My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Lvbnganurse, Woman, 54 |
Location | New Bern, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 50, Latino/Mixed/Other |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a single Mom that feels blessed in many areas of my life. Trying to prepare myself for the wonderful world of dating again...lol If you have a great sense of humor with a hint of sarcasm, independent, no anger issues, not a drug addict or alcoholic, haven't been in a mental hospital or on your way to be admitted, and a great sense of self, feel free to say hi. :) I can spot scampers a million miles away so please don't try attempt to waste my time or yours with your "sob story accompanied with compliments" bc it won't work. :) I don't have selected esteem issues even though I'm not perfect and I'm definitely not the type to give someone else self esteem issues. I'm old fashioned with morals, values, and respect. I'm outgoing, caring, nuturing, and family oriented. I know I'm not everyone's choice but I'm a great choice because I know what I bring to the table in a relationship :)
I am looking for
Simply...a good man with a positive outlook and doesn't bring the issues of past women and put me in the same category. Enjoys having things on common but has separate interests and hobbies. Able to communicate even if we have to agree to disagree. Responsible, respectful, and gets it when I say it's the little things that make life awesome. If you have children, that's wonderful bc I have an 8 yr old but I don't want a crazy woman attached with the children...I'm not wasting my energy on someone's ignorance bc I would treat your children love and a sense of security not negativity and chaos. I don't want to go out all the time, I did that back in the day before my child but I do get the craving to go out once and a while. I don't exert my energy with cheating and lying or anything to disrespect the person I'm with and won't deal with it from someone else...I won't fight for you to stay like some women...it's not worth my time to prove to you what you're losing when you should've known it all along. I love taking care of a man...being supportive...but I would like it in return. I think everyone should feel appreciated for the little things with the big things. I won't be up your tail 24/7 wanting to know where you're at or who youre with , so if you need that validation, I'm not for you. I dI'd have a few surgeris in a 3 yr time span and I'm finally able to go back to the gym and do what I want to do for myself. I would like to have someone that enjoys it too so we could motivate each other. I'm not a size 2...in fact I'm now a size 14 but bc of the lack of mobility for those 3 yrs I was bigger....but I've worked hard to lose 56 pounds so far so I'm quite proud. But no matter how big or small a man or woman is, no one should judge bc they don't know their story that comes with it. As a matter of fact no one should judge anyone on anything in my opinion. So....if you're a relaxed kind of guy, that enjoys laughing, being spontaneous at times, even tempered, likes to be active but can just veg-out on the couch too...say hi. :) it may be one of the best decisions you've made in your life....lolol