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I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...

The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, Too. As I just watched yet another interracial couple featured in a Progressive Insurance ad, (you know, the ones where the kids start turning into their parents) I get a Facebook notification that the New...

4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast (VIDEO) Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They ki...

The Like Switch {AUDIO} Whether we are trying to strike up a conversation at a networking event, meeting someone at a bar, or just talking to your barista, the art of talking to strangers comes alive every day. Our guest ...

Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?

Marriage Isn't for Black Women... REALLY?! {VIDEO} A few days ago I had the misfortune of running across a woe-is-me article called Marriage Isn’t for Black Women, published in Marie Claire of all places.   In summary, this young black woman bears...

How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...

Everything You Know About Attraction is Wrong {Video} What is the secret that makes a man look into a woman’s eyes and think, “She is the one for me?” It isn’t her looks. It isn’t her masters degree in literature. It isn’t the fact that she ...

The REAL TRUTH: Why Men Stop Chasing You {VIDEO} When you make it “official” with a new guy, at first it feels like you can do no wrong. He laughs at all your jokes. He smothers you with kisses, tells you never to change, and can’t find anythi...

The Mask of Masculinity Society expects people to play certain roles, so when we defy these expectations, we run the risk of being shunned by society. But if we want to make progress as a society — and as individuals — s...