My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'0" (152 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | JFla10, Woman, 41 |
Location | Ottumwa, Iowa, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 55, Black/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'0" (152 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a 41 year old professional, never married, no children. I'm really short; barely made the 5'0 mark! I am very sarcastic and witty; humor is very important in life!! I am artistic and free spirited; a go with the flow kind of person. I am a deep thinker and highly empathetic. I enjoy connecting on that deeper level and crave the kind of affection that is passionate and meaningful. I not only want a partner to experience life with. I want a soul mate. Someone who ignites my fire.
As far as socially, I can be a bit reclusive sometimes and just want to spend time at home, but I am also an extroverted introvert so I can adapt easily in a social situation I am comfortable in. If I have a supportive partner by my side in an uncomfortable situation, I do just fine as well!
I am open minded, liberal and compassionate about human rights. My work has always revolved around the disadvantaged or under-resourced. I have a soft spot for children, though I do not have any of my own. I am a fabulous auntie of 6 though!
And since it is a topic most men are eager to talk about, I will mention that I am somewhat adventurous when it comes to sexuality but I'm over casual dating and "hooking up." I want someone to share life and experiences with, and yes, someone I connect with sexually. Just looking for something stable and long term at this point in my life.
I am looking for
Sense of humor is a must!! Being able to hold an intelligent conversation is also important. As far as physically, I'm either going to be attracted, or not, but there are no set in stone prerequisites that I have. I do tend to be more attracted to really tall men, but I'm really short, so everyone seems tall to me! I do need someone who understands my independence (I need a certain amount of "me" time) and I am not interested in someone who is controlling or a jealous type. I am not the type of person that "needs" to be taken care of. However, it is nice to have someone around that wants to be a partner. I would prefer someone who has some education outside of high school, but that isn't a deal breaker, as long as he is driven and has goals in life. I value integrity and a genuine compassion for others. I'm looking for a real connection with someone, and not just for a fleeting moment in time.