My ethnicity is | Black/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | Petrol, Man, 37 |
Location | Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 20 - 47, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Do NOT contact me if:
Expect me to relocate
You go longer than 24 hours between conversations
Are still trying to figure your life out
Battling baby daddy/ ex husband/ ex bf drama
Have walls up and/or guarded from a previous relationship
There's a lot more to me than can be summed up in one small box, but I'll do my best to give out the basics. I'm a 31 year old IT professional. For the uninitiated that means I'm a tech nerd in all forms and love all things electronic. I'm also an avid car enthusiast and can turn a wrench as well as I can program just in case you need a man that's handy with tools. When it comes to music I enjoy listening to everything from hip hop to metal and even country if the mood strikes. You won't find me in bars and clubs because I don't enjoy drunk idiots or sexed up night owls that can't find a more creative way to enjoy their time.
The biggest part of my life are my three children and in case you were wondering I'm a single parent and don't mind that role one bit. I don't need a woman to play mommy, I do that quite well already and I'm very adept at that job. I'm more than capable of handling my own, but I'm at a place where I'd like to include someone in my life. I understand myself well enough to know my wants, needs, and goals. If your'e looking for a man that doesn't have direction or one that you can manipulate then you need to look elsewhere. I'm strong-willed, driven and focused on meeting my goals. If you aren't the same I respectfully ask you to find someone that better suits what you're looking for.
I am looking for
What I would like is someone that adds value and substance to life, someone that's emotionally stable and capable of a FRIENDSHIP first and foremost. I do not want to dive head first into something serious, only to discover we are incompatible on several levels. You must be able to express yourself without being overbearing and forceful. I'm a programmer, not a psychiatrist and that age old Marilyn Monroe quote is ridiculous and is nothing more than an excuse for someone to not work on their issues. Communication is big with me and even if we don't hold a phone conversation everyday, we at least need to text. If your phone gets turned off and we can't chat, that means you're not stable and I'm not looking to get involved in that. I would prefer a woman who's sure of herself and not into playing headgames or making a man jump through hoops because of a previous relationship. Each person is unique and shouldn't be held to the same standards of an ex and she should realize that.