Are wealthy men better in bed?
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Is sex with moneyed men better?
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Cassie, a 27-year-old lawyer from London, believes so. “Any girl who tells you different is lying. Rich men are powerful and successful and confident and charismatic. They know what they want, and they go out and get it. That translates to being fantastic in bed,” she says.
There has always been the assumption that hot women, who date the Donald Trumps of this world, do it for the lifestyle, all the while enduring all else … bad sex especially. Well, a recent research reported in the London Times Online is proving this wrong. Apparently, moneyed men have aphrodisiac qualities to back their riches. {You think this is why - even in his 80s - Hugh Hefner has a succession of young girlfriends?}
Cassie is one of the women whose views support this research on human sexuality: that the number and frequency of a woman’s orgasms is directly related to her partner’s wealth. She explains unrepentantly that “Women don’t want to lie back and think of the gas bill.”
Dr Thomas Pollet and Professor Daniel Nettle, academics at the University of Newcastle, did the survey in China where data from 1,534 women with male partners formed the basis of the study. In-depth interviews about their personal lives were conducted with comprehensive questions about their sex lives, income and other factors asked.
Results: 121 of these women always had orgasms during sex, 408 ‘often’ had them, 762 sometimes had them, while 243 rarely or never did orgasm. According to Pollet, much as other factors influenced their orgasmic abilities, money was one of the main ones. “We found that increasing partner income had a highly positive effect on women’s self-reported frequency of orgasm. More desirable mates cause women to experience more orgasms,” he said. Previous research in Germany and America also elicited similar responses.
"Women's capacity for orgasm could be an evolutionary adaptation that serves to discriminate between males on the basis of their quality," said Pollet. "If so, then it should be more frequent in females paired with high-quality males."
Natasha, a woman from the survey, who recently broke up with her 12 year old husband and got herself a rich boyfriend confesses that the sex is much better that what she had with her husband. She said, “My boyfriend is rich, confident and attractive and makes me feel protected and safe. Women need to connect mentally for really great sex, it’s not just a physical thing. It needs to be someone you respect, and rich men get that sort of respect.”
Well much as the study showed women had more orgasms with wealthy men, there is no evidence that they were generally happier. So is it ok to assume they still sacrifice other things for the lifestyle and orgasmic sex?
Big question is: Are wealthy men great in bed or is it the wealth that just brings out the ‘O’ in women? Does this mean if your woman isn’t having orgasms during sex, you aren’t a ‘high-quality’ male and that she doesn't respect you? :roll: Damn!!!
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alexander121 says:Posted: 09 Jul 10@Ichibod, I have enjoyed reading your remarks on several issues. You think clearly, in a calm way and seem to underdstand the issues well. so many others break away from the issues into personal attacks. Kudos!
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Sexulous says:Posted: 21 Jun 10About Rich Men doing it better ? Majority of the World's Richest Men can't even get married, because of their Love of wealth more than the Women God gave mankind, alot of these Men only want one night stands with every Woman they can put on their HIT LIST. Both Men who are Rich & Poor will perform the same way Sexually in bed because they are both think about Money. The Rich Man worries about losing his money & think about getting more while the Poor Man always think about getting the money & gaining more & more. A Man Who is financially stable but not Rich will find more time to please a Woman Sexually easier than both a Rich Man & Poor Man. Also Good SEX comes from those who are able to give it & so that has nothing to do with money & assets. Every Woman sees all Rich Men as having the wealth & power to take care of her needs which are material more than sexual. What many Women think about is if they get Pregnant by a Poor Man " Oh dear My baby is going to suffer". But getting pregnant by a Rich Man " Thank God ! At least his bank account will support Me & My child. The truth hurts but alot of Poor Woman no matter the Race don't want to be in Financial stress cause by Poor Men & babies. But look at the EVIL of MONEY. Many Rich Men don't take care of Women weather She's poor or not. The Rich ones that do are only the few who do. About PLAYBOY CEO & Founder ? To HELL with Hugh Hefner !!! It's Men like those who continually put a price on SEX & Life for Women all over the World. Men like Hugh Hefner don't RESPECT Women the way a Man should. He is also nothing without VIAGRA. I strongly believe Women should never be so Low down like many of Playboy's Girls who believe selling SEX is the best way or only way to make it through. I think very HIGHLY of Women from all Races & I will never agree with the Lifestyle of Men like Hugh Hefner towards our Women because We as Men should make Women feel more worthy of themselves no matter what. In My eyes Women are a very Priceless creation by God & no price can buy that. I WISH MORE MEN WILL SEE HOW PRECIOUS WOMEN ARE SINCE CREATION OF ADAM & EVE. I pray more Women with Low Self esteem will find the strength to not Value themselves as so Low down, selling them selves out like that. It's such a pain to see how a poor Man will Love & Respect a Woman truly but because he has no money he can't provide for her material needs, while many Rich Men don't give a damn about a Woman's needs physically or mentally.
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Filipino says:Posted: 30 Jul 09
Better in bed? I doubt it, sounds like a convenient excuse that a gold-digger might use.
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Trovert says:Posted: 17 Jul 09
Oh my goodness. EVERYBODY STOP STROKING YOURSELVES. What a man who isn't me does with a woman who isn't mine, is not of my business or concern. You attract what you are...and if a women gets off more because she is mentally stimulated by financial power...so be it. Personally, I'm not into that. Money comes and goes and if the tangible is the foundation of an intangible like love, I believe its a house set for destruction. I can buy anything I want...apparently women can be bought too. But love can't. And I must have the real thing...intimacy. Heart to Heart rather than Money to Mind. But hey, that's what works for me. And if it works why be offended by another persons criticism; why feel drawn to defend. My truth needs no defense. Carry on my embroiled friends.
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Ichibod says:Posted: 07 Jul 09Why is it that black women claim we are always disrespecting them when in these blogs, a black man only engages in an arument with a black woman over negative, unprovoked comments about us such as the one above. Keep your eyes and minds open. Thank you for that, MRLEES. Even women don't condemn these black women for their negativity. That's called silent consent.
