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I was just about to close my account the next day after numerous letters that turned out to be a waste of time, when I received a letter from Zambia; I had always vowed to never bother with anyone from Africa, but this turned out to be different. I met the sweetest passionate man and we will be married in December 2013. I want everyone to never say never and do not stereotype. We are both so ha... read more

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Must live in southern california!!!
Nickname:  swtbrnskn
Location:  United States, California, Redondo Beach
Age:  42
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 40 - 55
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Friends
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Dark Brown
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Athletic
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent, Islander
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Bachelors degree
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  Yes, living at home
Want children:  No
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Health
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my city
Starsign:  Pisces
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs, Beach house
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion, Love designer wear, Wear the latest trends, I hate clothes, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies
My sense of humor is: 
Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm the Life of the party, I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Curling up with a good book, Napping, Lunch with a friend, Catching up on household chores, Spending time with the family, Doing absolutely nothing, Pursuing a hobby, Volunteering, Shopping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Doesn't Apply
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
Oh goodness, I hate this part. Well, first and foremost I'm, "someBODIES mother, and nobody's wife". I'm the mother of two, a son who's on his own, and a daughter in the home. I'm NOT looking for a father for my kids, they have the best! However, a FIGURE OF A GREAT MAN/FATHER presence will only be accepted. If you are anything less, you WON'T do. I truly and open heartenly believe that love sees no color, as I'm open to all ethnicities, and have been throughout my life. So, trust and believe that you won't be a rat in the lab. LOL! I'm a natural nurturer, maybe that's the mommy in me. I'm always going to make sure your comfy whereever we are. Although I'm very independant, you will always be needed. I will stay in a women's place, but if I see that you can't handle your job as a man... I will assume the position, then we will have a problem Major. Can't tell you how tired I am of being the man in the relationship... It's exhausting!!! I'm very educated (the first in my family to attend and complete college). My drive, motivation and work ethic is on point, but sometimes I'lll need a little push, that's where you will come in. I do enjoy the finer things in life, but I will never expect anything that I cant acquire for myself. I LOVE TRAVELING, and touring/experiencing other countries/cultures... If your ideal of traveling is VEGAS(lived there)... Your not ready for me. However, I wont pass up a trip to sin city... Love the night life LOL! I don't frequent clubs, but I love good music. A nice relaxing lounge with a live band, a pinic at jazz concerts, Breakfast near the ocean, or a walk in the sand while sipping Chai is pure tranquility, and entertainment for me... Once in a while I get the urge to rock out, but its a rareity, as my everyday work and mommy duties wipe me out. Again, this is where you will come in. You must be pleasant to come home to, I NEED this. I'm very honest and straight forward, but gentle. I'm a excellent cook/baker, if you can't cook that's fine, just be prepared to wash the dishes. Its so not my favorite thing to do. I'm very easy going, love to laugh, have the best circle around me, and love myself. I promise to look good and stay in shape for you always. Please do the same. I'm seriously searching for my Best Friend, My lover, My Babe. You will enhance what I already have going on... Make me happier, and I will live by my same standards. I refuse to play second fiddle. If I can't be the entire orchestra... No music will play.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
MUST LOVE KIDS/Pets!!! HONEST!!! Respectful... Possess a STRONG Mind, and the ability to discontinue searching dating sites while getting to know me, it's rude, inconsiderate, and shows that your intentions aren't genuine. Single, Divorced, or Widowed. If you are Separated come back once the ink has dried. If you are recently out of a relationship, take time to heal... A year or so. Excellent communicator, Employed, Able to make decisions, Confident, Secure with yourself (I will continue to build you), Loving, Affectionate, A REAL MAN, Supportive, Caring, Possess a generous heart, In shape (care about you from head to toe), Well groomed, Open to new things, Enjoy traveling local and abroad, must be educated beyond high school, easy going, fun to be around, loves life and laughter, and place family first. I am created from you, make me feel a part of you ALL OF THE TIME!!!

P. S. If you don't reside in Southern California, please don't bother.
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