My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Widowed |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Sardi, Woman, 57 |
Location | Roswell, Georgia, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 60, White (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Widowed |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
NOTE: ..."Internet dating has been studied by sociologists and psychologists, and it is addictive, as gives you a "false feeling" of abundance and that makes us demand too much, reject too quickly and ironically offer too little"...
" I don't chase people. I will be myself, doing my own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in my life - will come to me and stay." If you think that finding a soul mate is all about having a perfect partner with a tag of awesomeness, then change the way you think. Soul mates are not any special people with some out of the world qualities. They are just ordinary people with an extraordinary passion to make a relationship work despite the odds, despite the complications and despite all the imperfections in their life.
No one becomes your soul mate the very first day you meet them. It is a journey of two people in love who happen to be really good together in all circumstances. They just have this spark in their relationship which helps them to make compromises and overcome their imperfections in the most beautiful way. It is a relationship where things just work out and the bond just keeps getting stronger with each passing day.
I am a military widow, husband killed at Fort Bragg, never remarried. I have an adult son and would welcome being apart of your family. I like mentally stimulating activities and having fun; I adore traveling, to feel and research many cultures and learn new things.
I enjoy playing pool, golf, singing, reading, movies, weight training, and most of all dancing. I like nature: forest, ocean, mountains. I am passionate about flowers, sports and community work; I serve on the Board of Directors for a large community health center, Habitat for Humanity and the 100 Black Women. I consider myself easy to look at, I know that God has the right man for me when the time comes; I am a nice person and loyal to a fault.
With my friends, I am sociable and communicate with ease - I do not meet strangers. Stature reflects a memorable presence complimenting my long island ice tea with grace and elegance. I did not have a father per se in my life, so sometimes, I would like to share the father in you. I am a affectionate and romantic friend/confident. Always a builder bringing out the best in him. I am open-minded and cheerful and I want you to appreciate me. I work hard and I want to continue to grow both in my vocation and personally.
I am a lady that is comfortable with her sexuality and it oozes out in my daily interactions... Lol. I do not wear a weave - my hair is 100% natural (the Indian side of me), I am of the Shinnecock Nation and they originated in Long Island, New York. My body and all that goes with it is a gift from God. More importantly, I like to think that I am a model for young women and not so young women.
To me a real woman is a man's best friend:
. She will never stand him up and never let him down.
. She will reassure him when he feels insecure and comfort him after a bad day.
. She will inspire him to do things he never thought he could do; to live without fear and forget regret.
. She will enable him to express his deepest emotions and give in to his most intimate desires.
. She will make sure he always feels as though he's the most handsome man in the room and will enable him to be the most confident, sexy, seductive and invincible...
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before and she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect, your aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there".
"One man acting alone, no matter how clever he may be, can never accomplish what that same man acting in concert with a good woman can accomplish. Each one Teach one".
FYI - Working in corporate all of my career; I have made it difficult for any employer, recruiter, colleague, federal and local governments and alike to not have a easy time discovering what I do in my personal time. This includes not utilizing my real name, and other identifiers.
I am looking for
A man's sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions. Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive, and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with, and I will tell you his valuation of himself.... He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience - or to fake -a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer - because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an
Achievement, not the possession of a brainless. He does not seek to gain his value, he seeks to express it.
-Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
"The smoothest move you can make is to make love to me in a crowded room with your eyes; if a man cannot seduce me outside of my bedroom, he does not belong in my bedroom". I posses an inborn passion to have friendships with a desire to honor/respect and willingness to put in the work.
A man who appreciates his lady for what she truly is; a delicate human being and sensitive individual with all of the desires of a whole person; a woman who has your back and wants to share more than life has to offer within this vast array of possibilities. One that wants to share in the whole experience in dreaming "BIG"; a man that understands she is a "COMPLEX" creature with all the inner makings of a real woman and the allure of seduction properly & tastefully performed.
A man that always puts his woman first (before him) and honors mutual respect and admiration for the opposite sex.
I am a very seductive creature. Love the concept of being in love and girly; I do not want to be the head in my household I desire someone else to take the lead.
More cliff notes of what I stand for:
My heart is like the sea and the night sky - Deep in depth and infinite in size.
I trust and have faith that one can move towards a renewed future.
Showing pets love demonstrates how much we are willing to give without reason.
Searching for a man wanting that "You Get Me" type relationship which is rare in a lifetime.
God has someone for everyone and a reason for everything.
My heart is available if you are truly open to accept love.
I have the courage to totally risk my heart with the possibility of loss to find true happiness.
Relationships evolve to flourish but like all living things, neglect, unhealthy behavior and poisonous attitudes can sap life from it.
I always want the best for those in your life past present or future - because it is true about what goes around comes around.
Love in every form is the most powerful expression we have.
Finding the person to share love with is the aphrodisiac of the heart so we need to share our playful/fun side.
A person cannot get a good idea of what I am about by looking at my pictures; when you view them they define your interpretation base on your experience. One has to jump the rope and talk with me bc 9 times out of 10 your impression is wrong. Faith is more powerful than self.
Looking for the qualities I want and will not lose faith even when it appears that it will not happen; I am not looking for perfection because it does not exist; however, I do strive for Chemistry, Connection, Commitment, Compromise, Communication.
I want/need a partner in life, not someone who wants to be mothered, or wants a maid or a sex slave. Someone whom I can stand beside; who will walk through life side by side, sustaining each others, filling in my weak spots as I fill in his and making each other stronger even as we grow older.
I want my heart to flip when I look into his eyes or hear his voice or feel excited when I get a call or a letter. I want him to make me laugh; like I want to make him laugh. I don't care how goofy I have to be, as long as he smiles.
I want him to permit me to explore his body as well as his mind. To know his inner workings and discover with my fingertips. My mouth and all my heart what his body can do.
To discover every angle and turn, where his body is hard and where it is soft; and that he will help me learn more about my own body because he has taken the time to know every nook, curve and nuance. I don't think its too much to ask. If you care about someone you are CRAZY about them and they feel the same way. This can be done over time and if we are both willing to put in the work. In time, we will know each other in the way that God meant for a man and a woman to be one with one another.
I choose and desire to have a man in my life to share in life. To get there and most important, is friendship; can we start there.
So, I will just wait for you...
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