Glad She Made the First Move

Posted by Leticia, 29 Aug 11

When Kasia joined our site, she had no idea she would meet her future husband here. “I wasn’t very optimistic, but I have a few friends who have met great guys online,” she says.

Napoleon thought our site offered an easier way to meet people. “I was attracted to the convenience of being able to chat with women without leaving my home,” he says. But Napoleon gave himself a “0% chance” of finding “the one” online.

Happily, they were both wrong.

“At first, it was his looks that drew me to read his profile,” Kasia confides. “Then, after I read it, I wanted to know everything about him.”

We’re always telling female members to find the men they like and contact them—a 21st Century approach to a 21st Century technology. But many women remain traditional and want to wait for someone special to find them.

Kasia broke with that tradition, and ultimately married the man she contacted. Napoleon was certainly glad she found his profile and Flirted with him. “I liked her pictures and her profile,” he says. “Not to be superficial, but she is the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen. The personality made her complete.”

In fact, Napoleon felt so strongly, so quickly, that for their first date he flew Kasia from Florida to New York so they could spend the weekend together! “Dinner, dancing, walks on the beach,” reminisces Kasia. “Quality time, which we used to get to know each other.”

She thought Napoleon “was really nice and looked even better in person” than he did in his profile pix. Napoleon had an immediate reaction to Kasia when they met in the flesh. “This is going to seem cliché, but for me it was love at first sight,” he admits. “I had never felt this way before but by the time the weekend was over, I was convinced we would be married.”

Napoleon’s prediction proved accurate, and now these newlyweds are concentrating on sharing the joys of life with their partner and best friend.

“We have really good chemistry,” observes Kasia. “We share the same interests, and it all came together at the perfect time!”

Napoleon feels fortunate to have met someone who is so good to him. He says that “every moment we are together, she finds ways to show me that she loves me. She is so loving and sweet.”

We asked the couple what their plans are. “Building a loving family together,” says Kasia. Napoleon wants his wife to never doubt how cherished she is. “My plans are to show Kasia why she is special to me and make sure she is happy, every day!”

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  1.   AG10 says:
    Posted: 2 days ago

    Wow that took courage girl!congrats

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  2.   Black-Pearl says:
    Posted: 05 Jul

    Perfect couple. ..

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  3.   RASSHOTTAS says:
    Posted: 22 May

    i wish them the best

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  4.   seankennie says:
    Posted: 20 May

    I just want to wish them well guys.

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  5.   kadadaa120 says:
    Posted: 21 Feb

    congrats..may u always be happy <3

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  6.   Smiles13 says:
    Posted: 19 Feb

    Lovely....may the journey of love bear sweet fruits for both of u.....!!!

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  7.   JOEKIBS says:
    Posted: 13 Feb

    Am so happy for them may God protect what they share together, hoping to get one en stay forever inlove with

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  8.   LadyRo50 says:
    Posted: 06 Jan

    Good fir them. So where do they live in Florida or NY I'm just curious as to who moved? Congrats

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  9.   Vivy31 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 13

    Is this real? its hard to believe but all in all it happened. Can this site really help people like me to find the love of my life like this couple? if Yes this is really amazing. It is hard to find true love but if God did it for these two, then he can do it for others. Congs to the couple

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  10.   Smart1.1 says:
    Posted: 08 Dec 13

    God's work is always perfect, couples ride on & be prayerful, I so much admired it but I'm presently based in Nigeria..'.knowing not the way out'.

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  11.   zukato says:
    Posted: 31 Oct 13

    Waw nice couple,God bless u

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  12.   Mr.libra34 says:
    Posted: 21 Oct 13

    Hi kasia i hope you found the man of your dreams.good luck to you kasia on your married.may it last

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  13.   Brownb09 says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 13

    Really great! !! All the best to you

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  14.   Silverelite says:
    Posted: 13 Aug 13

    Great looking couple! Kind of nerds, but best wishes for both of you

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  15.   Javan094 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 12

    It doesn't surprise me that she made the first move because historically and culturally blackmen learn that whitewomen have no sexual interest in us. Right or Wrong many of us will make the assumption, first, that these women have no interest in us what so ever, and don't dare to make the first move. Unless on a site like this.

