The Date Whisperer by Carson Simons

A tongue-in-cheek guide from the world's "best" and most loved expert. His series of helpful videos for boys and for girls will help you get the most from online dating.

Is Honesty the Best Policy?

Posted by Leticia, 15 Jul 10

43 responses to "Is Honesty the Best Policy?"

Leave a reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

  1. Posted: 07 Mar

    You are right sekee,most especially guys...The truth is you come out clean you stay single the rest of your life,..Women ! They want to hear sweet things..Lie to them and you have them,but of course relationships based on lies end up in a bad ways,.I hope every guy stays clean and truthful like myself,hopefully the right person that doesn't like fantasy's would come..Takes time though..

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  2.   polo2309 says:
    Posted: 07 Dec 13

    yes

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  3.   Sekee says:
    Posted: 07 Dec 13

    Yes it is. The key words in a relationship are" Trust, Saying the sorry word when he/ she has wronged u, n last but not list HONESTY. Most relationships break couz there is no honesty between them at all. honest is every thing guys. "MOST ESPECIALLY GUYS"

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  4.   shaqT says:
    Posted: 05 Dec 13

    yes it definately is.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  5.   Brownb09 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 13

    Hehehe made me chuckle! The acting was good too. ...:)

    Like or Dislike: or 1 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  6.   blinker says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 13

    It is really hilarouis, like the overacting, I never come across overhere in Holland

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  7.   Hon3yspice says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 13

    Hilarious video

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  8.   Swtkaramel says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 12

    I'm brand spaking new to the site and thought I'd get a few pointers here. WOW...these were so very funny while insightful at the same time. Carson you are hilarious...you seem to be a perfect match are you single and available? LOL

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  9.   needlove77 says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 11

    funny video, she really did a good job the the voice, almost too good. had to turn the volume down a bit. funny :)

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  10.   melody37 says:
    Posted: 13 Mar 11

    Hello: The videos are good... I have been dating for a good while online, but Iím very disappointed because twice I have been robbed. At the beginning everything seems nice an perfect and so believable and after a good while there come the mess. The two guys I have date in a deceitful way they steel my money it seem that Iím attracted to gagstersÖ Iím kind of worried

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  11.   BrownSugar says:
    Posted: 06 Jan 11

    gotta love this video! very funny and brilliant acting from all :)

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  12.   lvdee says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 10

    Enjoy Carson -- at least he tells it like it is Very funny

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  13.   Safiji001 says:
    Posted: 12 Nov 10

    I nearly choked on my water when he said "Nora, believe the lies." This was so funny.

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  14. Posted: 10 Nov 10

    I enjoyed watching the clips, they were slightly informative, although I must say each of the scenario's I was well ahead of. I enjoyed Carson's accent....

    Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
  15.   truthfulwon says:
    Posted: 09 Nov 10

    I love the video. I think her man was tone deaf though. That voice well like he said there is someone for everyone. Just loved the videos!

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
  16.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 24 Oct 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-17)
    Reply to this comment
  17.   kissime says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 10

