He Proposed on the Patio

Posted by Leticia, 11 Jul

Sheila and Tudor now live as husband and wife, but for a long time they wondered if they'd ever meet that special someone. Tudor had been a member of our site for more than three years when he found Sheila. “I was sick of being alone,” he says, and she seconds that thought.

Their loneliness evaporated when a simple instant message connected them. Sheila admired Tudor’s blue eyes and he was drawn in by her beautiful skin. But behind the profile (username: “PetPenny”) was a deeper beauty, Tudor sensed. “I could tell she was a great woman,” he says.

Tudor (aka “Robbie2”) wasn’t traditionally Sheila’s “type,” but this and their age difference didn’t bother her. “I can’t explain it,” she says. After lengthier conversations confirmed that yes, their interest went more than skin deep, this pair in the making decided to do something daring… “We met in Alabama at her home,” said Tudor.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

That went well! “Love at first sight,” says Tudor. Sheila nods. “We knew it was love [when we met face to face]. We had lots in common.”

Tudor continued to court Sheila, feeling certain that this partnership would bring him happiness. “I knew she was what I needed in my life,” he says. He was surprised and touched by, as he puts it, “her concern for me.” Sheila puts forth “his kindness” as something she values greatly.

Today their main disagreement is over politics. This not-uncommon obstacle wasn’t enough to prevent a proposal, however! “He asked me to marry him on my patio,” says Sheila, radiant with joy. She says that finding love has changed her life “tremendously.”

So that’s their story. We asked Sheila and Tudor for words of advice to our single readers. “Take your time, and be patient,” say the couple.

It took them years of looking to find the right match, but today these newlyweds are sure glad they stuck it out.

9 responses to "He Proposed on the Patio"

Leave a reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

  1.   new2dagame says:
    Posted: 01 Oct


    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  2.   LFAA850 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul

    Beautiful post. I wish them many years of wedded bliss. I hope to find the same.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  3.   kuizy says:
    Posted: 14 Jul


    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  4.   Doro2 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul

    I love it, congratulations guys

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  5. Posted: 14 Jul

    Excellent. A happy life for the two of you.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  6.   IBC1987 says:
    Posted: 12 Jul

    I can relate to the political disagreements. I lean both Libertarian and Conservative in my politics, and 99.9% of the time, this does not go over well with black people. They automatically associate it as someone who's racist and doesn't care about others. It's a shame, because nothing could be further from the truth, and I am a great guy who does not disrespect black women at all. This is an issue I run into literally every time I begin dating a black woman, so I'm honestly reconsidering pursuing a spouse outside my race at this point. It's just gotten to be too much.

    Like or Dislike: or 3 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 23 Jul

      There are several women who lean conservative. I am surprised that you have so many problems finding one.

      Like or Dislike: or 1 (0)
      Reply to this comment
  7. Posted: 11 Jul

    Excellent story!!! Congrats to you both!!! :) Best wishes and I wish you guys many years of blissfulness!! #lovewins #keepsmiling

    Like or Dislike: or 0 ()
    Reply to this comment
    • jenniefer says:
      Posted: 19 Sep

      im praying to god he answers my prayer of giving me my white man here only and congs to those who have succeeded pls pray for us as well

      Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
      Reply to this comment