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  16.   jod212 says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 12

    My first husband was a "Love at First Site" experience and we were together 12 years and I made the first move so all that to say...it is possible to find instant happiness. Sadly, he was killed so I am again looking. I believe that if you let that angel on your shoulder speak and you're willing to listen ie., the woman who discovered she had a short tempered alcoholic (BigSeaFish) but I can assure you most people on these sites are looking for real connection. I have met many very nice men but the "one" has not shown up yet. I am however very optimistic as I know he's out there so have a little faith VAM...and others. Much love and happiness to everyone for the new year!!!

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  17.   Cleggie says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 12

    ooooooooh i am really really happy for them, how i wish to make a living testimony

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  18. Posted: 26 Oct 12

    I'm so happy for them. As a newbie to this site,it's good to read such a success story. Hopefully I will find love here as well.

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  19.   Ishimwe says:
    Posted: 20 Oct 12

    Interesting story!congrats to the couple may God be with u!Hey VAM u seems to be vry negative on this C'mon man u try u might find smbody onedy!

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  20.   Doctor12 says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 12

    WOW! U ARE COOL

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  21.   KRAIZLY says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 12

    WOW! U LOOK SO GOOD TOGETHER! GOD BLESS YOU GUYS!

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  22.   lucianoo says:
    Posted: 09 May 12

    Am happy for every couple here,i think is God will,i look up to my own.

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  23.   Arakrou22 says:
    Posted: 13 Sep 11

    good well seated in the house, but still can't catch early birds.

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  24.   Arakrou22 says:
    Posted: 13 Sep 11

    good smile, bt no good " red letter day on".

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  25.   Arakrou22 says:
    Posted: 13 Sep 11

    I always like to landed on 1950 and not even catch 2010 medal.

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  26.   Arakrou22 says:
    Posted: 13 Sep 11

    I was watching a 1950 car race doesn't know what to do so I give it try anyway.

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  27.   Mescia says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 11

    I was JUST watching 'The 5 Heartbeats'...Eddie & 'Babydoll' look-a-likes!! <3 it!

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  28.   Tayra01 says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 11

    Happy for you. Good luck!

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  29.   Bubblylil says:
    Posted: 10 Sep 11

    Very lovely couples....all d best 2 both of U.

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  30.   RainKeeper says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 11

    Good luck... you two make a beautiful couple. :-)

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  31.   shallbewell says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 11

    What a wonderful match, the 2 are unique. Wishing you best for the future, and always try to hold on to the end.God be with you- Rev. Nartey

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  32.   dawnjae says:
    Posted: 06 Sep 11

    I love all the sucess stories and look forward to reading them. i too have met the man of my dreams we met here 3 months ago. saturday the 10th I will be meeting him in for the first time and can't wait I live in calif he in michgian . were both very happy and looking forward to being together always so it can happen!

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  33.   rosemarie11 says:
    Posted: 06 Sep 11

    I am happy for you guys. Best of luck!

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  34.   jennae says:
    Posted: 06 Sep 11

    Congradulation, it is my prayer that you guys will not take your marriage likely. You are going to face many obstacles in your life but if you put God as the center, when problem comes against you you will be able to stand. I am still seeking my partner for the rest of this journey with me. I have faith that God is going to grant my wish. when things get hard don't give up on each other and work together and you can make it, Jennae

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  35.   Greg355 says:
    Posted: 05 Sep 11

    I love black women.

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  36.   Kteach says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    Finding love is like finding ONE answer to ALL of your prayers...Congrats!

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  37.   Hope2MeetU says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    Kasia and Napolean, I wish you all the best!! I am about to embark on my future adventure next month when I meet the love of my life after 5months "chatting". I understood everything you said and I am glad that you have made a life-long commitment to each other. May your life be filled with love, happiness and children!! God bless you both!!!!

