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Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?

Posted by Christelyn, 13 Aug

Black female baby boomers grew up in a time where race relations in America were tense. Their upbringing was different: All that surrounded them were songs of protest, songs of how black people should be united, speeches by black activists...

How would one be comfortable being with a white man when all they were surrounded by and taught growing up was to "stick to your own?

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

The thing is, many black women of this generation are very hesitant to date interracially or marry interracially.

Here's an interview with a 62-year-old baby boomer who married a white guy. She has some important perspectives and advice to give.

Christelyn Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed. She also operates the popular blog, Beyond Black & White, and operate the first forum dedicated to black women interested and/or involved in interracial relationships.

4 responses to "Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?"

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  1. Posted: 30 Jul 21

    Not afraid to date any race. Simply want a man of good character and integrity. It appears distant in any race!

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  2. Posted: 21 Feb 21

    No I have been dating or married to WM for years.

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  3.   Shawnvickky says:
    Posted: 01 Feb 21

    I need white from age of 35 _ 48

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  4.   HeyLaSoul says:
    Posted: 24 Sep 20

    I’d first started dating out in my mid and late 20s. Didn’t really hit it off but when I was 30 entered a relationship with a partner from India. I stopped dating out around after then. I should have continued but it seemed to be a lot of work to date men who had never dated black women before. But I also wasn’t ready at the time we were together to put effort in to grow as a partnership. I date out almost exclusively in my early 40s. Not an issue with being scared but as another article mentioned I prefer to date men who have dated black women before. Years later this is still my preference. I feel more comfortable and there is less conflict. Esp now with the current political and racial climate. I don’t want to teach and train a man to date me at this age. Some men are rigid in their thinking and ideologies by my age and older.

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