My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Helenk, Woman, 43 |
Location | Birmingham, England, UK |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 45, Black/White/Pacific Islander (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Where do I start? Well, I'm a very out-going, switched-on and confident woman. I'm independent with a zest for life and an abundance of "get up and go." I'm feisty and certainly no push-over but I have never been described as high-maintenance or hard work. I'm upfront and honest and I think that's due to my northern roots!!
I love 70's/80's soul/disco, Soulful House and Jazz. I enjoying clubbing and going out at the weekends. My friends would describe me as a real social butterfly as I love to be out and about but in the same sense, I love having friends around for a meal or takeaway, a few drinks and a bit of a laugh. Reading this back, I must sound like a bit of a party animal and I suppose that to a certain extent I am. However I work really hard during the week. I love my weekends and time away from the grind.
I enjoy my career in Housing Management but my home life and what I do away from work is far more important to me. I have a small family and a tight circle of friends and love nights out, holidays, dance festivals, theme parks and the gym. I love eating out (food and wine in general.) I'm not one of these women who will only order a salad and then end up pushing it around their plate all night, hence the reason I'm in the gym so frequently. Life is far too short!!!
I am looking for
I've been single for six months after ending a five year relationship. I'm initially looking for a guy who I can get to know through dating. If I met the right guy, I would be completely committed and consider children in the future. The guy that would be right for me would have to be another professional or in regular, secure employment. I'm certainly no gold-digger but due to past experiences, I would need someone who's at least willing and able put in their own fair share. The work-shy or flaky need not apply. I work hard and I expect you to do the same. He'd also have to be able to enjoy himself and hold his own if I left him on his own at a party or with my family... Creeping wall-flowers just aren't for me. However I won't entertain anyone who I think is playing me or just out for what they can get. I can usually sniff them out at a thousand paces?!? If I'm with you, I'm loyal and won't play games. I just expect the same in return.
All in all, I'm 31, solvent and childless. I'm single, fun and open to meeting someone with the same(ish) situation and qualities. I
'm not looking for a pen-pal or mindless chit-chat. I'm looking for some dates with a view of it developing into something possibly, if there's plenty of chemistry and it feels right. I usually don't fancy someone just from a photo or seeing them in a bar, I have to talk to someone to know if there's a spark!!!