I am a 40 yr old seperated/single mother of a 13 yr old son. He is the light in my life. He is my miracle. I am still married in name only, therefore I am single in my eyes. Been seperated for 6 yrs, marriage is only a technicality, for real. We have both moved on!!! I was married to a black man. My son is bi-racial. I work as the recreation supervisor in a state psychiatric hospital. I"ve worked there for 23 years and I am pretty stable.

I am a well proportioned bbw. Oh yeah, I do have a booty!!! Got it all in the right place but could afford to drop a few lbs. I did start back at the gym in jan, and it feels great. I love the beach but no beach in nj is like cancun! I love to watch movies, music, interactive museums, universal studios, anything involving water, fishing, sailing etc... Laughing that is important. I am a hopeless romantic too. I do not need to be spoiled, but I won't complain. Lol!!! I will spoil back!!!

I am trying to explore new things and hoping to find out more about me now that my son is getting older. I've spent all my days and nights for years putting others first and somewhere I neglegted myself. Well that's all changing now. I feel confident that I can balance my child, my career, and home and still have enough time to live for me too.