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MRLEES says:Posted: 19 May 09Comment by caramel022 on 28 April 2009: mr laurelton queens. from reading your blogs u obviously have a complex. u had the nerve to talk about someone’s teeth? what are u in elementary school? grow up! i’m not surprised though. most black men are childish. "WHEN I READ YOUR LAST SENTANCE,,, I REJOYCED OVER YOUR DATING HABITS, YOU HAVE MY BLESSINGS, PLEASE KEEP YOUR OATH OF NOT DATING MEN OF COLOR. YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR ANYONE OF COLOR!" "A WORD OF ADVICE,,, DON'T EVER LOSE YOUR BEAUTY DEAR, I KNOW YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH BRAINS TO FALL BACK ON."
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caramel022 says:Posted: 28 Apr 09
mr laurelton queens. from reading your blogs u obviously have a complex. u had the nerve to talk about someone's teeth? what are u in elementary school? grow up! i'm not surprised though. most black men are childish.
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Member says:Posted: 27 Apr 09
Dear Choc I all for having a civil debate. Instead you tried to disrespect me. I want black women to achieve their dreams eduction wise. Just don't tear us down. You speak of Willie Lynch. You are dating Willie Lynch and trying to put down black men. I could have went to Law School. A friend of mine said going to a low tier Law School wouldn't be worth it. I am glad I took his advice. Most of the women I know are in tremendous debt. That's my own personal career choice. People hate to hear the truth. The funny thing was a white boy told me a low tier Law School would be career suicide. I disagree with him. I think it depends on the field. You can be a criminal defense attorney and do well. As for all that other stuff you was rambling about. I just show you what you write and how "lost" you are. I am not in the business of showing black women the errors of their ways. You seem like a nice girl. Your sort of dillusional. Most black women are when they get highly educated. They start "feeling" themselves. I am 30 years old and I have pretty much seen it all. As for the topic of sex is better with rich men. It is better for women because of the sense of security. When you are rich you can get a woman to do anything. I am not saying that because I hate anybody. I am from Jamaica Queens. I have seen rappers like Ja Rule and 50 cents become rich. The women around them I assure is not "hood rats". So don't tell me that money don't influence women. I like black women but sometimes you need displine. Many thing that have been going is result of black men leading you in the "wrong direction". Calling you thick when your "fat". Just so much shit that doesn't help. I was guilty of doing that too. When their is a gap of black men not really "leading". This is what happens to black women regardless of education. I don't have problems with black women dating white men. I got a problem when you bash us. If you date white men and kept your mouth shut. You wouldn't have the retaliation. Anyway, your orginal point was that women are in love with the idea of money so they think sex is better with a rich man. I will keep it simple. Women don't want a broke man. If they could get a rich man they would be with him regardless if he is jerk. They might even stay with him if he was abusive. Women can deny it. Their mostly full of shit. Have a nice day
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 27 Apr 09
JUST AS I SAID- YOU HAVE NOTHING OF SUBSTANCE TO SAY- JUST INSULTS- BECAUSE YOUR ARGUMENT CARRIES NO WEIGHT. NEVER SOLD MY BODY OR USED IT FOR MONEY IN ANYWAY AND PLEASE DON'T KNOCK MY ENDEAVORS- YOU'VE ONLY DATED A LAWYER- HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU COMPLETED LAW SCHOOL? NONE. SO RESPECT ME AND GOVERN YOURSELF ACCORDINGLY ;-) ONCE AGAIN, AS I MENTIONED BEFORE- SOME DO AND SOME DON'T- WITH REGARDS TO THE ISSUE AT HAND. RICH MEN DON'T HAVE BETTER SEX AND REAL WOMEN LOVE THEIR MEN NOT THEIR MONEY. THE ONES WHO THINK THAT THE SEX IS BETTER WITH MONEY- THEY'RE SEXING A DREAM (OR THE MONEY) AND IT'S NOT REAL. IF THE MAN LOSES HIS JOB AND OR MONEY, DOES THAT MEAN HIS SEX IS BAD NOW? AND I BROUGHT UP THE SUBJECT OF WOMEN CHEATING ON MONEYED MEN TO GET WHAT THEY WANT WITH REGARDS TO THIS WHOLE PLAYBOY AND HUGH STUFF, WHICH IS A DIFFERENT WORLD FROM TRADITIONAL AND "RESPECTABLE" MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS- REAL LIFE. AND YES, WHORES OR NOT, IF A WOMAN IS "CHASING" (NOT ACCEPTING) MONEY AND THAT'S THE ONLY THING KEEPING HER AROUND, SHE'S NOT TRUE TO HERSELF AND WON'T BE TRUE TO HER MAN. ANYHOW, HOWEVER LAURENTON WOULD LIKE TO TWIST MY WORDS AND STRESS THE BULLSHIT- THAT WAS MY POINT. THIS WHOLE SNEAKING OFF ON THE MONEYED MEN THING WAS IN RESPONSE CIBAL09'S COMMENT AND SHE RESPECTFULLY RESPONDED AND UNDERSTOOD WHERE I WAS COMING FROM ALTHOUGH I DON'T EXPECT SUCH A RESPONSE FROM IGNORAMOUS, LAUREL. "Until I went to college I never really saw black men doing well in academics"- IS WHAT I WAS REFERING TO...STOP TRYING SO HARD TO SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM THE REST OF US- IT'S OVER- YOU'RE THE ONLY SMART BLACK GUY IN THE CLASS ANYMORE. GREAT, YOU'RE COLLEGE EDUCATED- SPREAD THE KNOWLEDGE- STOP THE DIVISION AND THIS WHOLE WILLY LYNCH SYNDROME. RATHER THAN ADVISING US ALL TO FIND WHITE MEN TO SUCK THEIR TOES, OR FIX OUR TEETH, OR PAY OFF OUR DEBTS, LOVE YOUR SISTERS AND STOP HUMILIATING THEM- HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY THAT OTHERS WOULD WANT TO HEAR AND THAT CAN BETTER SOMEONE'S LIFE. GET OFF OF YOURSELF. BETTER YET GET THE FUCK OFF THIS SITE IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS WITH BLACK WOMEN DATING WHITE MEN- AREN'T YOU GETTING MARRIED ANYHOW? WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE? REALLY. AND WHO GIVES A FUCK ABOUT THE CALIBER OF PEOPLE YOU ASSOCIATE WITH OR WHETHER I HAVE STRIPPER FRIEND OR AN INEXPENSIVE DRESS (WHICH IT'S NOT)- DOESN'T MAKE YOU BETTER OR YOUR ARGUMENT ANY STRONGER. GET A LIFE.
