Nickname | Nneks, Woman, 41 |
Location | North York, Ontario, Canada |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 45, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 4'5" (135 cm) |
Seeking | Long-term |
How would you describe yourself?
I try to be an optimistic realist, the optimism doesn't always come easily but I try my best. The only ism I truly accede to is realism.
I would like to meet a man with whom I can develop a comfortable camaraderie with. I would prefer that we be ourselves right from the first email, as opposed to trying to fit into one another's expectations. This may not be easy because we all tend to adjust our usual behaviors in subtle ways when meeting someone new in order to fit the other person's expectations.
I prefer constructive honesty to superficial pleasantries. Intimacy is infinitely more intense when a mental and emotional connection is present. This is why I believe that honest communication holds paramount value.
I am attracted to men with strong opinions, intuitions, and convictions, with a sense of purpose. I very much enjoy sarcasm; however, there's a fine line between sarcasm and derisiveness. Humor in general is imperative, as is emotional intelligence.