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Featured Member: Embrace_Me

Posted by Leticia, 14 May

Connections interviews this month's featured member, Embrace_Me. She is looking for a man she can grow old with, a man who can look into her heart and see her soul. Are you that man? Read our interview with Embrace_Me and look her up on the site today!

Connections:
Hi this is Jackie from customer service and I have our featured member of the month on the line, her name is Embrace_Me, because I know after hearing this you guys will want to contact her. How are you?

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Embrace_Me:
I'm doing fine.

Connections:
Now you have only been on the site for little while, and how are you finding it?

Embrace_Me:
I could be finding a lot more but I am happy with what I am finding right now.

Connections:
That's good, and what brought you to the site?

Embrace_Me:
I'm looking for my soul mate

Connections:
As simple as that?

Embrace_Me:
As simple as that. I am looking for a man whom I am going to grow old with, a man who can knows my every thought, a man who can look into my heart and see my soul. That's a big one isn't it?

Connections:
That is the big one, that is a very big one but it isn't impossible to get is it?

Embrace_Me:
No it's not, like I tell most people, you have to go through the bad apples to find the good one.

Connections:
Do you limit yourself to people, I know you live in Oklahoma, you don't limit yourself to that?

Embrace_Me:
No I don't, I look worldwide I'm from Oklahoma and I have never been out of Oklahoma, so to see somewhere and to see what's out there might be that option for me.

Connections:
And do you like that the site does have people from all over the world?

Embrace_Me:
Yes it does and I have contacted a lot of people all over the world, I mean I answer every message that it comes to me, so if you want to send me a message, you're guaranteed that I'm going to answer it.

Connections:
And that's really important because people do take the time to look at your photo and read through your profile, so when they send you a message, it's because something that you said interested them.

Embrace_Me:
Exactly, I pretty much read the profiles and if something catches my eye I will send a flirt to them. Some people might not have their picture, so I tell them to post their picture.

Connections:
Is that important to you?

Embrace_Me:
It's very important; because I'm not seeing just the words they have written but when you look at someone's eyes you can usually tell, like people look at my picture and they say "I see so much love".

Connections:
I have actually done a little bit of a survey with some of our members and it is interesting, the females are more interested in seeing a photo than the male members which I found rather surprising but, the other thing that I said and I have said this to a few male members and some of you listening can confirm this - I said to them, "Guess what a woman looks at, when she looks at the photo of a guy our the site?"...and these guys go "Ooooh his arms, his thighs, his chest"... and am like NO and the guys asked "Well what are they looking at?"... and I said your EYES!

Embrace_Me:
Exactly!

Connections:
And they couldn't believe it, when I said the eyes, I said my next preference is your butt (All laughing).

Embrace_Me:
I'm more concerned about the heart.

Connections:
But you can't see that in a photo, you have to do a few emails before you learn about that.

Embrace_Me:
What I can usually tell if someone is being sincere or not. If they're not sincere I will not give them any time of the day.

Connections:
How can you tell they are being sincere?

Embrace_Me:
Well if they email me a message and tell me they loved my pictures, but they didn't read my profile, they don't know a thing what my profile said, so that tells me they are only attracted to the picture.

Connections:
So they haven't taken the time to learn anything about you from what you put. You have put a fair effort into your profile haven't you?

Embrace_Me:
Yes, the profile is something that tells about you. What you're feeling, what you're looking for and if you don't have a good profile no-one is going to know you. They are going to see a picture and think... well she's hot. I could be the hottest thing out there but my attitude could really suck.

Connections:
Exactly, you did the same thing, like when you're looking for someone when you are going through the site...you're actually looking for good profiles as well?

Embrace_Me:
Yes, I am.

Connections:
Is it important to change your profile, as you have been in the site for a little while, is it important to evolve your profile?

Embrace_Me:
I think it's very important because like I said earlier when you are on the site, when you first join, you have this thing in your head where I am going to find the man of my dreams. The longer you are on this site the more you grow, because you see all these different people and you get to meet all these different people in the chat room and so you're growing spiritually and emotionally, so why not express that to others through your profile.

Connections:
That's good cause that's something, I know people who are quite religious, very Christian they put that in their profile...if your interested in certain sports. Did you know you can do a search on keywords in profiles?

Embrace_Me:
No I didn't know that.

Connections:
Yes, you certainly can. Say for instance you were really into Nascar. You can actually go into the search options and scroll down to the bottom and find where it says keyword search and type in "Nascar" and every person who meets that word in their profile will come up as part of your search, so you can find people who you actually have common interests with.

Embrace_Me:
That's a good idea, I didn't even think about that.

Connections:
Look out all those people now!

Connections:
What's one of your common interests?

Embrace_Me:
My commons interest is "poetry".

Connections:
Poetry, so you can type "poetry" as the keyword and anybody who matches your criteria and has the word poetry in their profile will come up in one your searches.