    ~Quantity and Quality~ Know the difference between the two. If you're looking for love you may get lost in online dating especially if you're indecisive by nature, have the mentality of the grass is greener on the other side or you're easily astray, usually by persuasion or false promises. . Online dating to me is very similar to traditional dating. the latter is more appealing to me because of location- it will never be a problem because most of the time, you are acquainted at parties, social events, and other happenings just around the city. Try not to get caught in the idea of having so many options. In reality you may not have so many options; not when you're in search of QUALITY. Some may not be in a hurry to claim love. But for the ones that are ready but have gotten twisted in the chaos: Do you notice how disposable you have made human beings including yourselves? It seems most have absolutely no value for the human lives. No substance. It's just so easy to disappear...unbelievable. Running from one end to another. Not taking the time to breathe & focusing on the truth. No humane connections. But the worst of animal instincts in heat. You must make time to build what you want. In Reality When it Comes to what is most important we must prioritize. We are not robots. We Feel, We Hurt, We Cry, We Laugh. We have deeper meanings. In reality we do not have that many option. When it comes to love, True Love: the word option is a delusional state of mine. Cyber love, cyber sex, cyber connection is: CYBER. It is not real--what I know for a fact deep inside of us we crave love-a meaningful connection which will grow and will be greener with gentle care . Really think of this: How long have we been "DATING" ? We meet & we're right back on the dating scene. Oh it didn't work out. Did we really make an effort? No. Try blaming it on fear or whatever. The truth is most do not have values. Everything come so easily. A closet full of clothes some with tags , yet has nothing to wear. I can have a slice of bread slightly buttered and I'll be full. But some need a loaf with extra butter. Yes, it is glutton in every sense. But when our vehicle needs gas we fill it. Is it because we need it to get where we need to? Absolutely. But it can also mean because we know how to take care of something. I drive a 1997 Jeep. I love my jeep. My son tells me he'll buy me a new one because he sees its faults. Can I purchase a new one? Absolutely. But I don't need a new one. It's still working. It gets me from point A to B. It takes care of me, I take care of it. Please stop insulting people you know nothing of. Every race has its goodness. We are all individuals. We must proceed with a healthier state of mind. We are all of Flesh and Blood.

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 26 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-20)
      Reply to this comment
    • brutus007 says:
      Posted: 18 Nov 13

      cool mam reall love here no matter the age

      Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
      Reply to this comment
  18.   kissime says:
    Posted: 20 Oct 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 11 (-11)
    Reply to this comment
  19.   kissime says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 10

    You're very welcome, serenity33. I think you'll be fine. I know that you understand God does not want his children in pain. From my experiences & my friends, I know this: We all have our battles. Some so deeply buried it spreads as a deadly infection. Some battles are best left in God's hands. But do your part and accept God's gift- the gift of knowledge. Use it for inspiration. I know @ time it is hard to see through the clouds. But know this, this too shall pass. I believe this. Life has not always been kind to me. As long as I'm alive I'm growing. I have to continuously change for the better.

    Like or Dislike: or 11 (-9)
    Reply to this comment
  20.   kissime says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 10

    serenity33, thank you for the compliments and kind words on another blog. I've been single for almost 3 years, and I have not met the best man for me. I'm a single-divorced mother, therefore, I'm very busy. I only blog when my son is asleep or with his father. I too have faith in me. Thanks to God for my strength and the knowledge that I have kindly welcome through life experiences and prayers. And my family's love and support is so appreciated and I make sure they are aware of it. I'm extremely particular when it comes to dating. I'm in no hurry. Too many games and I do not have the patience for them. Although I miss the comfort and love of a man, I know what is best for me and my son. I know when we find each other, we will be One in celestial. I never think of myself as oh, so pretty, but I know my soul is one of God's best. As for you, serenity33, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You'd be surprise when the love of your life kiss you so gently. Open your heart and arms and welcome her. I'm sure you have a lot to offer. You are very intelligent and seem very passionate. Learn to balance your passion-it may be too intense for some; and you may become lost in translation. The mind is not always dark. Defense mechanisms at time may be dangerous. You may be the reason someone smile (and that does not take a degree in psychology to know :)) Try being a little vulnerable when it comes to love- if you're not. When I've been hurt, I deal with the pain and move forward. I never allow pain to interfere with love's warmth. I move on to better days. Holding on to pain gives too much power to the inflicter. Sometimes the people who's hurt you do not realize the damage and they move on skipping and smelling daisies. Other time they make you the reason for the pain they've caused and take no ownership. We all must take responsibilities for our actions. At what point do one start pointing fingers at oneself-realizing it is indeed their faults for continuously being hurt by the same person. If we have the opportunity to do better--I suggest we do better. I know some may not be fortunate for friends and family. And my heart goes out to them. When you find that courage to run...RUN! People only change when they are ready.. Patterns are real. Do Not accept DIAMONDS with a side order of crap. I'll keep my costume jewelry....thank you for the offer, but I'll pass. Yes, I Miss Love As The Moon Misses the Sun

