Celebrity fantasies decoded

How does she decode your celebrity fantasies?

Women look at a lot of things to gauge a man's personality before she decides to take the next step. Some analyze clothes, his character and the way he treats other people. One thing however is that the things a woman finds desirable or undesirable may not always be obvious to the man.

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Women tend to get very innovative when trying to decode a man. And one of the tools they use to take mental inventory of men is to assess whether they’re worth keeping based on who they’re attracted to – what type of girls. Its no wonder there usually is the innocently posed question: "Which of my friends do you find hot?"

You may wonder why she cares with her being the focal being. Well, for one, she wants to compare herself with every woman she sees - especially those you find attractive – so as to see how she stacks up. Second reason is that she sees the women you are into as a reflection of the kind of guy you are.

The latter is taken to be true in case of celebrities because these are the only women most guys will reveal their true feelings about. Much of someone’s sexual appetite can be predicted by one’s preference for super-controlling types, or sweet, girl-next-door babysitter babes. Here are some of the common celebrity hotties, what they represent, and how women judge you based on which type you're into.

The Jolie: The rebellious/bad girl So what does this say about you? Apparently, men into Angelina Jolie are secure in themselves – I mean, any relationship with a smokin’ hot actress will definitely involve a to the intellect. HOWEVER, since this crush is too forward and obviously inhibited, men who lust for Jolie may also be decoded as those who have trouble expressing their own desires sexually, and enjoy it when a woman is in control.

Kirsten Dunst effortlessly oozes a controlled, pragmatic and intelligent temptress vibe like Jolie. She can also be a bit intimidating to men. On the other hand, Demi Moore takes the bad girl role to a whole new level, upping the stake for men who like powerful, naughty women.

So when you tell a chick you are into these intense celebrities, you’re also sending an intense message about your sexual desires. Much as women entertain the idea of playing this powerful (and steamy) sex kitten role in a sexual relationship, trust me, no woman wants to be your security prop, so make sure she also knows you can take control sometimes.

The Aniston : The good girl Jennifer Aniston – since being Rachel on Friends - shakes up images of the high school sweetheart … the naïve, sweet and often seems helpless, but with a naughty side just waiting to be explored.

Jessica Alba is sweet and sexy at the same time. She's got the aura of a little girl who needs care and support and will later reward you heavily for it. Your girlfriend will definitely appreciate your crush on the good girls because they don't come off as having an empty image, rather they give off an air of a sweet, girl next door type.

Men with such crushes are decoded as the type that like to take care of women … be strong yet gentle, and women love those qualities in men.

The Lohan : The party girl Linday Lohan is the kind of gal that likes to par-tay. She is all up in your face … arrogant and busy showing off her external assets in a most blatant way. Now most men would find this kind of package attractive. Problem is her age and her all-night kegger reputation can make those men who lust for her come off as shallow and noncommittal.

If the man you are eying isn’t scared off by Lohan’s rep of bouncing from guy to guy and starting catfights, then he can be decoded as the type of man who is okay with the idea of being used up. This is not the image you want to give to your new catch.

Other Lohan varieties are are Paris Hilton and Tara Reid. Both have Lohan’s propensity to catfight and the love for partying. In fact, Hilton and Lohan actually share catfights, as well as the spoiled wealthy-youngster attitude. This means doing it in bathroom stalls and never saying: "’til death do us part". This isnt the message you want to send to women who wanna settle down.

The Barrymore : Eccentric and unusual Much as Drew Barrymore is very accomplished actress, she comes off as somewhat different – I mean not anyone can marry Tom Green, after all. Now if you can be attracted to such a quirky girl, then your girlfriend will feel like she can be herself around you.

Other strangies are Winona Ryder and Christina Ricci. Ryder, with a known penchant for stealing, clearly lets her inner-strange out, and Ricci picks roles as diverse and unconventional as she is.

A crush on such is decoded as a love for spontaneity, and an anything-goes attitude, which is fun for women. But let her know that there are some limits to this attitude of yours lest you start coming off as irresponsible.

The Simpson : The blonde bombshell Very little is known about Jessica Simpson but her, well, "outer attributes," a crush on her will tell your woman that all you are after is just that … the beauty and booty. Jessica however is quite whiny and spoiled.

Most men wont have a vacuous, whiny girl on their wish lists. Therefore, a crush on Jess means you are only hooked to looks making you appear quite shallow. Other blondes whose looks might have caught you: Sienna Miller or Kate Bosworth. This type of shallow lust is not a particularly desirable trait in a man.

While most of these women can be seen as good or bad to your girlfriend, there are a bunch of celebrity crushes that could lead you straight to the single life. Good thing is, it’s unlikely she will run off based on this alone. Much as celebrity crushes are not always the truest test of a man's tastes; if you're trying to impress a girl who's new on your horizon, be careful who you cite as your optimal fantasy fling lest she will fling you right out the window.

Are celebrity fantasies a true indication of people’s tastes in partners? Would someone’s celebrity taste deter you from taking the relationship to the next level?

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