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Member says:Posted: 27 Apr 09
Dear Choc You never got my attention. I am glad you graduated a low tier Law School during a recession. I use to date a lawyer prior to being engaged to my fiancee. So I am not impressed that much. I know some "Law grads" are in tremendous debt. I don't know if you are. I am not one to rain on anybody's parade. Hopefully, you can find a white man to help you pay off that tremendous debt. Judging from the way you write you are not graduating from an Ivy League Law school. Your memory is horrible. You said this "AND YOU DID SAY THAT YOU NEVER SAW A BLACK GUY DO HIS CLASSWORK UNTIL COLLEGE- SO DON’T TAKE IT BACK NOW" ???????????????? I never saw what????????? You said you were addressing one of my "latest" followers. Your a funny woman not to bright though. You said out of your own words this......... “THINK OF ALL THE WOMEN SNEAKING OUT ON THEIR “MONEYED” MEN TO GET IT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS BROKE BUT A BEAST IN BED? SO COMMON. I SEE IT WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS CONSTANTLY. DO YOU THINK ALL THOSE WOMEN ARE FAITHFUL TO HUGH? AND FOR HOW LONG? LOL.” You said your girlfriends are whores. Mrs. Law school graduate. Go back to the strip club. You are right, I wouldn't get the time of day. You was too busy giving old men lap dances. Stop insulting respectable black women that went to Law School with that cheap blue dress and hair weave. Be glad you talked to me.
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 26 Apr 09
AND I AM NOT SPEAKING WITH REGARDS TO REAL RELATIONSHIPS OR WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR MEN AND THEIR MEN JUST HAPPEN TO HAVE MONEY- JUST DATING GAME THAT RICH MEN AND SOME LADIES PLAY . MOST REAL WOMEN WON'T CHEAT IF THEY HAVE A DECENT MAN AT HOME (MONEY OR NOT). WE'RE TOO AWESOME. GO WOMEN!
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 26 Apr 09
LMAO!!!!! GREAT! I GOT YOUR ATTENTION ;-) ALTHOUGH I HAVEN'T DISRESPECTED YOU WITH THE NAME CALLING, I UNDERSTAND YOUR BITTERNESS WON'T LET YOU REFRAIN FROM DISSING ALL THE SISTERS WITH OPINIONS. I AM NOT YELLING, NOT ABUSIVE- BUT ALWAYS TYPE IN ALL CAPS BECAUSE IT MAKES LIFE EASIER... ANYHOW, YES, I WEAR ANYTHING FROM $5 DRESSES (IF IT'S HOT) TO $500 SHIRTS- OR MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE EXCHANGED THE TICKET FOR THAT MEXICAN CRUISE I WAS ON FOR A MORE EXPENSIVE DRESS... AND YOU DID SAY THAT YOU NEVER SAW A BLACK GUY DO HIS CLASSWORK UNTIL COLLEGE- SO DON'T TAKE IT BACK NOW...AND YES, I HAVE SLUT FRIENDS, DOCTOR FRIENDS, LAWYERS FRIENDS, AND SO ON- ALL OF THEM GET IT THEY'RE OWN WAY- BLACK AND WHITE...THE QUESTION WAS WITH REGARDS TO WOMEN THINKING RICH MEN HAVE BETTER SEX. SO LET GO OF THE EMOTION AND STOP BEING A BITCH FOR A MINUTE. I WAS ACTUALLY ADDRESSING YOUR LATEST FOLLOWER WHEN I SAID THAT "MONEYED" MEN GET CHEATED ON TOO- AND FOR BETTER SEX. AS DO MONEYED WOMEN, LIKE TERRY MCMILLAN AFTER HER MAN DESIRED OTHER MEN- JUST AS YOURSELF ;-) MONEY, CAR, WHATEVER- YOUR FIVE BLACK GIRLFRIENDS FROM THE HOOD DURING THE RECESSION WOULD CHEAT ON YOU TOO IF YOUR SEX GAME IS AS LAME AS YOUR RESPECT LEVEL FOR BLACK WOMEN OR WOMEN IN GENERAL... MY POINT- SINCE MY FIRST POST... RICH MEN DON'T HAVE BETTER SEX AND THE WOMEN THEY ARE WITH ARE MORE THAN LIKELY ACCEPTING THEIR MONEY BUT, AT THE SAME TIME GOING OUT TO GET THE SEX THEY WANT- ESPECIALLY IF THEY KNOW THAT THEY ARE ONLY ARM CANDY. IF THE GUY THINKS THAT WOMEN ARE SO DUMB TO ALLOW HIM TO HAVE FIVE "GIRLFRIENDS FROM THE HOOD" JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT AS WELL OFF AS HE IS- - THEY'RE GOING TO DO WHAT THEY FEEL THEY HAVE TO DO AS WELL- TO EACH HIS OWN. DON'T JUDGE BECAUSE YOU CAN'T GET A RICH MAN.LOL ON A PERSONAL LEVEL, YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT ME. I HAVE NEVER DEPENDED ON A MAN, BEGGED A MAN, LIVED WITH A MAN, PLAYED HOUSE WITH A MAN, BLACK OR WHITE, NEVER EVEN HAD A ROOMMATE, I DEPEND ON MYSELF, AND AM WEEK SHY OF GRADUATING LAW SCHOOL- CONGRATS TO ME, YAY! I WOULD DOUBT IF I WOULD GIVE YOUR SILLY ASS THE TIME OF DAY TO LOOK AT ME IN MY LATE 30'S. KEEP DREAMING, PIMPIN. AND YOU HAVE A NICE DAY, MR. BAMBOOZLED. AND LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF - THE LACK THEREOF SHOWS.
