Well first off, I'm Matthew Allen and I will soon be 21, I have graduated college with a degree in Process Operating Technology and have my future planned, and I want someone that knows what they want in life, I'm very goal driven and have a good sense of humor. I'm not saying I want to get married right away, but I don't want someone who is constantly onto the next one. I know I look young, as much as I don't look like it -- I consider myself a man because I'm seeking what I want for the rest of my life (including career and hopefully family) and I know how to treat women right and with respect, I'm good with kids but I deff don't want them yet lol...

I would much rather someone who likes to cuddle and be affectionate, because I am very much so :) So I guess my perfect match would be another affectionate/sweet person, that I can treat like a princess (NOT a Queen) -- I consider myself to be down to earth, and have a good head on my shoulders, I'm realistic about things and I'm focused on the long-run, not just living for the moment. But that doesn't mean I don't like to have fun, I'm just deff not the "YOLO" type :p

Personality is key to me, looks are a plus but they aren't everything. I'd much rather someone that I could grow close to and relate with well, and be friends at the same time. We don't have to be the same or like all the same music, surprise me!

Also [b][i][u]I'm willing to date any race.[/u][/i][/b] That goes with "Personality, not just looks." But I do however prefer someone around my size, I don't expect someone to be in perfect shape or be a gym activist, but I do frequent the gym and try to stay healthy so I don't want someone who doesn't care about their body.

I'm open minded to doing a lot of things really, but I love going on trips, hanging out, going to restaurants, events, new places, walks on the beach or through the woods even, racing, movies (theater or home, but at home it's easier to cuddle ;) and I also stay busy in church, I'm an activities coordinator so I set up calenders and church events for Young Single Adults ages 18-28, which of course I also attend those activities.

OH, and I'm not into alcohol, partying, or clubbing at all... I don't think I could date someone who was active in those things, and smoking anything is a 100% deal breaker :) I like kisses, but not from a smoker (or a pot head...) I have standards set high, and I don't make exceptions for them. And don't tell me "I'm still young and should do stuff like that" because you won't get anywhere, there's much more to life than acting a fool! If you go to clubs, or drink occasionally... Cool. Don't judge me for having higher standards than you, though.