My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | JHaole, Man, 62 |
Location | San Pedro, California, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 40 - 52, Black/East Indian/Pacific Islander... |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am adventurous, but not crazy; calm and responsible, but not boring; kind but not weak. I can be spontaneous or organized, depending on the situation/adventure. I am really honest and I don't play games--it's too much of a hassle and really is for people who, in my mind, are immature. Stay with one person; if you're not happy or it isn't working, get out, but don't cheat. That's not cool.
I enjoy art, nature, music (all kinds), exercising outdoors (but the gym is OK too), movies, books, a good conversation, a good laugh (super important). Nothing is better than good cup of coffee on a Sunday morning or a glass of red wine on a Saturday night. Well, maybe there some things that are better (I ate a spicy chicken banh mi from an LA food truck the other day that was the best thing in the world at that moment), but those two are pretty good, especially in the right context and with the right company. If you like kisses for no reason or little drawings made just for you, then you might like me.
Anyway, life is good, be happy, and bring your smile to the picnic...
I am looking for
I don't know if it's possible to find someone who is exactly what you're looking for... It's kind of like trying to find a unicorn or search for the Holy Grail. But, I know I can get close. So...
1. I'm looking for someone who shares at least some of my interests and has a sense of humor. You just can't have really good relationship with someone who doesn't have a least a similar outlook on life. I like to get outside with nature and see the world, but I really like to read too and watch movies (as long as they're good movies). Inside, outside, as long as it's good.
2. A certain amount of narcissism is good, it's healthy, it indicates that you've got your head screwed on straight. But if you take yourself too seriously, we won't be compatible. I know some people don't like to be teased and actually that's OK and I can respect that... I won't tease you if it bums you out. But I can laugh at my bald head if it gets burned in the sun. You should be able to laugh at yourself when you wake up in the morning and you look like a witch. Have a positive outlook on life. I am not your ex.
3. You will need to be my best friend. Relationships work best when you remember that we should try to make each other happy.
4. You should be responsible. But you believe that a relationship should be a respite from, not an exaggeration of, the complexities and problems of the real world.
5. Chemistry is the starting point. I'll look good for you and you look good for me and there you go. But you don't need to wear too much makeup... Then you're hiding your sweet face.
6. Keep yourself in shape. You don't have to be a fitness fanatic, but keep yourself active and eat right for crying out loud. You'll feel a lot better. You can cheat though... Eat your ice cream once in a while. I don't know if you can truly be happy if you don't eat ice cream sometimes.
7. Live the Golden Rule. I do. I hope you do as well.