My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed/Native American |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | Prplbtrfly, Woman, 45 |
Location | Binghamton, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 28 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed/Native American |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a small town girl with a few old-fashioned values and a really good head on her shoulders. Just recently moving to the state of New York, I have not had many opportunities to meet guys and figured I would give this a try.
I don't have any baggage or drama in my life, but I do have a job that keeps me very busy and sometimes a little tattered around the edges. So, it would be nice to be able to go out and get my mind off the spoils of my day sometimes. I work in higher education in student affairs and get to listen to the woes of today's average college student. Best job in the world, but sometimes you just want to relax and be around adults. LOL
I am very dedicated to my family and their well-being and the same goes with my friends. I try to spend as much of my spare time doing the things that I enjoy because life is too short not to. Lately, I have been trying all sorts of new things like golfing (I'm horrible, but it's fun), learning to knit (very relaxing), swimming, hiking and this summer I tried riding an ATV. On a regular basis, I enjoy playing pool, watching a good baseball or football game, listening to music, creative writing, reading, camping and road trips.
I am always willing to try anything new and really want to stretch my interests so I can be a more culturally well-rounded person. I love learning. In fact, I love it so much that I am studying for the LSATs and go to law school. It has always been a dream of mine to go and I am happy to say I finally got the courage to pursue it.
There is a lot going on in my little world with my job and my exploration of new and exciting things, but I would like to share that with someone special.
I am looking for
What girl doesn't want the knight in shining armor fairytale? After all it is a wonderful story, and I am a hopeless romantic.
Of course my idea of a knight is the honest, funny, hard working guy who likes being a good friend as well as a lover. I am a pretty independent person, but sometimes its nice to have someone else take the lead in a relationship. I do hope to be married and have a family some day, but I'm not looking for a proposal anytime soon. I really want to get to know someone. It isn't important about how he looks or his background, but what is important is his heart.
I want to meet a guy that can take care of me, and not in the financial sense. I have been doing fine in that department. No, what I mean by take care of is someone that has my best interest at heart and takes the time to know me well enough to be able to do so. In return, I would take care of him as well.
A guy that can accept me for who I am including my faults or hang ups and allows me to just be myself is also what I want. It is also important to me that I be able to pursue my dreams without having someone want to interfere or hinder my goals. The right guy would be supportive and encouraging as I would do the same for him in return.
I believe that no one can make you happy. They can only be part of your degree of happiness. I am not looking to be completed or fulfilled. I wish to be complemented by someone that is already complete spiritually, emotionally, mentally, etc.
There is probably more I could say, but that gives you a starting point for what I am seeking and a glimpse at who I am. Let's chat if you are serious. I'm not good at games unless its Connect Four, Uno or Sceneit Movie Version.:-)