Who Needs Sleep When You Have Love?

Posted by Leticia, 11 Oct 11

Ronald and Jane “On this day, April 9th 2011, I married my best friend.”

We received these stirring words from Ronald and Jane, who met on our website and fell in love. “We would never have found each other if your site did not exist,” says Jane.

This is their story…

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It all started when Jane’s friends at work started pushing her to try online dating. “Sonym, Esther and Florence were always on my case,” remembers Jane. “I had spent many years alone, so they would encourage me…”

Jane’s co-workers thought it was sad that she would rush home after work to watch movies. It was clear to them that Jane had given up on bringing love and romance to her life. But there was a stumbling block for Jane that many singles encounter before they learn more about online dating. “One of my greatest worries was the confidentiality of the site,” Jane says. “To my great surprise, it was very confidential!”

Ronald had also spent many years without a soulmate by his side. One day, he was surfing the Web on his phone when he came across our site. The name rang a bell for Ronald. One of his friends began a successful relationship here. The memory of his friend’s happiness was enough to convince Ronald to sign up.

But, like many of our success stories, it took quite a bit of patience from both parties before their paths crossed. In fact, Jane was on the verge of removing her profile when she received the simple message “I want to talk to you.”

“This caught me by surprise,” Jane admits. “It took me two or three days before I answered. But I kept thinking of how much courage this gentleman had.”

Their connection formed through a flurry of emails, texts and phone calls. Just five days after Jane responded to his message, Ronald closed his account. “He told me he was sure I was the one,’” says Jane.

Their phone calls got longer and longer. “We never tired,” laughs Jane. “Sometimes I would go to work with a crazy headache because I never slept enough. The same thing would happen to Ronald.”

When Ronald flew out to meet his beloved in person for the first time, Jane was on pins and needles until his plane landed. “It was the longest time of my life,” she says. “When I finally saw Ronald walk through the door, I jumped up and down and hugged him for a long time.”

After securing the blessing of Jane’s parents, Ronald married Jane at a beautiful cathedral. “We found our soulmate, sunshine, lover, husband, wife and more than we can ever describe,” Jane says, glowing with happiness. “We shall forever remain grateful to this site!”

Asked what she might say to singles still seeking that magical bond with another person, Jane had these words to share.

“To all our friends out there—this site works. Be patient and be real. Start your relationship in a very honest and transparent way and when you meet the right person, you shall definitely know.”

Good advice, indeed.

73 responses to "Who Needs Sleep When You Have Love?"

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  1.   renmaisha says:
    Posted: 24 Jan

    Wow that's lovely

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  2.   Travel2015 says:
    Posted: 22 Jan

    I hope someday that happen to me. very soonnnn

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  3.   OlaNma says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    Sweet.. They look cute together.

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  4.   alj15 says:
    Posted: 12 Dec 15

    Soo inspiring story,God Bless Roland/Jane, I pry God will touch my king that I can be with for the rest of my life, God bless intercial dating

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  5.   alj15 says:
    Posted: 12 Dec 15

    Soon wonderful story,God Bless Roland/Jane, I pry God will touch my king that I can be with for the rest of my life, God bless intercial dating

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    • simple0243 says:
      Posted: 18 Feb

      You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue

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  6.   Mena2 says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 15

    While in sleep, you are awake with love

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  7.   komoneech says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 15

    That beautiful...I so want that but I am starting to give up..congrats you god bless

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  8.   syox says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 15

    Wow!

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  9.   MyPretty says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 15

    This is so inspirational it brought tears to my eyes. You really have given me hope... Congrats you two ... be blessed.

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  10.   viana204 says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 15

    i like the part where Ronald closed his account after getting Jane's response.

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  11.   Mena2 says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 15

    Never leave hope.

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  12.   Ruthlove2 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 15

    Jane and Ronald story is a touching one. Be bless

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  13.   Sweetlungs says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 15

    Mmmmh some girls are lucky

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  14.   zumonica says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 15

    Wow!!! Fantastic. I'm also waiting for such great message. That will change my life. Happy life cute couple.

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  15.   Mmmathapelo says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 15

    Awesome.. Wonder when m I going to get a chance to date a white man.. :-)

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  16.   ladedah63 says:
    Posted: 11 Jul 14

    I am glad you that you two found true love. I'm a lonely and loving single mom. Please pray for me that I finally find my soulmate

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  17. Posted: 06 Jul 14

    Another great success story! Fills me with such hope x

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  18. Posted: 05 Jun 14

    it's written all over your face Jane...you're happy. God bless your marriage Ronald & Jane!

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  19.   matul says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 14

    Wonderful

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  20.   frontend says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 13

    Anything is possible

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  21.   xxsorbetxx says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 13

    So many wonderful success stories on here, really refreshing to hear of and get to read their come-abouts. This one right here is certainly one of my favorites, have only been on here for about a week or perhaps less but i am thoroughly enjoying the experience despite no success so far but there's plenty time and hope, plus i am thinking positively. I like this site more than most as there is a wider scope of variety i have noticed and people are much more responsive and ofcourse less trashy in their approach which i got on few on other sites smh. I wish these 2 all the best and prosperity both as individuals and a couple.

