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Want to make him talk dirty to you?

Posted by Matthew, 23 Jun

I got a question from a viewer about sex. Well, this woman's boyfriend is quite timid and prudish. And sex talk makes him uncomfortable but she really wants him to talk dirty to her.

So how does she get him to do this without making him feel like his manhood is being crushed?

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To answer her, I touch on:

  • The technique of 'positive reinforcement' so in just 10 words you can get him to do *everything* you want
  • How to bring up dirty talk with a guy (something every guy secretly wants)
  • And how to show a guy how to please you without embarrassment

Hope you enjoy the video and feel free to ask more questions.

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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  1.   Ms_Roxy says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 14

    Some people are turned on by that. To each it's own.

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  2.   fishkeeper says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 14

    Why do you have to talk "dirty?" I've never ever said anything obscene whilst making love to my partner. I tell her words of love how beautiful is her body both inside and out. I give her French kisses and taste her saliva; tell her it tastes better than the best wine and, under her tongue tastes of milk and honey. I try to make it as wonderful to her as it is to me. I believe in plenty of foreplay and give them an orgasm before penetration. I've had more than one partner and most of them have always enjoyed sexual intercourse to the extreme.

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    • aujus says:
      Posted: 06 Sep 14

      Read Ms_Roxy above: "To each their own" from the French (which literally means 'taste' since you mention that three times LOL) That's the great thing about intimacy: you have to learn what people like. Trust me your recipe is NOT for every woman. Since you're a guy like me, I can also say I've had more than one partner and some women enjoy not just nasty talk ("obscene" [your quote] really?? Is this a constitutional law class?) but also a certain level of dominance. Your quote: "Why do you have to talk 'dirty?'" Stop acting like somebody is telling you what you SHOULD do with a woman. It's only a suggestion. I'm thinking you simply needed a random excuse to divulge the lubricated details of your bedroom prowress, heh.

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