My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Hc0314, Woman, 48 |
Location | Royal Oak, Michigan, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 55, Black/Mixed/Other (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
This is my first time back out in the dating world in over 3 yrs.๐ฌ๐ Please don't scare me off or come at me in an aggressive, rude or player type of way๐ and that is not what I want Or need, At All.๐
Intelligent, caring, kind, thoughtful, loyal , trustworthy, sweet, funny, down to earth, silly at times:), as honest and open
as any one person can possibly be and more than your average.:) Fit, healthy, positive, good sense of humor and enjoys the simple pleasures
in life.:) I like being active, maintaining a healthy way of life by eating healthy and staying as balanced as possible, inside and out.:)
I believe in making the most of each day given, because life is way too short not to appreciate every day and focus on what we do have, rather
than things we may not have but would like or aren't really important at the end of the day.
I have considered myself to be a true romantic at heart:) my whole adult life..have a very sensitive side, am in touch with feelings on a
deeper level than most and because of this I am very comfortable expressing my emotions, as well as
opening up completely sharing my thoughts...good or not.๐
I think I've shared enough to give some insight and a good idea of who I am:) but to really know me fully, you would need to talk to me one on
one and connect on all levels. If after reading my Whole profile lol you feel may be a potentially good fit and possible match, please send me a msg
and if the feeling is mutual we will talk further.:)
Take care.
I am looking for
I am looking for someone ideally to spend this second chapter of life with, who wants the same and is established, stable and in an ideal place in life, both emotionally and physically available 100%, ready and wanting to spend his free time with me, not putting my last and after everyone or everything else in his life, with little left.
Someone I can have fun doing different activities with and truly enjoy life with to the fullest, being happy together and being each others best friend, #1 ride or die and have peace, no drama, nonsense or baggage from past relationships or exes.
Someone who is down to earth, honest, loyal, secure, stable, unselfish, kindlol
compassionate, sincere, loving, nice, attractive-inside and out and will put me first when needed, as I will do in return always.
No flings, hookups(whatever they call it these days๐) or casual short term relationship, friends with benefit situations.
I want him to become my best friend and we have to become good friends, in order to have a healthy, happy, loving, stable, secure, beautiful relationship...that will last the rest of our lives ideally. :)
He needs to be intelligent(which is not based on how many degrees one may have or lack๐) and one who has a good decent amount of common sense, is appreciated (I have a great deal of common sense and apply it to daily life:) or enough to be a good fit
for me long term.:) I would like a guy who can be sensitive towards my feelings, non confrontational, non judgemental and if you are superficial
or very materialistic, probably wouldn't be a good match being completely honest. Lol
At this stage in my life, I need for my future special someone and potential love of my life๐
to be emotionally And physically available 100% and there will be no exceptions to this dealbreaker for me moving forward Ever Again๐, Meaning- no serial daters, potential girlfriends, exes he still has baggage or feelings for, baby momma drama or wife/soon to be ex wife drama or other females in the picture at all(not counting family who should not even be an issue or cause problems in a relationship but if so, one should deal with it before considering a future relationship๐), not even a little bit and if you aren't completely honest about your current situation, I will find out sooner rather than later, so please don't pretend to be someone or something you are not or tell me you are ready for more than you can currently handle, only wasting my time, as well as yours.๐
If you are stable, responsible, secure, unselfish, have a decent sense of humor:) don't take yourself too seriously , are in decent shape or willing and care to improve upon this at least๐, in good
health overall would be nice because being in good health( physically and emotionally:) along with caring to do what it takes to maintain this as best we can, is very important to me and my life.
I like and appreciate a guy who cares to be a gentleman (opens my car door and cute, sweet things like that:), treats me with a high level of respect, kindness, consideration and aside from these important qualities, I need/want a man who can and will be completely honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy and will communicate in an open, honest, respectful manner always..as I promise to do:), as well as caring about my feelings andwhat is most important to me because it cannot be one sided and my revolving my whole life and world around my future man, while he does what he chooses behaving in a selfish, self centered manner won't work for or with me๐ and I require being treated with a high level of respect, caring by my future man as he would want and expects in return from me.:)
A man who is not afraid to share his emotions in a healthy way and express his feelings would be nice as well and yes works both ways..with me at least.:)
Aside from all of those qualities, he is open to a long term committed relationship if and when:)
which is why I'm out here(again lol) and
is very important because I'm not into casual dating/dating more than one person or flings or rebounds or guys/girls on the side-non negotiable, lol
who not only wants but is Ready to settle down in the near future, once he has that right female he feels is the one and things progress to that level.
You must be good with me having a 20 yr old son who means the world to me๐๐ and aside from my role as mom, I'm auntie to 5 yr old twin nieces who I don't get to see often since they moved away but they are very special to me as well.โค๏ธ
Due to only having 1 child of my own who is now pretty grown๐ I enjoy my job and currently work as a nanny, caring for an infant weekdays so my future 'best friend' 'future partner and hopefully the future love for rest of my life' needs to be accepting of my job and be 100% good with.๐
Having another biological child isn't happening and the door is closed on that, to put it simply๐ so whoever I date(with purpose) moving forward must be 100% good with not having kids or more kids if we were to end up together.๐๐
I'm fine dating and ending up with someone who has children but if you have several children still at home not grown yet or maybe they are grown and you really don't have the time to invest in getting to know me properly and focusing on me as needed, present time and beyond๐ we would not be a good fit..Im speaking from experience.๐๐
If we are on the same page and you feel could possibly be a good fit, as friends to start(which is important and necessary), please reach out and say hello.๐