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Why He Pulls Away When Everything's "Great"

Posted by Matthew, 16 Jan

I'm wondering: Have you ever started dating a guy, realized he ticked a lot of your boxes (confident, smart, adventurous, well-traveled, family-loving, hot), and then got totally ahead of yourself?

You thought: "This is amazing. He's amazing. We're going to be amazing!"

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Fast forward 3 weeks...

You're hanging out with your friends, waiting for a text that never comes. He didn't reply to your last message from three days ago. Why? What did you say wrong? How can you stop him from slipping away? Whhhhyyyy is this happening?


In this video, I'll tell you why he's going cold, what to do about it, and how to break this cycle so you never repeat the same mistake in the future...

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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  1.   Mikkilove says:
    Posted: 29 Jan 19

    Actually, at that point in the relationship, she has nothing else to lose but to tell him what she wants and is looking for. If she doesn't, he will continue the dance of getting close then pulling away. If he grows up ( in a hurry) and identifies what he wants and if it is her, he'll face whatever fears or blockages he has and pursue the relationship fully. If he doesn't want the same thing, then he should back off and leave her alone for good or agree just to be friends.

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  2.   hanimroy says:
    Posted: 23 Jan 19

    Everything happens with a special reason, just understand the cause and calculate next step to make it successfull

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  3.   Michi9090 says:
    Posted: 21 Jan 19

    This happened to me . He’ll text but doesn’t call . So I don’t call either and now I joined a dating site to occupy my time. When he texts it just telling me what he’s doing but never asking about me, ever.

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