My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Vanillacocoa, Woman, 50 |
Location | New York, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 39 - 50, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
***WARNING:Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - I prohibit the use of any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have done so or do use any of my information/photos, is considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal actions. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this***
Email if interested. Please, only serious men who are ready to settle down and who have read my profile fully should respond.
Men, if sex talk is first on your list, place me last on your list. If you're still interested... Then here goes! By all means please read on...
I've been told that I am quite the comedian. I love to make others laugh and feel good about who they are. I am passionate about life, people, their needs and emotions. I am always eager to listen to the concerns of others. I am a sensitive person who is very strong when the need arises; I continue to strive for that perfect balance.
I love having fun!!! Exploring new cultures, restaurants, museums and plays. I enjoy traveling, dancing, movies, sporting events and venturing to new heights.
I'm a spiritual person with a great love for Jesus Christ. This definitely does not mean that I am a religious fanatic. I'm respectful of various religious beliefs. My Mr. Ideal will be a God fearing man who has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. My faith and religious beliefs are important to me and my partner should feel the same. My future partner and I need to be on the same page in this area... Very Important!
I am looking for
**A MAN WHO IS READY TO WORK TOWARDS MARRIAGE**
That person who is giving, caring, funny, charasmatic, strong, honest, and successful. Well there's a mouthful for you :-)
My bestfriend! Sounds blah, but it's my reality. The one who's capable of bringing out the best in me. The guy who adds to my circle helping me to be complete. Not one who takes away from or takes over that circle. A man who believes that chivalry is still very much alive and well and who's willing to be a man.
If you're bisexual, trisexual, homosexual, asexual or any type of sexual (excluding a full time heterosexual man) you need not apply. As for all those who were born female and now think they're male because of whatever or for those who were born male but like to cross dress as a female... You need not apply. If you're afraid to be seen in public with a black woman, you too need not apply.
Having someone who loves to travel and who enjoys living life to the fullest is essential. An upbeat yet mellow person who can manage to be realistic is the ideal partner for me. Good luck at winning my heart and hopefully I will win yours. After that I don't think I could ask for anything else ;-)
I love men who are very well established (above average) minus the arrogance.
Men, if you can't, haven't, are not willing, or all of the above to post a photo or if your money, power, and/or fame has gone to your heads then please don't apply; that means both flirts and emails. There are plenty of women who like your type but i'm not one of them. I hate to sound rude, but it's really annoying to receive all these emails from men without a photo. It's nice to place a face with a profile.
I also decided to add a few new things here. Sorry this makes this section longer, but it's necessary for you to know prior to contacting me.
It is true that one has to walk a mile in someone elses shoes before they truly know what that person is going through or has gone through. I used to wonder why so many guys would write a list of things they do not want. I thought that was a bit harsh and closed minded, unitl now. After receiving tons of flirts and bizarre emails, I too have become just as guilty as those who give the laundry list of NO GO's! So here goes with the no go's. Sorry guys cause I know that most guys don't like to do laundry... LOL :-)
1. No Agnostics/Atheists... I'm a lover of Jesus Christ.
2. No one who feels like having a casual convo or relationship here and there... I already have plenty of friends and I am looking to settle down.
3. No one who post pictures of a young good looking man and then decides to reveal that they are not really in their 30's but instead add an additional 30+ years. Nor will I accept the other extreme, teenagers... Thanks guys for the admiration, i'm flattered, but sorry it wont work.
4. No one who checks off every ethnicity except black women... CLEARLY I AM a black woman so I am not for you.
5. No first time daters of black women... I am not a guinea pig.
6. No one who drinks several bottles of wine daily... I am not a substance abuse counselor.
7. No one who doesn't have time to talk... Relationships pose their own quirky challenges.
8. No one who feels they have to have sex with me early in the relationship in order to determine if I am the one... Sex is natural, awesome and definitely necessary for me, but it is not the substance of my being. There is a time and a place for sex and the first few dates don't apply.
9. No one who is under 5'10"... I am tall (5'7")and prefer taller men. No offense to you lovely handsome shorter men.
10. No one who feels that women should be seen and not heard... I am not Edith Bunker, i'm not looking for Archie and this is not, All In the Family.
Once again, I hope I haven't offended anyone as I know that some men will take this the wrong way. My intentions is to provide a brief and important overview of who I am, what I wish to have and what I need. I am just a straight forward gal with no time for games mixed with tons of humor.
So that's it in a nutshell. If we're not a match, that's cool... No hard feelings; at least I made some of you laugh.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Ciao.