My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | TD_Bear, Man, 61 |
Location | Eatontown, New Jersey, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 33 - 48, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Please have a photo. Don't hide your smile from me. I'd like to see who I am saying hello to. And please be local (well, within 2hrs drive in any direction, lol), as I enjoy looking into your eyes, dancing with you, etc... And Sadly, can't pull that off long distance. Warm, caring sensitive, hurt before in previous relationship from being too trusting? Know no other way to be though. Divorced 3 years now so am missing female companionship. 1 child, 11 year old daughter. Daughter lives with her mom 4 days. I have her 3 days. Love of my life and my priority she is. I am a musician. I sing as well as play drums. Was a manager at the Hard Rock Cafe in NY and Atlanta. So that provided me with a chance to play music with many world level players. Father was in the army, which afforded my growing up to be mostly international and living all over the world has kind of made me able to get along with pretty much anyone. And I am also a great cook! Gosh so much more to tell, but lets say we save some for over a drink... Or a cup of coffee. Interested yet?
I am looking for
Looking for a woman that's not afraid to be human. Not afraid to show the flaws we all have. Not afraid... To be them self. A woman who has her own interests, for I am looking to be a PART of someones life... Not their WHOLE life. So NO clingy allowed. Looking for someone I can trust my heart with again. Someone who is confident in them self, and how I feel about them. Someone who likes kids, for my daughter is center of most all my decisions... Who understands our children come first. And smoking is a BIG NO NO. We know far too much about it's dangers for it to be a part of mine, or anyone I care about's life. LIKING to cook goes far with me as well, even though it's one of my passions... Hehehe
I play music out at times with other bands... Usually up front singing. That comes with a lot of attention givers. Anyone I am with needs to know that I don't give in to that, and that YOU... Are my focus. So no room for jealousy. Being a parent first, I don't have much time for a full time relationship yet. Hoping that will change as time goes on but lets take it a day at a time shall we?. I believe these things develop for each person at their own pace. No expectations, no disappointments right? And, again... Please.. No out of the country interests. I just enjoy spending time with an interest too much to suffer not being able to touch their face, or hold them close in a dance, or see their smile when I make dinner for them.