My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Hcrft, Man, 52 |
Location | Winston Salem, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 27 - 60, Asian/White/Pacific Islander... |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I left the site for a while. Views with no hello. Multiple views from some with no hello. Hellos from lovely women that would not be a match. I thought I should make changes to my bio, but after re reading it I realized a good match looking for what most women here saying they are looking for may find it at least intriguing. So I decided to ad this to clarify things. I tried to make it kind and neutral while still getting my point across. I get that there is little market for a highly intelligent, creative, intuitive, empathetic, black men. Western culture simply has no use for us. I could count on one hand the amount of times I met met a fascinating, unique, intelligent woman that thought the same of me. And almost all of them were foreign. Most people are unable to recognize fascinating. Takes one to know one. I am not looking for perfection. Far from it. Misfits welcome. Let me care for that jewel of a heart you protect so well from everyone. I understand being unique can create struggles in life. The descriptions of things site members say they are looking to avoid tell you what their experiences have been. Telling broken men how not to appear broken in front of you probably won't find you what you want. I say look for people that have never had those issues and stand out. Time and again women of substance come here and are disillusioned by the shallow, narcissistic, living caricatures, and were last active months ago. Average women come here
expecting above average things from average men,
and are likewise disillusioned. Again, most people are unable to recognize extraordinary things. It takes one to know one. Do you think critical thinking is sexy? If you are smart and find fascinating things fascinating. If you are extraordinary and are drawn to extraordinary things perhaps we should talk. My daily life, outside of work, Is sane. My home is peaceful. I like good normal wholesome fun. I know the beauty in just being. I love taking in the weather, enjoying hobbies, and caring for my animals. I am crushed by spending beautiful experiences alone.
Also : The Earth is round. We landed on the moon. There is no ice wall at the south pole. I love sports. People running around with balls being paid the GDP of small countries does absolutely nothing for me however ( and rumor has it there may be three or four other sports)
I am sophisticated enough to see beauty in intelligent women of all types. I am not limited to a particular type though I do have favorites. I am a sucker for: tall, physically strong, nerdy girls, long hair of any color, blue eyes, true red heads ♥️ (pale skin, freckles, blue eyes.long red locks), multi dimensional women. example; quiet nerdy entomologist by day, swordfighting gothic princess with super dark humor by night (got a little carried away there).And if you are intelligent, short and curvy with a pixy cut and piercing dark eyes you are also gorgeous. No deal breakers save the intelligence. I am smart enough to know the one I am looking for may come in many different forms.
Ok this is all I could think of at the moment. Now for my regular bio........
Worldly, educated, and hardworking. Multi culturalism, spiritual exploration and fulfillment are important to me. I am not religious. Animal lover.
I like rock, classic, contemporary, and industrial music. Classical music from around the world from the Americas, to Europe, to Asia. Electronic music, goth, tribal and neolithic. I am not into 99% of pop music, R&B, rap, country or reggae.
Ive worked in aquatics, as a dog groomer, dog trainer, and as an emergency vet tech, . I have one dog now, Nicole 16yrs old, and some fish.
I love horror (not slasher stalker) movies and Sci-Fi, and have been lucky enough to find some great horror/romance/Sci-Fi/comedies.
I love trying new experiences, a night out at my favorite haunts people watching. My favorite time of year is summer night. I love star gazing, and being out under the moon.
I like cycling, working out, flying, art, performing arts, cooking, and I have a blue thumb. I find joy in being home with music on and my significant other doing anything. Cuddling, reading, watching movies, house cleaning, and working on the lawn together. I really do enjoy simple peaceful togetherness.
I am looking for
Intelligent. Educated/worldly. A beautiful personality. Beautiful on the outside. Funny. Curious. Creative. Passionate. Confident. Tactile. Eagerness for my next conversation. A tough, sensitive, empathetic, understanding, emotionally mature woman. Someone that truly understands 80s culture. Gets my sarcastic, dark humor. Understanding. Progressive. Open minded. Non judgmental. Sweet with a dark streak.