My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Lovinglyme2, Woman, 54 |
Location | Detroit, Michigan, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 50, White |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm 46 years young 5"4 in height and now ready to date. I am energetic and happy most of the time yet, realistic. I am easy going, mentally, physically, spiritually strong, I have a sense of humor and very versatile I can be at home or just as well spend time doing something fun like going to an event, movies, concert etc.. I Love being a mom
I have a 16 year old and a 10 year old I believe they are the best gifts I ever received.What makes me unique is my resilience to keep going no matter what obstacles I must face I still manage to smile. I have an a abundance of compassion for others, I'm a social worker of 33 years, my first job was working in a hospice. I love life and attempt to make the best of each day.
I am looking for
I'm looking for a gentlemen something serious that starts out as friends. I'm not looking to play house or scar someone for life, by "playing psychological games"A gentleman that likes to converse on any subject, has good sense of humor, has class yet down to earth, compassionate and adorable, takes good care of himself, mentally, physically(works out with me at times) Im interested in a close team type of a relationship where we push each other on being our best selves,he must also, be family oriented and fun to be around. Handle our business in an outside the house..supportive. Someone, I miss when we're not together and look forward to seeing! I'm raising a 16 and 10 year old and doing a great a job with God's help..not easy but, we're making it. I'm interested in someone that is not afraid of his own shadow, not scared to live and enjoy life and is aware of racism and is not going to allow distractions and hatred get in our way. the stares we may get but yet be able to walk tall with our heads up and go through a troop if we need be,realizing we are in this relationship together and be ready for anything because let's face it people are unpredictable and I'm not one to run. I'm peaceful, but don't like to be messed with that's when they see the other side. I would like someone that will be a great example of a man for my children although, they are older now, it still would be nice for them to see me happy with someone.This man must be consistent with his words actions and deeds. Trust worthy and ready for a solid friendship/monogamous loving relationship that knows how to make Love and not just have sex, there is a difference. Stimulate my mind and everyhing else will fall into place. ( yeah, I said it . I'm a one stop shop lady when I'm with you I'm not looking outside of the relationship we build together I am very loyal to the man I'm with if it doesn't work out the blame would not be on me. I would just move on. I've dated outside my race before and the problem is that I get my heart broke (plenty of times), not that I'm crazy, dysfunctional or a game player I just have met men that get to know me and my children then decide to vanish.. without a reason. Now, I consider myself a good communicater. I'm 47 years old and refuse to play games with my heart or anybody elses that's just cruel to me, I very transparent so I tell people the truth with love. I don't believe in arguing or drama definately not in public. I believe in discussing our differences and at the end of the day we are still there for each other. truly want to be at peace with the man I'm blessed to Love and vice versa. Finally, I just need someone that believes in me like I will believe in them, where I feel safe on a regular basis with his consistent behavior someone, I can lean on them and they can lean on me. Holding hands is a plus.Thank you, for taking time to read my message. ;)