My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Dyengineer, Man, 45 |
Location | Burlington, New Jersey, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 23 - 33, White/East Indian/Latino... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a 29 year old single father and consider myself an extremely dynamic person. I can have fun under just about any situation, and get along with just about everyone. I am the person that likes to reason and work things out avoiding drama and confrontation if possible. Others would say that I am: laid back, social, easy going, family centered, a good listener, athletic, competitive, reasonable, organized, fun, disciplined, low maintenance, good with money, fair, goal oriented, well educated, worldly, the cool guy and a nerd all in the same breath! I decided to to use match. Com because I am over the bar/lounge dating scene (although I will always keep an open mind, that is not my first choice anymore). The older you get, the older it gets! I like explore new places, try new things, and learn about you.
What am I looking to get out of this web site?
I am looking to meet someone who likes to have fun, and isn't married to the idea of "Bars/Clubs/Lounges" are the be all and end all of fun! I am not looking for someone who just wants to go on a few dates, yet someone who is open to something more as time progresses. If I can find a reason to delete my profile, I would say that I have accomplished my goal.
I am looking for
Who am I looking for?
When it comes to a women I'm not going to lie, I am picky; not just looking to settle and date anyone. My life is in order, and I am looking for the same. I can be spontaneous, and often make split decisions. Important qualities to me would be someone who is cute, spunky, funny, spontaneous, intelligent, confident and secure. A better question would be, what am I not looking for. How do you honestly know what you want until you find it? Really, someone who doesn't make decisions about someone else based solely upon profile. Isn't difficult to qualify someone based only upon their written skills? Think about how many missed opportunities are out there. I'd really enjoy someone who can keep up with me since I am looking to travel, go places I have never gone, and see things that I have never seen; so if you are a 100% homebody, thats not what I am looking for. Having an open mind to new ideas is important to me as well as someone who can stand up for themselves! If you have a child(ren), thats fine. But I feel that it's important to have 'you' time, and 'kids' time, this keeps the mind and body balanced. At the end of the day I am looking to be challenged, if I we can't learn from each other we wont have much!