If you haven't the time to know me, please move on. Nobody is that busy. If you reside outside of the US, don't bother sending a flirt or e-mail. You will not get a reply. The same goes for Caucasian men (we're on an interracial site if you hadn't noticed), those with no photos or too many "find out later" replies. I may not be pretty but I have a beautiful mind; I may not be tall but I have a big heart; I may not be tough but I have a strong will; I may not be sexy but am very sensual; I may not be rich but have a wealth of knowledge; I may have a lot of friends but am alone; I may not be a lot of things but I am me... And I wouldn't want to be anyone else! Interested in a relationship lasting longer than the expiration on a milk carton! (me)

In search of a single (separated is not single), professional male, financially secure, emotionally available, confident, tall(er) than me (I'm 5'5"), aged 47-64 (give or take), Hispanic, Black, bi-racial, who enjoys dining out - I'm a true foodie... Sushi, Italian, Russian, seafood, Cuban, etc., travel, the opera, ballet, on/off Broadway, salsa on 2, R&B (Sade, Luther Vandross, Patti Labelle), romance and experiencing life with me! Have your own interests... We don't have to agree on everything! I enjoy international & domestic travel, photography, experiencing different cultures and learning their religious (or non-religious) practices and beliefs. I love a man with beautiful eyes and smile... Not to mention intelligence! I prefer to reveal myself to someone one-on-one. The basics... Single, never married, no children, second generation Italian-American, professional, educated, humorous, loves all animals, sweet, romantic, empathetic, loving... You get the picture! I pride myself in having morals and values (some traditional). And if you ask those that know me which attribute of mine is admired... It's my huge heart. Seeking my best friend, lover and confidant to spend forever with. And for those who wish to know what I do not like... Prejudice and ignorance are at the top of my list... Along with mornings (especially Monday mornings!), Sunday evenings (because it's almost Monday), caviar, motorcycles (you can have one but I'm not riding with you), body hair, liars (I see right through them!), temps below 70*...

* it doesn't matter how fast you're going as long as you're going in the right direction. (unknown)

* influenced by many, defined by none. (unknown)

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.