    Like or Dislike: or 10 (-3)
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 18 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-17)
      Reply to this comment
      • serenity33 says:
        Posted: 19 Oct 10

        Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

        Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-18)
        Reply to this comment
        • serenity33 says:
          Posted: 23 Oct 10

          Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

          Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-19)
          Reply to this comment
  21.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-18)
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 16 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-20)
      Reply to this comment
  22.   kissime says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 10

    Just got a chance to watch the video...Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hopes, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded. Watching this video made me embrace the quote "There's someone for everyone" @ the end of it she found the man just for her. I'm sure her voice is music to his ears. Boy, dating-especially on-line- I sure need more than a few dose of tears induced from laughter daily. The other day I was so excited about reading a new message: "Please tell me, do You Like Having Your Toes Sucked?" The nerve of him to ask such question! Of course I like my toes sucked! But seriously, I mean yes, of course I LOVE my toes SUCKED! But seriously, I was disgusted by the question- only because it was 5 in the morning-I just dragged myself out of bed to go to the gym before work. Checking my messages while eating breakfast...already frustrated ;) And yes, he is BLOCKED! I Do Not Appreciate this question being asked by someone long distance...that's called TEASING!! And it's wrong. Now if he was local...JUST KIDDING!

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
  23.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 30 Aug 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-20)
    Reply to this comment
  24. Posted: 30 Aug 10

    Funny video!

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 15 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 21 (-20)
      Reply to this comment
  25.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-18)
    Reply to this comment
  26.   Flawlessme says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 10

    Much as honesty is the best policy, I think the feelings of the one you love should be put into consideration. I mean, you wouldn't want to talk about how your ex satisfied you better than your current partner right?

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 2 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 03 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 19 (-16)
      Reply to this comment
  27. Posted: 29 Aug 10

    The video was a parody, a tongue-in-cheek, comical, humorous take. It has no basis in fact. It was not intended to be anything but funny.

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
  28. Posted: 28 Aug 10

    This was an amazingly funny video!

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-19)
      Reply to this comment
  29. Posted: 27 Aug 10

    I enjoy these tongue-in-cheek videos. They're hilarious!

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 2 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 10

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 18 (-17)
      Reply to this comment
  30.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 10

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: or 20 (-17)
    Reply to this comment
  31.   kissime says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 10

    Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise. And a man keeps on telling the truth until he becomes a truthful person. Falsehood leads to wickedness, evil-doing-wickedness leads to the (Hell) Fire, and a man may keep on telling lies till he is written before God, a liar.

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 4 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 10

      Honesty is always the best policy no matter what. That is how marriages stay together and true relationships are formed. Being bluntly honest is not always pleasant but at least you know that when you give a compliment, it isnít for the purpose of trying to get laid but something that is sincerely meant. To bad most people are gameplayers and donít appreciate the value of total honesty.

      Hot debate. What do you think? or 18 (-6)
      Reply to this comment
  32.   Bill1 says:
    Posted: 16 Aug 10

    Love it lol lol

    Well-loved. Like or Dislike: or 1 ()
    Reply to this comment

Your perfect partner could be online right now

Coaching Testimonial

"My online love inspiration angel"

Submitted by: Patricia, USA, 21

To be honest, in the beginning, I thought it would be a waste of time. But since I've never seen a similar service in any other dating site, I decided to give it a try.

I always "thought" my profile was on point and I did not need any help to correct my page. I always had in my profile if someone is not attracted to my profile, then that's "their" loss.

BOY WAS I WRONG!!

I will never forget my first time using the Coaching Service I was introduced to my personal Dating Coach. Let me put it this way, if it was not for her I would have given up long time ago (even though I'm a new member).

She taught me so many things and gave me good advice, I did not want to stop chatting with her at all.

She opened my eyes to many possibilities when finding love. She is definitely an inspiration and I appreciate a whole lot. She is more than a Dating Coach to me; she is more of a close friend/guide to me. She is definitely my "online love-inspiration angel".

Find out more