Smart, attratctive man who knows that some woman do not need to be taken care of, but want to be wanted and want to want someone in return. Someone to share the day to day struggles and happiness with. I am 40 years old but feel 25. I need a man who is as independent and self sufficient as I am. I love the athletic type. He needs to be kind, considerate and empathetic to other people. I do work with youth in the mental health field, I was born to have empathy for people. I love being a mom and I LOVE being a grandma. Yes, I am a grandma. I know, I look too young, but it make me so proud to be Cayden's grandma. I must add, I do not like a man who says one thing and does another!!! I have dealt with that in the past, will never ever date someone who does not have follow through!!! I do not like serial daters. I realize that some men enjoy this and it is not a crime, just not for me. I am a one man kind of woman and choose not to go on every date that is asked of me. I am very picky and choosy about my dates because, frankly no need to waste anyone's time. I am too old and did that in college and High School. Love to make friends and I am very outgoing, want someone who is like that as well.