Embrace_Me:
Mmmh, that gives me MORE options...

Connections:
I was going to say, I feel more messages coming on!

Embrace_Me:
Boy!

Connections:
A lot of people don't know that one and I think it is a really powerful search to do because it does help especially, and this is again why you should put in a good profile and put in your interests, and then if people are doing a search on the same sort of interests...and it could be snorkelling, it could be playing poker, it could be anything and you can do an actual search that something that someone has written in their profile and it will come up with those matches.

Embrace_Me:
I know a lot of people know me from the chat room, I always tell them....when do I get to do my success story. For me, I will stop sending flirts and stop sending messages and stop chatting in the chat room, once I find that one special one has caught my eye, but until then I'm a flirt magnet, I am sending messages and I'm in that chat room. Everyone is that chat room is so sweet, I mean they are so friendly. As soon as I joined and starting coming into that chat room, they opened their arms and accepted me with no problem.

Connections:
And I know you just recently you got a web cam, are you using it in the chat room now?

Embrace_Me:
I used it to the chat room the first time tonight.

Connections:
And how did you find it?

Connections:
Oh I found it, very interesting.

Connections:
Did you have people clicking on you and having a look?

Embrace_Me:
Yes, well at first I didn't know how exactly it worked and BDog told me how it worked. Everything that is blue is people staring at you and I was like "Oh my gosh" and he was like "How many you got?" I said "Oh you don't want to know".

Connections:
And how are you finding now, you are a white female, one of the things that I know a lot of white females do have an issue with is there are not enough black males coming into the chat and when they do they tend to just sit there and not to say a hell of a lot. What would you say to all those lovely black males out there?

Embrace_Me:
Come on home, come on...(All Laughing) because I'm going to tell you what, it's home to me and it's home to a lot of other females there.

Connections:
Well thank you very much for being our featured member. Would you like to give a shout out to anyone and say hi?

Embrace_Me:
Hi everyone from the chat room, I love you and as I say sending out Peace, Love and Hope.

Connections:
And that's your call sign.

Embrace_Me:
That sure is.

Connections:
That's your tagline....Peace, Love and Hope

Embrace_Me:
That's right.

Connections:
Thank you very much Embrace_Me and anyone who wishes to contact Embrace_Me, her actual screen name is "Embrace" UNDERSCORE "me" otherwise you won't get her or you might get someone different than Embrace_Me, but I am quite sure that now she has a new way of searching for people that she's going to be contacting you real soon!

Embrace_Me:
Lots and lots of men better watch out!

Connections:
Thank you very much.

Embrace_Me:
Bye.

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  1.   Riverflowing says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 08

    ALL I CAN SAY. PLEASE EMBRACE_ME! Riva loves that Embrace. Much love babe!!

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  2.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 07

    Haven't seen you in a while Embrace! Hope ur doing well. Best of luck!

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  3.   embraceme says:
    Posted: 27 Jan 07

    THANK YOU FOR ASKING HOW I AM DOING.. EMBRACE IS STILL HERE AND SHE IS STILL LOOKING FOR MR RIGHT OT HELL RIGHT NOW I WOULD TAKE MR WRONG LOL.. JUST GIVE ME A DAYUM MAN LOL.. WELL I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE MORE LUCK THIS YEAR THEN LAST .. THAT GOES WITHOUT SAYING LOL..

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  4.   Kandikane23 says:
    Posted: 25 Jan 07

    Time is all you need to find your special one.

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  5.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 07

    How's life Embrace?? Hope all is well...

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  6.   jan says:
    Posted: 03 Dec 06

    be careful to narrow your search too much by distance or age or colour who knows where or what colour the right one has until you meet them

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  7.   EMBRACEME says:
    Posted: 23 Nov 06

    UNME23 I HAVENT HAD ANY LUCK SO FAR... IT IS HARD TO FIND THE MAN I AM LOOKING FOR .. I AM HOPING HE FINDS ME .. THANK YOU FOR ASKING AND I WISH YOU AND ALL YOU HANDSOME MEN AND WOMEN THE BEST OF LUCK AND REMEMBER SOMETIMES IT IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU.. DONT RUSH BY ..

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  8.   unme23 says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 06

    any succes yet sweetie?

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  9.   Pleasjure13 says:
    Posted: 15 Nov 06

    Sometimes we miss the one that is for us simply because we fail to see and are blinded by our own expectations.

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  10.   studly says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 06

    seems like someone I know...this girl i was married to once...she is one fine woman...she needs to holla at me...big fat wet one right on the grand prix for ya

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  11.   Kara says:
    Posted: 12 Nov 06

    She seems like a sweet, lovely lady. Hope she finds "the one" for her soon! I hadn't thought much about using the keyword function before to help find people with my interests. Perhaps I'll give it a go!

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  12.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 06

    You are one fine gal Embrace!! All my best!!