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Member says:Posted: 26 Apr 09
Dear Choclstar I don't know why you are yelling. No wonder you want a white man because your loud and abusive. I figure you are getting ready to go outside with your tight cheap clothes that you got from the flea market. Now think about your statement. How I never seen a black man work before I went to college. I grew up in a middle class black neighborhood with black men working 9 to 5. Most of them Union workers for the MTA. Most of their wives were nurses for the local NYC Hospitals. You mention men not getting the women they "dreamed" of until they got paper. Man please, I can go to the hood and get me a fine ass black girl. I don't even need paper just my car. It's a recession I can have five black girlfriends. Now you admit your girlfriends are whores. The same point I have made throughout my blogs. Here is your statement "THINK OF ALL THE WOMEN SNEAKING OUT ON THEIR “MONEYED” MEN TO GET IT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS BROKE BUT A BEAST IN BED? SO COMMON. I SEE IT WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS CONSTANTLY. DO YOU THINK ALL THOSE WOMEN ARE FAITHFUL TO HUGH? AND FOR HOW LONG? LOL." Great, your statement is not helping black women you dumb baby elephant. I own my car, my home and most of everything is in MY NAME. You better run that game on a white boy. I am not even bothering to tell you what your slut friends are doing wrong. You got the game ass backwards. The women that are successful are able to keep that lifestyle going. Just because you fuck men with money doesn't mean that will last forever. You will be "washed up" in your late 30s looking for any man. I see all the time now. Trust me, we don't get you now. We will get you down the road. Have a nice day.
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Cibal09 says:Posted: 26 Apr 09“moneyed men have aphrodisiac qualities to back their riches” - NO. MONEYED MEN NOW HAVE OPTIONS BECAUSE THEY CAN GET WHAT THEY WANT AND NOT WHO WANTS THEM. SO OF COURSE THEY HAVE APHRODISIAC QUALITIES BECAUSE THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN THEY’VE DREAMED OF HAVING UNTIL THE PAPER’S RIGHT.............. My point is that several studies have been done that suggest that the QUALITIES of succesful men turn women on - power, confidence, intelligence, good judgment - those kinds of qualities. People of any economic level will cheat on each other. I personally think nerds are sexy because they are so intelligent although they may have no sense of style whatsoever and to me intelligence is a sexy QUALITY. I have seen CEOs that can run billion dollar corporations, but have no self-confidence with women. ironically, most of the C-men I've met are married and faithful to their wives. One of my bosses told me one day that he could never be sure if a woman wanted him or his money. But his QUALITIES attracted a slew of women. He was handsome, classy, stylish, charming, intelligent, made million dollar decisions every day. Yet he couldn't be sure why a woman was with him. He did eventually end up with a woman who loved him very much, but, of course, she had her own wealth and didn't need his. Re: MLQ - You know darn well that he didn't have to wait to go to college to see a black man working. He's from NY. He said he didn't see black men doing well ACADEMICALLY until he went to college which encouraged him to get his act together. SOME PEOPLE SEARCH FOR LOVE, SOME SEARCH FOR MONEY, SUCCESS, OR ADVANCEMENT. BLACK AND WHITE. Exactly.
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 25 Apr 09
I TOLD YOU MCQUEEN JUST NEEDED ATTENTION- WHOLE LIFE STORY... HE IS SO CONFUSED, AS IS HIS "FOLLOWERS." ARE YOU SERIOUS? HE SAYS HE NEVER SAW A BLACK MAN DO WORK UNTIL COLLEGE....HOW'D HE GET TO COLLEGE? WE'RE MORE THAN JUST ATHLETES AND ENTERTAINERS, IGNORAMOUS.LOL. THEN HE SAYS THE BLACK WOMEN GIVE IT UP TOO EASY YET BEFORE THAT HE SAYS WHITE WOMEN WHO WOULD NEVER DATE NERDS WILL WHEN THEY GET MONEY? IS THAT NOT EASY? TOTALLY BACKWARDS- WHITE GIRLS GET IT FOR FUN- PAID OR NOT- IF THEY THINK THEY CAN SLEEP WITH A MONEYBAG. ON THE OTHER HAND, BLACK WOMEN ARE MUCH MORE CONSERVATIVE, REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE MEDIA TEACHES YOU, LAURENTON- BEING THAT YOU "HANG" IN THE HOOD- EVEN THOUGH YOU'VE BEEN TO A FEW PARTIES WITH THE "GHETTO GIRLS." IT'S NOT A BLACK OR WHITE THING- JUST LIKE MANY OF YOUR BLACK "FRIENDS"- THERE ARE EVEN MORE WHITES IN THE SAME SITUATIONS- WITH THEIR PARENTS, LIVING OFF OF TRUST FUNDS, OR WHATEVER. PROBABLY NOT IN THE PROJECTS BUT IN THE TRAILER PARKS INSTEAD- SAME STUFF- DIFFERENT FLAVOR. GET IT. SOME WOMEN DO, SOME WOMEN DON'T... JUST IN DIFFERENT WAYS. SOME PEOPLE SEARCH FOR LOVE, SOME SEARCH FOR MONEY, SUCCESS, OR ADVANCEMENT. BLACK AND WHITE.