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  38.   lovin43 says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    Am glad Napoleon did not misunderstand Kasia. For the man or woman you love, there certain traditions that have become outdated. For example, I always tell my fellow Christians that it is not a devilish act for a woman to fall for a man and make it known. Kasia thanks for that great move! Modern technology, modern thinking. Why not, if someone flirts and you really feel that your chemistry is compatible, the best thing to do is not to wait let that someone know that you are interested in him or her. By the way people misconceive the meaning of chemistry - it is not all about sex. Chemistry varies from interests or hobbies that a couple shares. Hurray, Hurray, Kasia and Napoleon, God bless you.

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  39.   skybluelily says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    this is a dream coming true, wish you guys every best thing that awaits you...wish us out here luck too. stay blessed.

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  40.   mat26 says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    wow,, great wishing all the luck,,,congratulations both of you . hope to find me also my prince,,,

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  41.   Arakrou22 says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 11

    like it or dislike I think like lol little.

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  42. Posted: 03 Sep 11

    marvelous!

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  43.   ellareejon says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    what a lovely looking couple,I wish them all the blessing

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  44.   Jacelyn says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    This is such an encouraging and motivating story. I am glad they made it. Congratulations!

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  45.   humptyz says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    Cute couple, she is hot. Congratulations to you both. And good luck to the rest of us!

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  46.   kasia says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    Why didnt you contact me?

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  47.   rain110 says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    Hi beautiful people.......its good to see such a happy, loving couple as of yourselves. Ksaia and Napoleon i know this will bring inspiration to both BM & BW who so honestly thnks it can't happen.....especially with the negativity that surrounds our lives today. I wish the two of you health, prosperity and happiness. Rain/mississippi-zip

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  48.   Kindlady says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    hi guys, am very happy for and i wish you all the best in your entire life, i have been to this site for more than2 yrs and i met a good guy but he doestnt seem to be so serious, he invited me from africa to visit him in asia, life witt him was good, but he doesnt seem to ready yet, i hope God will intervene and am sure it will be succecfull like it is for you guys.GOD bless you abandantly.

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  49.   seriff says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    i am from gambia but i live in italy for 6 years in milano i am a single i want to meet some one who is real to make reasonship i like any all cain of peoples i want be with some body who will understanding i am happy boy god bless avery one oe us

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  50.   VAM says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 11

    Just as I thought, after I posted I see a message "your comment is awaiting moderation". Come on moderators show some bravery. People arent stupid. Ill check back and If I dont see my comments Ill take other measures. I will avoid my opinion ( as thats all it is ) to be seen!

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    • Onyx_King says:
      Posted: 06 Sep 11

      Vam! I agree with you and your observations!

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    • Reese says:
      Posted: 06 Sep 11

      Ofcourse it is. It is a business after all. And one reason for the articles is to show that the site works and you too can find true love here if.................. In this case women make the first move.

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    • happygolucky says:
      Posted: 17 Sep 11

      @VAM "If its seems too good to be true, it is." While I wish them the best of luck, such whirlwind relationships for the most part have a hard chance of standing the test of time. Lust fades. I met a great WM on a dating site, we fell in love within a month. Ha! Guess you know how that ended up. Yes we did want to marry each other within two months he wanted me to move in (I did not move in!)-he wanted to tattoo my name on his body, lol. Glad his friend talked him out of getting a tatt. Three months later I learned he was a short-tempered alcohoholic! But if had married him during those hot sweet first two months, I'd be a sad depressed wife. Fact is, being hot to trot, having intense chemistry, most of the time, is a BAD indicator for long-term happiness. How much time does one spend in bed? What if the pretty lady has an accident, loses her looks? What if the man with money goes broke? Frankly, it takes a year to get to know a person. If that was me, I'd have accepted an engagement ring and spent months getting to know him THEN setting a date. To each their own, I will continue my search for My Honey and again, I do wish them luck because they are gonna need it.

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      • BigSeafish says:
        Posted: 13 Aug 12

        happyglucky say: Yah, that happened but is good to try then to sit back and wait, for if you did not try how could have known that is Short-tempered and alcoholic guy. That was good attempt keep it up.

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