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  13.   Pleasjure13 says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 06

    After reading all of your compliments would you like me to be your man(smile)...you are terriffic.

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  14.   RayneDelay says:
    Posted: 17 Oct 06

    Embracme, I hope you find that special someone.

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  15.   EMBRACEME says:
    Posted: 13 Oct 06

    THANK YOU ALL FOR THE KIND WORDS.. I LOVE YOU ALL

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  16.   iceburger says:
    Posted: 13 Oct 06

    Embrace, you are simply...MOST

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  17.   JADE74 says:
    Posted: 09 Oct 06

    You are a wonderful person..I enjoy chatting with you in the chat room. Good luck and may you find the love or your life.

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  18.   aantonio says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 06

    You truly seem like such a sweetheart. I know NOT hope u will find your perfect mate. After reading your statement u just seem to kind of a person, to have any trouble meeting him. God Bless

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  19.   Carla says:
    Posted: 24 Sep 06

    GOOD luck girl...you deserve the best

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  20.   Kalilah says:
    Posted: 23 Sep 06

    Hi Em! You are always so much fun in chat and I know that the right man will come along...just look out for falling Christmas trees! Love ya lots...Kali.

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  21.   Kandi says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 06

    What a lovely woman

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  22.   auroraxxx says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 06

    what a bright and sunny women this is why hasnt anyone snapped her up as yet?

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  23.   browneye68 says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 06

    you go girl...... it is nice to know you cause you are so funny at times you always make me laugh be patient your Prince Charming is out there. I wish you luck hun and that your dreams come true.. you deserve it

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  24.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 06

    Hi Embrace!! Best of luck in your search sweetie!!

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  25.   Fala says:
    Posted: 15 Sep 06

    I know Embrace from chat. She's a real sweetie! Any man would be lucky to get her.

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  26.   sweetest1 says:
    Posted: 15 Sep 06

    Hi Embrace!!! Just wishing you luck on you search... keep pushing and you will find the right guy some day!!

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  27.   ABIDEEN says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 06

    u are beautiful and i will like to know u more better

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  28.   jimmirix says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 06

    It will happen soon, Embrace, keep going!

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  29.   marquez097 says:
    Posted: 10 Sep 06

    Embrace is a good woman. I'm glad she had the chance to be highlighted by an interview.

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  30.   Coco says:
    Posted: 05 Sep 06

    I don't understand...why are all these great people not taken?

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  31.   bombtongue says:
    Posted: 08 Aug 06

    Great interview gurl!!! Ur prince charming is out there, he's just battling his way through to get his princess!! Good luck gurl...much luv at cha!!

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  32.   TamsGogo says:
    Posted: 04 Jun 06

    Sharing feelings states with accepting the ideas. These i have given and would clench on to support these thought of yours and seek a daily avenue to keep in touch with you for a cross multiplication of these aspirations and thought

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  33.   howard2006 says:
    Posted: 02 Jun 06

    Hi there beautiful! I listened to your interview and it was really insightful. You sound like a beautiful young lady who I would enjoy getting to know. Send me an email if you want beautiful. Take care.

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  34.   edwin says:
    Posted: 02 Jun 06

    cool shot

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  35.   Honey333 says:
    Posted: 01 Jun 06

    Hi embrace_me, Am so impressed with your interview and your profile is very wonderful and you look pretty and beautiful in your pic. Sincerly speaking you have stolen my heart and to the tell this though it may sound too early to mentioned but I have no option but to tell you that you have a special place in my heart, hope you won't mind having one in yours. Take care

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  36.   paul says:
    Posted: 30 May 06

    Hi there you are absolutely beautiful and I know genuine and honest Irish man living in Finland have a wonderful day.

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  37.   alhassannnaiza says:
    Posted: 29 May 06

    I am very glad to meet you and like to hear more about you and your country.

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  38.   elvin says:
    Posted: 26 May 06

    hi there !!!!!!!!!!

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  39.   Maurice says:
    Posted: 20 May 06

    Hi embrace_me I really enjoyed your interview with Connections. I love your profile mmmm Your very sweet and have a beautiful Heart just thought I'd let you know that Until another another time take care and God bless.

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  40.   kabish says:
    Posted: 17 May 06

    From what I have just heard from your conversation, you are very wise and gifted by God because you know who you are and what you deserve in your life. Definately God will give you what you are looking for. Soon and very soon he will make your dream come true and you will be the happiest lady!

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  41.   aminu says:
    Posted: 17 May 06

    I really like the way you organise things, please keep it up. But don't forget to get me my own partner soon. With love, aminu

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  42.   Chris says:
    Posted: 17 May 06

    This is great keep up the good work, from HandleC

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  43.   leakers says:
    Posted: 16 May 06

    What an interesting interview though never realy chatted with you but I believe you are the type we need in the chat room. You keep a being nice lady and you will surely find the one soonest. Chaoooooooooooooooooooo

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