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 25 Apr 09
ARE YOU SERIOUS? "moneyed men have aphrodisiac qualities to back their richeS" - NO. MONEYED MEN NOW HAVE OPTIONS BECAUSE THEY CAN GET WHAT THEY WANT AND NOT WHO WANTS THEM. SO OF COURSE THEY HAVE APHRODISIAC QUALITIES BECAUSE THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN THEY'VE DREAMED OF HAVING UNTIL THE PAPER'S RIGHT. THINK OF ALL THE WOMEN SNEAKING OUT ON THEIR "MONEYED" MEN TO GET IT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS BROKE BUT A BEAST IN BED? SO COMMON. I SEE IT WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS CONSTANTLY. DO YOU THINK ALL THOSE WOMEN ARE FAITHFUL TO HUGH? AND FOR HOW LONG? LOL.
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Cibal09 says:Posted: 25 Apr 09
Most of the young women who hang around Hefner have became "famous" in their own right. They hang around him because he appreciates beautiful young women and they need the sponsorship to get the glamor and fame they want. It's a reciprocal relationship. Lots of them became actresses and models - whatever they are looking for. I'm sure there is a some sex involved; after all they are beautiful women and he is a man (I really hate that Viva Viagra commercial). James said it himself in his letter - "moneyed men have aphrodisiac qualities to back their riches". Personally, I think men in power are a turn-on because I think powerful men who have that "conquering instinct" take that instinct with them from the boardroom to the bedroom. Now, can they really DO ANYTHING? I'm sure some can. And the thing about sex is that you can usually get whoever you are with to work with you. There have been lots of studies done that indicate women (most women) are drawn to men in powerful positions from the preacher in the neighborhood pulpit, the boss in the office and, let's face it, Hugh Hefner. I think it is that confidence, control and intelligence they exhibit that attracts women because we do like security and the average women (my belief) is going to be attracted to it just because human nature is going to want a mate that promises security, health and survival of the species. But you also have to consider that a smart man is just going to make money. He doesn't have to chase it and you're not going to find a lot of intelligent, confident men sitting around trying to prove how good they are in bed. Other studies have shown that the higher a person's income level, the less interest they have in sex because they spend so much time thinking, and if they're thinking, they are going to be doing some of the things they think about or reading or studying. Of course, once a woman gets beyond childbearing years and instinctual survival and care for her children are no longer issues, she will then go for the "flavor". If a person gets lucky enough to find someone they care about and that person happens to have money also, JACKPOT!!! (lol). I don't know, y'all. At first I thought MLQ was a nut and he just might well be, but I'm starting to think he puts some of that stuff up here to stir things up. 'Cause when you read his posts, he does make some sense in a dark, confusing sort of way.
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Ichibod says:Posted: 12 Apr 09
I agree Laurelton, as I do with many of your posts on various topics. A lot of people don't care to understand anything you try to say or respect you for merely feeling the way you feel. Probably because a lot of your posts are long and they don't have an attention span long enough to be able to comprehend your message so they take bits and pieces of the words they find most offensive, and throw them back at you totally missing the point. Some will even argue an example of yours and end up proving your point. If people would stick with the topic rather than trying to one-up the next blogger with their opinions, we could keep the peace.
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CHOCLTSTAR says:Posted: 22 Mar 09
LET'S BE REAL, SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE- MOST MEN WITH BIG POCKETS HAVE SHORTCOMINGS IN THE BEDROOM.... THOSE WHO CAN PLEASE IN BED, DON'T CHASE MONEY TO ACQUIRE "THINGS" THAT ATTRACT WOMEN. I HAVE YET TO MEET SOMEONE WITH BOTH- GOOD SEX AND DEEP POCKETS. THAT'S WHY WHEN MANY WOMEN BECOME ESTABLISHED AND ARE STILL SINGLE- THEY GO FOR WHAT THEY WANT AND NOT WHO THEY THINK THEY NEED FOR A SENSE OF SECURITY (TERRY MCMILLAN). AS FOR MR. QUEEN'S IGNORANT ASS, I CAN'T BELIEVE THE CRAP HE IS POSTING- WRONG SITE!LOL HE IS OBVIOUSLY BITTER AND LOOKING FOR THE ATTENTION THAT HE IS MISSING AT HOME AND I WOULD NOT "GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY" TO EVEN ARGUE WITH HIM... SO, STAY STRONG AND GORGEOUS, MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEENS, ESPECIALLY YOU, MZ. SAMMY. ;-)
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BellaVanilla says:Posted: 19 Mar 09
Laurelton , Why would I want to date a broke man working at McDonalds when I can date a well off CEO? I mean come on that's logic man ! Let's be real ! Women want to be with men who can provide for her and they cannot be blamed for wanting that ! Who wants to be with a man who cannot pay his bills?
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jecrego1972 says:Posted: 17 Mar 09This has got to be the most ridiculous question ever! Money does not = sexual prowess. I don't care who it is, even if it's Hugh Hefner.
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JoshLind29 says:Posted: 16 Mar 09Are Wealthy Men Better In Bed? What? I'm only 29 years old and I know for a fact that having money and having the knowledge to please a woman sexually have nothing in common whatsoever. I've got stories of being poor that you wouldn't even believe. I still managed to experience sex and become a great lover. So, whatever. I find the women who think rich men are better lovers a bit superficial in character. Of course I could be wrong. Perhaps I'm subconsciously in fear that my lack of money is going to make me less attractive? Well, if I'm unattractive to anyone because of my bank statement highs and lows, I'll take it as a sign of good will. As for 'ol Hef? He's still kickin' it. Even if he has to use a billion pills a minute thats great. And I'd almost bet he was good with the women before he started posting them nude in a magazine.
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Zenergetic says:Posted: 16 Mar 09Sex is a medium of communication, just like any other art form and like any art form, those that have the resources to practice it regularly have the potential to be better at it than those that do not have the same resources. Its exactly like the old joke. How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice. Practice. Practice. Of course, how good sex can be also has to do with the people involved. It depends on how expressive the participants are, how responsive they are and how available they are to feedback and their desire to improve. If you have inexpressive and unresponsive partners, chances are the sex will not be that great - or at least as great as it could be. I remember a commercial from the 90's (I think) that illustrates this point. They showed what was going through the mind of an Olympic hurdler (it might have been Jackie Joyner-Kersee, idk) as she was running. All it was was counting to seven and then exclaiming 'KICK!' as she soared over each hurdle. Her final words were something like "What did you expect? Shakespeare? I'm working here." If you want better sex, then your mind can not be roaming around elsewhere. Focus on your partner, your work and your craft and your sex life will improve. As far as money goes, I never tell a woman how much money I have or don't have. If I can't win a woman's heart if I was a poor man, I wouldn't want her around me as a rich man.
