My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | MacGreggor, Woman, 57 |
Location | Naples, Florida, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 50, Black/Pacific Islander/Latino... |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
First of all, I appreciate the interest from men all over the globe. However, I am nothing if not practical, and I have found any relationship attempt with anyone more than 150 miles away is completely unrealistic, and far more frustrating than helpful for both of us. I am not interested in relocating at this time, unless you live close enough for me to continue working in Naples when I need to. I own my own business, and already live in paradise. So just be forewarned that if you don't live close enough for us to see each other in person at least once a week, you will most likely get a very polite "No thank you very much."
At first I was very excited to be on this site because it seemed I had finally found a place with a multitude of the kind of guys I really enjoy dating most - educated and successful men of color. Sadly, it now seems like 90% of the guys on this site are scammers, and in fact, I'm now wondering if this whole site is set up as one big trap in that regard. I would love to be proven wrong, but right now, all I can say is if you are sincerely interested in meeting me, then you have to be willing to meet IN PERSON within approximately 2 weeks of contact, or I will assume you are not who you say you are. No exceptions. We should be able to establish pretty quickly from a few message exchanges whether or not we have enough interest to meet and move forward. And there is no moving forward until we meet. It's as simple as that.
I am educated, active in my community, have a great sense of humor, and am always seeking the next big adventure. I am NOT looking to slow down in the second half of my life, and looking for someone who can keep up with me. My kids are grown, and life is grand. The only thing missing is a partner in crime with a VERY open mind, as I don't color inside other people's lines very well. I'm a free spirit, me.
I live an alternative lifestyle, so if you are seeking a traditional kind of girl, I am not her. I seek a partner who is willing to live an authentic life exploring all their hidden desires with me. And my hidden desire is NOT living a horrifically boring picture perfect life in generic suburbia. Every day of my life is interesting with lots of excitement, and I kind of like it that way. :)
I am looking for
I'm looking for someone who is laid back and confident, spontaneous and creative, who doesn't take themselves or life too seriously. Please be self-motivated and know your own mind, as I really hate telling men what to do. A background in boxing, martial arts, or the military will move you to the front of the line.
It would help if you are open to non-traditional and alternative relationship options, or at least willing to discuss them.
I am looking for someone who lives within 150 miles of me, and if you don't already live in the state of Florida, I am probably not interested. Sorry. I have learned the hard way there is no short-cutting the face to face dating process, so I'm an up close and personal kind of girl only.