I'm looking for a woman who is loyal, sane, patient, emotionally balanced, has a sense of humor with the ability to laugh at herself, is mentally and financially stable, and someone who is not afraid of falling in love, getting married when the time is right, and having a family of her own.

Someone who is passionate, whose views are that "they get pleasure from pleasing their mate" as I do. Devoted to regenerating orgasms for us both... Nice!:-)

She should be thoughtful, compromising and attentive.

Doing things like leaving love notes, lunchtime quickies, giving gifts, soft long kisses, lasting hugs, and cuddling.

She should be dependable, trustworthy and committed, impulsive and spontaneous at times.

Mood swings and lack of openness are definitely some of my turn offs, because if you are not ready to open up to the person you are with, then you shouldn't be with that person, because that's a sign you are not ready to be in a relationship.

Cheating is something I don't, and won't condone, When I find the right woman to settle down with I'm a monogamous man and I seek the same in my woman.

Don't get me wrong, I do know how to "get down" and please a woman sexually. I have been told by one woman that "if men were defined by sex I would be the perfect man" =) I'm cool with public displays of affection, but those moments should be between us.

But please if your definition of having a good time or living life involves shooting up drugs, and getting in trouble or causing trouble, please do not bother.

I'm not looking to rush into a relationship, I'm looking for companionship and friendship first, until we both feel comfortable to take the relationship to the next level (hopefully soon, but that doesn't mean am looking to settle down with just anyone or get married tomorrow. Am not desperate and you shouldn't be either my dear!)lol

Physical attraction, and mental attraction are very important to me: maturity, honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness, affectionate and self esteem are also very important because I find them sexy.

I am a communicator, and she shouldn't have a problem with expression regarding anything.

I'm looking for someone who almost always means what they say, and does what they say they are going to do. I'm a pretty neat guy, and well-mannered. I believe in healthy eating, exercise, and take care of myself physically, so it wouldn't hurt to have a woman who is the same way.

Let us complete and complement each other, instead of the usual complication that some people bring to the table. I'm christian based but not religious, but would like to raise a family with Christian values. Please no fanatics, extremists, hypocrites or church going freaks who think everyone except for them is eternally doomed. With that said, there's always room for some kind of growth, so I am excited to continue living life, enjoying life and growing immensely spiritually and every other aspect, this time with my one and only!

Im open to dating women of all races, but I have a preference more towards black and Latino women.