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Member says:Posted: 16 Mar 09
Dear Imarose Who I do hang out with? I hang out with college educated people (women 99 percent of the time) with the exception of my fiancee. I am 30 years old I doubt I would be hanging out with people in the projects. Not because I am afraid, simply because I have grown as a man. I remember I was "down and out' and I couldn't bring myself to move into the projects. Maybe cause I have pride or whatever the case. I was just raised differently I think. I went to high school with pretty tough guys. I am from Jamaica Queens New York City. I think I always felt out of place. I was hanging out with the popular guys cutting class and getting girls. I was just too intellectual to be "thug". I never put in "work" as far as harming people. I got into brawls with other tough guys but nothing like drug dealing and pimping. My father was a big influence or I really would have been in prison or something. I don't look at black men as feeble or unable to get a job. I am troubled by some of them dropping out of school and that sort of thing. Half my friends are doing ok (some joined the military), another third of them locked up for drugs and my other friends are on the "borderline" just living off their mama or girlfriend. Until I went to college I never really saw black men doing well in academics lol. I saw the fraternities, and all that, and I realized, I better shape up and get this education. Then my fist girlfriend was the daughter of a black preacher. He preached with Martin Luther King Jr. She kind of "molded" the rough edges ; she went to Hofstra University. The problem was I was still visiting the hood partying with the ghetto girls. I was leading a double life lol. I would say I led an interesting life. Anyway, like Nile said in her statement above. Many women feel this way. You can say she is materialistic but at least she honest. Listen, the problem is black women letting black men get it to easy. Sometimes, you got to push a man to be successful. You think nerdy white men who went to college got pussy. They ain't get pussy until they got hired to a "fortune 500 firm" and now the white hos throwing themselves at them. Bill Gates and I can go on. Think about why the escort and prostitution business generates so much money. I remember I was in my girlfriend's dorm in Hofstra University. She came out the shower in a bath towel and walked down the hallway. I was sitting in her room on the computer. White boys had their tongue hanging out like they never seen sexy black girl before. She was thick like 5ft 5 140 dark skin. Man, I don't blame them for looking lol. I am gone.
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Outlaw says:Posted: 16 Mar 09Wow, there is a lot of emotion here, for the record I have been hurt by women of color, but I still kept on trying. The experencie of one does not justify anger to all. If you find a good one, it does not matter what ethnicity she is. Also in regard to the Mr "LQ" statements, that is just a measure of what he sees. However if you are in an economically poorer nation than the US (even with the current state)any person will do what they have to in order to make a better life for themselves. All women want a measure of security, it is a type of self validation. We as guys want to be rich or at least comfortable so we can do what we want. If guys have a high income the he can get some things easier than others. True a lot of women are only after money, and then we are only after sex in many cases. One way to see it is called "Commerce" we take care of them for a while and vice versa. I will not lump all women especially women of color into a ball just on a few random experiences. As far as being good in bed, that is just a matter of experience, doing research and asking questions. Applied knowledge is power and if you are lucky some claw marks in the back and a hot woman, shaking on top of you. : )
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 13 Mar 09
I don't care how rich or poor a man is, if I am going to have amazing sex with someone, it got nothing to do with money and objects. Its got to do with mutual respect, chemistry, sensuality, sexuality, confidence, the X factor, touch, presence, intensity, the sound of his voice, the way he smells, his eyes, the way he looks at me with those eyes, non verbal communication and the sound of his breathing, the way me holds me and a multitude of other subtle things. Giving it up for something worth it????? The 'something' for me is an intimate,mind blowing experience and a true connection with someone on a physical and emotional level. I have experienced this and its well worth it as far as I am concerned.
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NileExotic says:Posted: 13 Mar 09
Wealthy men are not better in bed, however A woman prefer to have a wealthy man than a poor man in bed. Why is this? Well, think about it, we love shopping and a wealthy man can shower you with lots great gifts and make you feel like a million dollars. Frankly, I don't know how any woman can enjoy sex with a poor man. If you are going to give it up, at least give it up for something worth it.
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imarose says:Posted: 12 Mar 09...The last time I dated a young man who worked at Mickey D's, I was 15 years old. Come on now Mr. Queens... lets be real... When is the last time you dated a sister who worked at McDonalds. If I worked at McDonalds, I might, I don't even eat at McDonalds! We all need to quit acting like both sides, male and female don't both have their issues, but NO... Heck NO! I'm not dating someone who works at McDonalds unless he is a manager... I don't care if you're black, white, yellow or poka dotted... That's just me being real. You can boo all you want too, unless he is already my man and falls on hard times (then I got you), but other than that, it just ain't happening and if most of you male or female are real, you are thinking the same way. Another thing, not everybody who works in the coporate world is financially solid as we know many people live beyond their means. I want to be with someone who more importantly has a grasp on their finances as I am working hard now to prosper myself and I want to be with someone like minded. Their is nothing wrong with wanting to be yoke with someone who is going in the same direction as you. I must be missing something though, because some of these comments I'm seeing makes it seem like we don't have any brothers that doing well, and that's not true. Also, to add to my comment about the projects, you are right for the most party Mr. Queens, most people associate with those they are around the most and many who "don't think they can do any better" roll with the brothers in the project... But many have hopes and dreams and self esteem and see potential in some of those young men and treat them accordingly and they should. As far as needing someone to get them out of their circumstances... I guess you were talking to Sammy, but Mr. Queens, who are you hanging out with brother? I know that you are a little tongue and cheek, but from what I've read so far, it seems as thought you look at the black man as feeble, unable to get a good job and unable to support the one he loves. Or do you think all black women think of black men that way? Because I assure you while some may, all don't. I won't make one excuse as to whom I am with, it's nobody business. You are entitled to your opinion and everyone is entitle to live their lives the way the see fit. Blessings!
