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Nickname:  ExOUCat
Location:  United States, Illinois, Chicago
Age:  46
I am a:  Man
Looking for a:  Woman, aged 30 - 50
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship
Eye color:  Blue
Hair color:  Dark Brown
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Athletic
My ethnicity is:  White / European descent
Religion:  Atheist
Education:  Bachelors degree
Smoking behavior:  Do not smoke, but ok if you do
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Never Married
Have children:  No
Want children:  Undecided
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Self-employed
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my city
Starsign:  Aquarius
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city
My fashion sense is: 
Jeans and Tshirt all the time
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me
When I go to parties: 
I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, Curling up with a good book, Napping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Never
When it comes to work: 
I always put in overtime
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I read like it's illegal not to... And I love to work out. I prefer lifting weights to cardio, but I'm getting better about incorporating cardio on a daily basis. I have a very active sense of humor: I believe that life is just a movie in my head... And the funnier the movie is the better. I am a science fiction junkie, can't live without baseball, and love to sing and write music. I am very comfortable in my own skin and with my life.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I value intelligence, humor, and a woman who knows who she is and what she wants from life. I am hoping to find someone that is happy with her life but is searching for the "last piece of the puzzle."
Looking for ethnicity: 
Black / African descent, Black / Non-African descent, Islander, Mixed / Multi