  10.   Ragdolly says:
    Posted: 29 Jan

    Good to see a couple so much in love. Remain blessed

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  11.   macyline says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    woooow ....wishing you all the best

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  12.   Rona69 says:
    Posted: 17 Jan

    Nice story

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  13.   Springo says:
    Posted: 14 Jan

    NOthing conquers true love

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  14.   Matiniz says:
    Posted: 03 Jan

    Am happy for both Kalama and Jeff if god in the middle of them every thing will be good I wish them a happy married, even me am waiting for the right one

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  15.   KOMKER says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 16

    wawawa, got should give love a chance; very crazy couple........enjoy u r marriage and God's blessings.

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  16.   9773821178 says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 16

    If this story real then very Amezing love story If fake story then God bless them I say that's it only

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  17.   Williamross says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 16

    Can you please to looking for female penpals friends 40to59yearsold to need help for ladies friend like welcome highland scotland would like mixed both people good hope you enjoy time

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    • Babu1960 says:
      Posted: 10 Mar

      How old are you. Williamross.I am looking for a companion divorced.separated single 50-63 yrs.someone to love and be loved.I am a divorcee 57yrs.

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  18.   T-Gurl says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 16

    Amazing love story

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  19.   lollil4 says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 16

    The government should actually give u guys a free visa and air ticket for u to reunite. Your such a sweet couple

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  20.   kweya says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 16

    Love you,with God all things are possible

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  21.   Mabuki says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 16

    God bless you

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  22.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 17 Oct 16

    Beautiful couple God bless..n happy marriage..

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  23.   Zina38 says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 16

    Awwwwww

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  24.   ogenga says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 16

    with love everything is possible

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  25.   Sathya8 says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 16

    Hi

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  26.   JaneMar says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 16

    Beautiful couple..God bless you both..

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  27.   Nosabe says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 16

    Love conquers all. Congrats to the couple....May God see you through. God bless!!

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  28.   odeam says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 16

    Wow so beautiful story,

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  29.   p.cool4 says:
    Posted: 06 Jul 16

    Congrats, wish you guys happy marriage

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  30.   Santyn says:
    Posted: 28 Jun 16

    Congratulations Jeff n Kalama.i wish you ahappy life hopping that tomorrow is my day since today is yours.

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  31.   jazmine06 says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 16

    Very very touched by Jeff and Kalama's story

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  32.   johnsonn says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 16

    Cool...love without boarders .in a faced world

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  33.   Mabhee says:
    Posted: 24 May 16

    Nothing can keep them apart. They are in love n love conqueres all

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  34.   dimbosa says:
    Posted: 21 May 16

    Wooow so inspiration

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  35.   catenel says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    So sweet a couple they are

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  36.   taytee says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    I would just say wooow perfect couple

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  37.   marwu says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    God bless your marriage

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  38.   Nenethaim says:
    Posted: 02 May 16

    nice ...

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  39.   rafty says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 16

    That's awesome,wish you all the best

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  40.   mariliz says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 16

    Wow is great couple amazingGod bless

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  41.   Mostsexygal says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 16

    Wow!! Jeff is an amazing man. Love has no boundary and I wish the couple the best future. I feel encouraged because I'm also a Zambian. Kalama, the sky is the limit! God bless you....

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  42.   mariliz says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 16

    Congrats and God bless your marriage

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  43.   governorb says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 16

    I believe the government should forget it and allowed them to enjoy their marriage

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  44.   kimparis says:
    Posted: 31 Mar 16

    The love which is between you guys is more than those government i don't know conditions. All the best luck

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  45.   bsuperman says:
    Posted: 22 Mar 16

    I am happy for you guys. ..

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  46.   2miebabe says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 16

    Happy u guys wish u the best

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  47.   cherubet says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 16

    kalama n Jeff congrats ...wish u all the best

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  48.   Ninha says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 16

    Well. In my opinion I don't think dating only can worked. There are a lot of fantasy and fairytale. Iam not there I want some near to me. I can talk direct. And kiss and hug. Share thing with wall I my front. Dating only can good or not. Well iam not look for someone. But. Iam praying to God send me the right person. Iam rushing. Just I want to say God bless you guys. Love is from God. Jesus is love. Amen.

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  49. Posted: 04 Feb 16

    Congratulations to you Kalama and Jeff I'm happy for you.U two look good together

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  50.   Cranberry14 says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 16

    I'm pleased to hear Jeff & Kalama made it till now I wish the the best for the future. I have also met a wonderful man from Ireland living in the USA we are now making preperations to meet face to face...please pray for us? We are so in love I want him to be my final destination. All the best to all of you who are still seeking; don't give up!

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