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
You know NOTHING !!!!! In fact you are a racist as you are suggesting that all poor black women have no values and will be with a man for money without a seconds thought. Some will, but so will some white or chinese women women. Its nothing to do with race, its to do with economics!!! I only date white men as they are the only ones I am sexually attracted to. You don't know anything about me so what are you going on about with regard to my personal finances??? There are plenty of successful handsome black men in London. I don't kiss white mens toes, I have had white boyfriends and good friends who are white as well as black and one day want to be married. He will probably be white as I only date white men, but you never know. If you don't like it, thats your problem. You are just pig ignorant!
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
I haven't mentioned the projects in my reply once? How do you know a woman will dump a guy in the projects because another guy has more? You don't know that. Here you go again making rediculous generalisations. The idea that people living in the projects are somehow sub-human and inferior to everyone else really pisses me off. It is so damn rude and you are showing how pig ignorant you are. Excuse me, I don't date black men because I don't fancy them. I have a preference for white men as they are the only ones I am attracted to. Living in London all of my life this is no big deal. There are broke white guys too !! There are lot of very successful black men in London so you are talking rubbish. Im not kissing anyones toes, what are you babbling on about. Why are you even on this website. You are racist and making insulting comments about your own people and then being anti-white ???????????
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Member says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
(Looking at Sammy) Rolling my eyes Yea Imarose You mention black women being in the projects with black men. Trust me if they could leave the projects they wouldn't hanging out there. Certainly not because of loyalty. I don't care how a good man you are in the projects. If a man has something more she will leave him. That is just the cut throat nature of society. As for some "women on here" that disagree. You know what this so called black male shortage that is always mentioned must be false. Because their are plenty of black men in the lower socioeconomic scale. You choose not to date them because they are broke. When was the last time you dated a black man working at Mcdonald's Listen keep kissing the white man's toes so he can help you out of your circumstances. Good day
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
You don't speak for ALL women Mr Queens. Your sweeping generalisations and stereotypical views, show your lack of true understanding. Maybe it is your perspective that is questionable, not mine ?!?!
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imarose says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
...Personally, I think money is a good thing IF and here is the big IF... your character is straight. Where women of color and other cultures have bought into money makes a good man, agree with that and if you were jacked up before you got money, then you are going to be even more jacked up when you get the money. Women do like stablity and can sometime equate money with that. However, I don't agree totally that "Nobody give a %&#@ abot a poor man" You can look in the projects and many other places and see the sista hanging in there with the poor brother because she knows he is a good man.
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Member says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
Dear Sammy She addressed me I didn't address her. Since this topic is serious. I will interject on your long post. I like to be concise and to the point. I don't think it is just the money for women. I think the money represents the stability it brings. That is attractive to all women. Notice I am keeping it general because once I dip into race. Some of these black women jump on me because they are emotional. For the record I had worked in the corporate world and you can be asshole like me and have women falling over you. So I might be biased when it comes to money, power and status. For example, if a wealthy man said the things I said he would be considered " a comedian" or just joking. Money definitely changes the way a woman perceives you. You will never have a woman be completely honest to me when it comes to money. Simply because women are afraid that will be categorized as gold diggers or semi prostitutes. For the record I have read several books. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, 48 Laws of Power by the same author. Several other books by black authors with the exception of Robert Greene. For the record there is many ordinary women that are overlooked. Since I use to date black women before I was engaged I use to be surprised why so many of them were single moms. Back on topic. Money tricks women into believing the man is "just so great". I give my fiancee gifts because sometimes I do feel bad on how I treat her. I am very much an alpha male. The environment that I was raised in makes me a hardened individual. I think black women believe that if black men go to college they would be better mates. Money is the gift and curse for "men" in general. It can make you arrogant and cocky. Me personally, like some of the older professional black men at work say to me. I rather be paid and unhappy. Then broke and "alone". Nobody gives a shit about a poor man. Especially no poor black men. So let's keep it in perspective here. Women only understand confidence and success. End of story.
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
Women who are impressed by wealth, status and a persons bank balance are the same kind of people that would choose their 'friends' based on the same things. They are the kind of people who lack integrity and a strong value system of their own. They need to bathe in the glory of a another person, because what they see when they look at themselves isn't enough. The person with status will give them added value in society and they will 'be somebody' . This in my opinion is a great weakness and quite frankly if I was a man I would not touch a woman like this with a barge pole. This is a weak woman who is superficial and shallow. A poor parent in the making, god forbid he gets her pregnant and she becomes part of his family. Worse still if she finds a guy with even more money than you, she won't stick around. Men know exactly what these women's weaknesses are and will take advantage of them. He gets sex she gets to shop and brag to her friends how much money he makes. While she is faking her orgasms she is thinking how many pairs of Jimmy Choo's she is going to buy etc. This is really what its about. Women try to convince the rest of the world that the sex is great so it doesn't look like they are gold diggers. Some men even get off on the fact a woman is a gold digger and is as mercenary as he is. These kind of people belong together. A man who is naturally sexual, sensual, animalistic, and truly in touch with his soul when it comes to being with a woman is good in bed and I am afraid the car you drive and other possessions mean absolutely nothing. They have no connection to the essential qualities mentioned above. Wealth brings peace of mind regarding money matters so increased orgasms are probably a result of less stress, not because he is necessarily any good in the sack. A rich man may also think that he has to try less hard to please, as fake women who are easily impressed and constantly drooling over them will be easy catches and men often prefer someone who is more of a challenge and worth fighting for. When you do not have an easy life, times are hard and many challenges need to be faced, it can work the other way around where the woman a man loves is treasured because she gives him a place of sanctuary through genuine friendship, companionship, REAL love and sex which serves as an important bonding mechanism between them. If you do not have much materially, the human connection I believe may mean more to a couple. If you look at the aristocracy in England, couples rarely slept in the same rooms as their houses were obviously massive. It was not unheard of for men AND women after a certain time within their marriage to have affairs on both sides. This shows in my view, that when status and money become the priority then the love as most people define it, gets lost and the union is nothing more than a convenient arrangement. Children are packed off to boarding school and the family unit is a fragmented one, but because there is a lot of money in the family and these people are brought up this way, this is normal for them. Mr Queens - If you have nothing intelligent to say, why not read a book. These women have more class in their little finger that this Lawyer idiot. I am from London and I am not lying when I say most women do not hold this opinion and they are not lying, its this sad woman who believes in this nonsense that is the liar!
