My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Freebyrd, Woman, 50 |
Location | Oakland, California, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 38 - 46, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
A free spirit who loves encountering new souls, creatively infused, music connoisseur/fiend (especially Neo-Soul, but I also played in a symphony & love learning new instruments--currently teaching myself to play acoustic guitar), nature lover, spiritually attuned-not to be confused with a religious fanatic, bookworm, risk taker, excited by the minute, hopeful romantic, truth seeker, amateur photographer, jewelry designer, Nurse, zealous humanitarian, health conscious, creative writer, beach walker, boho fashionista, World traveler, inquisitive, adoptee, foodie, stargazer & lover of ALL!
"The Soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the full light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny... It is the light that guides your way." -Heraclitus.
I am looking for
I'm looking to establish a solid friendship with the potential to move into something longterm. I'm however, not interested in the pushy, overbearing type who are merely looking for a "hookup, booty-call, or one night stand", nor do I desire to engage in any such dialogue or anything of the sort. So if this is all you're looking for, please respect my boundaries and keep it moving, because I'm not the woman for you! Now, I digress...
Ideally, I would love to meet with someone with similar interests, but varied enough that we could complement one another. I appreciate those who value truly getting to know someone and is willing to take the time necessary to do so. Although I believe that in dealing with relationships that age is somewhat subjective, I still would like to meet someone between the ages of 38-46. I'm open to long distance communication, but would of course prefer someone in a closer locale. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, so I would love to encounter that "Notebook" love, but am a realist as well, so will settle for real love! I'm an the independent woman by default, but I love a man who desires to lead! As I just turned 40, my desire to have children has seemed diminish because I don't know how realistic this is now. However, I'm open to adoption/surrogacy. I love to travel and it would be ideal to find someone who wants to explore some new places. I have a four-legged baby (small dog) who has seen me through some tough times that I love to death, so you would have to be okay with dogs. I've worked in Healthcare for 20+yrs and it's always nice to find those of similar backgrounds, but I love to learn about other industries as well. I love to learn about and study cultural differences, and am intrigued by those who share different backgrounds. What's most important to me in developing any sort of relationship, is trust, loyalty and integrity. As most, I've seen my share of heartache, so I've learned what I value most and am not willing to compromise. All in all, I'm just looking to connect with someone of like spirit, and share some great times together, whether it's simply as friends or if it develops into something more! Peace & Light!