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Mollena    
Kinky is more than hair deep ;-)
Nickname:  Mollena
Location:  United States, New York, New York
Age:  43
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 30 - 49
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Blonde
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  A few extra pounds
My ethnicity is:  Asian, Black / African descent, Black / Non-African descent, White / European descent, Native American
Religion:  Hindu
Education:  Some college
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Never
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  No
Want children:  Undecided
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Internet
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate anywhere in the world
Starsign:  Gemini
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city
My fashion sense is: 
Jeans and Tshirt all the time, Dress according to the occasion, I hate clothes
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me, Obscure, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm the Life of the party, I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow, I get around, I'm an exhibitionist
On a day off, I enjoy: 
A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Curling up with a good book, Napping, Lunch with a friend, Doing absolutely nothing, Playing with my pet, Shopping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Doesn't Apply
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I live eponymously and never hide who I am. So about me? Does someone who is... Intelligent, clever, attractive, sexy, submissive, BDSM fluent and experienced, respectful, clean & sober since 3-14-07, worthy of the highest respect, an owner of cats, a New York Native, a traveler, an actress, a writer, a hedonist, a social butterfly, brown all over, an excellent companion, a fluid conversationalist, kinky, perverted, thick and proportionately curvy, innocent, honest, monogamous, loving, giving (to a fault), irascible, good tempered, Gemini, sweet yet sharp and far too multi-faceted to share in these brief words... Pique your interest?

I was born and raised in the concrete canyons of NYC, and I've been performing and writing since the age of 5. I am an actor, performer and writer, pretty well-traveled, always looking for an adventure, not at all judgmental but enjoys mental juggernauts. I am currently working for one of the bigger adult online empires, in a creative capacity. If you are ultra conservative about such things, we aren't a good match.

More On the Kink Community side: I have taught classes on Leather Lifestyle issues and techniques for the past few years, and continue to do so! If that makes any sense to you, then you are already doing well. If you are curious, you are doing allright ;-)

What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
You might be someone, spending too many hours geeking over a hot keyboard, looking for something different, for an adventure, for a chance to connect with someone unlike anyone you have met before. Are you tall, cute, sweet, with a bad-boy streak? Do you hop on your motorcycle after a long day and take a ride to the beach? Or are
Your relaxation methods more viscerally oriented?

Perhaps you do explore your darker fantasies and seek like minded people with whom to explore all aspects of your id. Are you looking to connect with someone who is strong yet vulnerable, and would you consider yourself to be possessed of those traits as well? Dominant yet never domineering? And, importantly, do you have a cute ass? Emotional vulnerability is a necessity... Lying and attempting to deceive me is futile, and your thoughtfulness is critical. PLEASE BE SINGLE & UNATTACHED.

Not married.

Not "about to not be married."

Not dating someone else.

Single is single and that is that. I'm looking for someone with whom I can see myself fighting over covers for years to come. I seek neither a one-off quick wham bam thank you ma'am, nor a quick bag, shag, smoke a fag, if you are form the right side of the Pond ;-)

Serious bonus points for people who have an accent different than mine. Which is your run-of-the-mill sanitized US Standard. I am an accent fiend in general and have a serious weakness for British accents in particular.
Looking for ethnicity: 
White / European descent