My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | GoldieLooks, Woman, 55 |
Location | Raleigh, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 45 - 60, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a joyous girl who laughs often and finds humor in a lot of things. I am driven and goal-oriented, but I enjoy balance and don't take myself too seriously because I am determined to enjoy the journey and nurture the child in me. I am intrigued by people with different experiences and backgrounds, and I find joy in making a difference. I am passionate about music and the arts. I love science and travel. I read a lot and am a very active and a very creative person. My hobbies reflect these interests. I am also very comfortable socializing in most settings and enjoy a broad range of activities. I love building, remodeling, and restoration and all the trades dealing with those. I am drawn to all manner of design, and am drawn to the aesthetics of historical structures. I am cosmopolitan and open-minded, with a love for a broad range of world cultures and their cuisines, too!
Despite knowing exactly who I am and what I like, I'm also very easy-going, adventurous, spontaneous. I am passionate and very tactile. I express myself easily and find tactful ways to say just about everything without watering it down. I think we can often be a little too "PC" such that human exchanges become bland and meaningless. I enjoy differences and don't believe in being "colorblind," for it diminishes everyone's beauty and uniqueness. Diversity is to be enjoyed and celebrated. I look forward to more travel internationally and stateside. In fact, I keep a bag packed by the door (figuratively speaking), and am always looking for excuses to get out of town. Let's go!
Physically, I am tall (5'10") and slender but with awesome assets ("Danger: Curves Ahead!"). I can brag that I am consistently told that I look much younger. Ah, the blessing of good genes and a positive attitude! I like to stay active with yoga, dance, walking, cycling, occasional horseback riding and other very stimulating activities. I am also a little old fashioned and appreciate romantic gestures, little surprises, and old-fashioned chivalry. I'm independent, yes, but I like certain traditions, too!
I love jazz concerts and evenings at the symphony, spending down time designing all kinds of stuff, boating, swimming, exploring new places, dining out and cooking in, exploring thrift stores, and LOTS of laughter. I was raised in DC, which contributed to my global perspective and having friends and loved ones from around the world. I am comfortable in virtually all settings, both in manner of dress and in mindset. I look forward to stimulating new adventures in a dynamic, stable relationship with that special man.
Now accepting applications!:) And by the way, please send me a message first to initiate the conversation.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
I am looking for
First and foremost, be happy and sure of who you are: a whole, intact, 'comfortable-in-his-own-skin' kind of guy.
I respect a man with integrity, sanity, humor, kindness, intellect, curiosity, warmth, affection, accountability, risk-taking and open-mindedness. I love a man who dresses with simple class and elegance and who appreciates classic style. I've also become obsessive about oral hygiene and taking care of one's teeth at all times, recognizing that these are essential elements to kissing first thing in the morning! Besides, it's not that difficult!! Having discerning taste in material things is a good thing. And be conscientious about socio-political issues, or at least have opinions that you're willing to discuss rather than debate. Smart is VERY sexy to me.
My preference is for evolved White men with liberal leanings, or progressive, well-educated men of color. I have found that this describes the men who are most compatible with my background, sensibilities, goals and physical attraction. I get along with people who can communicate their opinions without shoving them down my throat. I'm personally not religious but I am not tolerant of intolerance. Your beliefs are your business. I was raised in the rich cultural diversity of Washington, DC, so this is my frame of reference AND preference. I am also looking for a partner with a similar intellect, outlook and values. Also, someone who reveres his elders, embraces adventure, values education, and who appreciates that real beauty is more than skin deep. Be generous with your time and affection, and willing to try new things.
I'm looking forward to starting a new adventure with a man with a lot to offer and who appreciates transparent communication and genuine partnership.
Tada!