A black, athletic, kind, suiccessful, christian alpha male who is not afraid to wear the pants in the realtionship. He should be strong but gentle, firm but fair, able to place his arms around me for comfort or to hold me up from a fall. Secure enough to allow me to live my own life as well. Honest enough that I can trust him with anything.

I am aware that in these days this seems to be alot to ask. But, I will not settle. No drug addicts food addicts or any addicts if you can not control yourself how can you expect to handle your woman the way the bible says a man should?

Oh and most of all be happy