My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Melbeon21, Man, 54 |
Location | Fayetteville, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 18 - 99, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Err, uh, hmm. Well, I think I am kind, caring, passionate, compassionate, somewhat articulate (I can speak quite well most of the time with very few incoherent mumblings), and maybe slightly intelligent (nothing major in my opinion, especially since Mensa told me my IQ wasn't high enough for them). I'm reliable, dependable (no really I am), supportive, and can be a great friend. I tend not to be judgmental towards people, mainly because of my environmental upbringing, but also because of some rich experiences I have had over the years that embedded within me the importance of never judging the content of a book until you have at least read the first few pages. I've been told I'm handsome, but I won't really believe it until the woman who tells me that is fully sober (little joke there). I'm 38, 6'0", and about 200 lbs (although at some point I plan on getting my 19 year-old body back that weighed 175 - hmmm where did it go?). I'm fairly career oriented, but have learned not to become obsessed with my career and get the tunnel vision of a workaholic and miss the things in life that were meant to be enjoyed before God sends me a personal invitation to join Him. I strive to attain the highest level of achievement in all things I do, and am still working towards achieving a few goals I set for myself, but I am still fairly laid back about most things. I definitely know where I want to be in life at the end of the road, so I am doing what I feel I must to end up there, but I would also like to have someone special beside me to share the journey with.
I am looking for
I've never been too enthused with the prospect of meeting a woman in a club (although you can occasionally find me surveying the local nightlife at the clubs), but I haven't succeeded with bumping my cart into a woman at the supermarket and striking up a conversation about Emeril recipes either (BAM!), so I thought I would give this a try and see where it leads. Being laid back and not taking the small stuff too seriously is a must. I realize no one is perfect, but I am somewhat looking for a woman with no major mental or emotional issues, and who values and can appreciate honesty and commitment. Physical attraction is important, as well as personality, so I am looking for a beautiful woman (inside and out) for friendship, dating, and hopefully more somewhere down the road. Other than that, I guess I would settle for a woman who is intelligent, attractive, caring, kind, a good cook (but I can (and often do) set things on fire in the kitchen as well), and has a good sense of humor. Anything beyond that will be considered an extra spoonful of icing on the cake. I look forward to hearing from you if you resemble the person I have described.