Women that I can relate to, and am compatible with, are the type that stand out in the biggest crowd. Not necessarily credited to physical beauty, but more so their demeanor. An "attractive" woman to me is just that... A woman! I like a woman that is going to be herself regardless of what the occasion and situation might involve. Yet, in doing so, because of the way she carries herself she can adapt to any environment with the least amount of effort. Of course physical features will no doubt get my attention however, mental stimulation will solidify my desire for her. Regardless of what type of relationship two people might have, it all boils down to what's their foundation. When the two ascend to great things, physically and/or mentally, or rescind, physically and/or mentally, having established a true friendship can and will preserve the significant aspects of whatever "unique" situation a couple find themselves in. In my eyes, it's being friends above and beyond everything else... And that's what I strive.