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Sammy1970 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
Women who are impressed by wealth, status and a persons bank balance are the same kind of people that would choose their 'friends' based on the same things. They are the kind of people who lack integrity and a strong value system of their own. They need to bathe in the glory of a another person, because what they see when they look at themselves isn't enough. The person with status will give them added value in society and they will 'be somebody' . This in my opinion is a great weakness and quite frankly if I was a man I would not touch a woman like this with a barge pole. This is a weak woman who is superficial and shallow. A poor parent in the making, god forbid he gets her pregnant and she becomes part of his family. Worse still if she finds a guy with even more money than you, she won't stick around. Men know exactly what these women's weaknesses are and will take advantage of them. He gets sex she gets to shop and brag to her friends how much money he makes. While she is faking her orgasms she is thinking how many pairs of Jimmy Choo's she is going to buy etc. This is really what its about. Women try to convince the rest of the world that the sex is great so it doesn't look like they are gold diggers. Some men even get off on the fact a woman is a gold digger and is as mercenary as he is. These kind of people belong together. A man who is naturally sexual, sensual, animalistic, and truly in touch with his soul when it comes to being with a woman is good in bed and I am afraid the car you drive and other possessions mean absolutely nothing. They have no connection to the essential qualities mentioned above. Wealth brings peace of mind regarding money matters so increased orgasms are probably a result of less stress, not because he is necessarily any good in the sack. A rich man may also think that he has to try less hard to please, as fake women who are easily impressed and constantly drooling over them will be easy catches and men often prefer someone who is more of a challenge and worth fighting for. When you do not have an easy life, times are hard and many challenges need to be faced, it can work the other way around where the woman a man loves is treasured because she gives him a place of sanctuary through genuine friendship, companionship, REAL love and sex which serves as an important bonding mechanism between them. If you do not have much materially, the human connection I believe may mean more to a couple. If you look at the aristocracy in England, couples rarely slept in the same rooms as their houses were obviously massive. It was not unheard of for men AND women after a certain time within their marriage to have affairs on both sides. This shows in my view, that when status and money become the priority then the love as most people define it, gets lost and the union is nothing more than a convenient arrangement. Children are packed off to boarding school and the family unit is a fragmented one, but because there is a lot of money in the family and these people are brought up this way, this is normal for them. Mr Queens - If you have nothing intelligent to say, why not read a book, preferably one about black women in history or about women in general who have achieved great things OR better still, look around at all of the ordinary women who you pass in the street who look after their children, some on their own, who do so with a lot of effort and dignity and without sleeping with guys for monetary reasons. These women have more class in their little finger that this Lawyer idiot. I am from London and I am not lying when I say most women do not hold this opinion and they are not lying, its this sad woman who believes in this nonsense that is the liar!
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Member says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
By the way If your going to personally attack me. Just get your teeth fixed. Why they looking like that and that got the nerve to say something to me. I hope a rich white man gets your teeth fixed! God bless http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/
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Member says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
Dear Cree Thank you for your response "little" Tyra Banks. I am sure coming from you that would hurt my feelings. LOL I am doing well in this tight economy. Hey I am glad you took time out to respond to me. Take it easy
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Cree44 says:Posted: 11 Mar 09
Hi, In response to Mr. Queens, you must be poor, black, and suffered rejection at the hands of a black woman, what other reason would you have for such contempt for the African American woman. Intelligent people know that you can not lump people into a specific category, and the mentally undeveloped... well you aready know how they think. Cheers Cree
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djstime says:Posted: 09 Mar 09All I can say is that this is a prime example of why women are so confused about what truly matters. I know plenty of women that will have more orgasms with a vibrator than a rich or poor man...so I think that the whole wealth issue equates to the human desire to do anything for money...if you break it down and an orgasm is suppose to be about love and passion for the person...then the things that are associated with that person ties into it...but it also ties into your personal desires...if you love and value wealth then that would get me off...do you think that this would be any different in men that valued money?...if I had a woman that was wealthy and I didn’t have to worry about all of the other things I normally worry about then emotionally I would feel free and relaxed...but I would also knock the bottom out of it every chance I got because I wouldn’t want to lose that security...thus more orgasms…basically its more about the money and your personal definition of wealth...cause looks can only carry you so far...but the same goes for money...You wonder why and if these men and their wealth made them better in bed why don’t they say married?...just a thought...
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Member says:Posted: 07 Mar 09
If your a black woman yes! You can look like "Larry King" on CNN and get you a fine ass black woman. Don't let me get started on Caribbean women. You just need white skin and a good salary they will drop their panties. Good day to everyone
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KoCVF says:Posted: 05 Mar 09Is this a joke? If a woman wants security, she seeks a man with money. If she wants to be happy, she finds a man that fits her needs, physically emotionally and spiritually. Actraction is natural, doesnt matter about money, or backgrounds or anything. We mate for a basic need, to reproduce. Men look for fertile women, and women look for fertile men.
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virgolady916 says:Posted: 04 Mar 09
OK. If Hugh Hefner had no money, who would sleep with him? Come on! He lives on Viagra! He is older than dirt and can't get it up! I would rather have a guy who can rock my world. He does not have to be rich to do that. A lot of them are so worried about being broke, that sex is seldom an agenda. Forget it rich fellas.......money cannot buy EVERYTHING!
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