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  22.   Mekoyangu says:
    Posted: 05 Sep 13

    wow there is hope! thank you for sharing your lovely story wish you well now and always, God bless

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  23.   lily08kc says:
    Posted: 02 Sep 13

    This gives me hope...I was about to close my account but stories like these keeps me wanting to continue....thankn you :-)

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    • Trudy2 says:
      Posted: 01 Aug 14

      Strange, I had replied before but looks like the organisation had deleted what I wrote so I will write it again. I think you should get a face or close your account and save your money; have you ever seen success stories with people without faces? If you do not have a profile photo people tend not to read the profile. tRUDYx

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  24.   Kandy28 says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 13

    wonderful story.

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  25. Posted: 22 Nov 12

    That's ousome I like it .enjoy ur time guys

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  26.   KRAIZLY says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 12

    it's written all over your face Jane...you're happy. God bless your marriage Ronald & Jane!

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  27.   goodboy1987 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 12

    this story is encouraging

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  28.   goodboy1987 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 12

    i have for long waited for yrue love but up to now in vain

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  29.   Usangelia says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 12

    God bless take care of each Other.....

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  30.   ref123 says:
    Posted: 23 Jan 12

    i can say congratulation both of you. if god open the door no one will close .

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  31.   nhlanhlo78 says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 12

    Inspiring indeed God bless your marriage hopefully we all find our soulmate here

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  32.   sher639 says:
    Posted: 05 Dec 11

    love this story,god bless u all........i hope i am the next big thing..lol.

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  33. Posted: 19 Nov 11

    Wow...I really liked this love story. I was just about to give up my profile too. Butttt...I guess I'll hold on a little while longer. Thanks guys! You have encouraged me!

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    • prema639 says:
      Posted: 05 Dec 11

      Good luck to u guys and god bless.........i hope i will be next ...lol.

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    • eltrut says:
      Posted: 28 Jun 13

      This story has encouraged me also. I hope all goes well with you both. May our Father in Heaven con't to Bless your marriage. I"m willing to keep hoping my love of my life will find me:-) I love this story.

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  34.   FAITHPAT says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 11

    WOW.........Its so good to be patient......as long as you are searching...you will find for sure.

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    • godwin777 says:
      Posted: 21 Feb 12

      Hi, Good to see you here, i see you your re very interested person to hang with, well i dont know you might be thinking what i am thinking, i am the type that love fun and i am love maker not love taker, hi my name is Godwin, friends call me Runs coz i stand for peace and love.I reside here in senegal West Africa,and i love to see more of you. i like your picture, i like you i want you, plz could you please try and talk to me this we enable me to know you more, please dont say no, i am looking for friendship, relationship, if you know you will be with me as par, plz dont take much time to reply me, i will be keened to read your reply. thanks for ready and be bless

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  35.   rakotoka says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 11

    wow,thats grade,may GOD bles u guyz nd all the best 4 u.my hopes r that my luck is ahead.

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  36.   aniths125 says:
    Posted: 03 Nov 11

    wow...interesting ...

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  37.   nubiantrish says:
    Posted: 28 Oct 11

    Awwwww....... tear, i wish u 2 the best and not jealous at all bc god is going to do the same for me also. im learing the word patients!!

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  38.   taylor529 says:
    Posted: 22 Oct 11

    What a beautiful couple.Your life will be blessed by god.Make god your center and first and pray together.

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  39. Posted: 21 Oct 11

    This is very inspiring. God bless you abundantly and let no man separate what God has joined.

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  40.   ouc says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 11

    too ..

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  41.   pato says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 11

    thats wonderful story.i do wish them all the best in there marriage. may the almight bless them in all there undertaking

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  42.   pato says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 11

    thats wonderful story.i do wish them all the best in there marriage. may the almight bless them

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  43.   rosemarie11 says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 11

    Best of luck o both of them

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  44.   UAE says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 11

    I wish them good luck an hope my day will came soon !

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  45. Posted: 16 Oct 11

    Congrats to both of you:)

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  46.   nye says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 11

    I wish you both the best and i hope to be featured here soon. Be blessed both of you.

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  47.   20MissB says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 11

    I have not yet joined...& i Love the Beautiful story from Ronald & Jane. Many Happy Years 2U Both. It's Great 2 know True Love is still Alive...Maybe some day I will B So Blessed. Always the Best wishes 2U2. Bee;-)

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  48.   rosy16 says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 11

    This is so amazing is this not a blessing, there is really time for everything in life i see the glory shining on your face and the love you are giving out to him, I also trust our Father that He will remember me. Blessings and enjoy.

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  49.   Lovin43 says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 11

    Wonderful. I am happy for you Jane and Ronald. God bless your marriage.

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  50.   Lovin43 says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 11

    This

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