My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | CrownPointIN, Man, 49 |
Location | Crown Point, Indiana, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 40 - 60, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
The meaning of my introduction title means simply that I find attraction in all shapes, sizes, and colors. I prefer around my age (I'm open to younger or older) and race is never an issue with me as long as you can carry a mature conversation with me. Pretty simple, right?
In terms of having a conversation with me, I feel that I'm a good listener, so always know that I will give you my undivided attention. In addition, I believe that before anything can happen there must be a communicative connection or there will be no way to start things off. In other words, I'm open to talking about anything you'd like to discuss me. I'm not a controlling or demanding kind of man so I believe in compromise and putting yourself in the other person's shoes.
I want a happy medium between whatever we decide to do together. I like to have fun and always willing to try new things even if they happen to make me nervous or scared at times. So, I'm not only spontaneous but I'm also willing to be very adventurous with someone as well.
The motto I like to live by is to focus on stimulating a woman's mind before having the pleasure and honor of stimulating her body. Many guys like to operate in the reverse, but I find it will be that much harder to gain a connection with a person. I think it's better to focus time on getting inside someone's heart rather than putting great focus on trying to get into their pants. Wouldn't you agree?
In closing, I have many qualities and interests that I believe you would find appealing, so if you have any interest in my profile, leave me a note. I respond to all letters so know that you will get a reply in regards to what my feelings are about you and/or your interests. Easy enough? I hope to hear from you soon, see ya!!!
I am looking for
If you are someone who loves going to the movies, then be rest assured I will want to attend many shows with you. I go to the show by myself all the time, but I would much rather find someone who enjoys attending movies with their partner. Is that you?
Overall, I'd really like to meet someone who'd be open to experiencing new things with me. But, it's not something I'm going to insist upon if someone wants to just keep things casual and/or light between us. In addition, I should add that I have two children, one son that is 6th grade age, while my daughter has already graduated college and is on her own. So, please understand that I'm an active dad in both of my kids lives. If you're looking for someone without younger kids who can come & go at will, then I'm not best suited for you. I will certainly make time for you, but there will be times where my kid(s) will take priority. I always do my best to ensure that my time is balanced enough whereby I can spend quality time with everyone in my life. Would you like to be part of that quality time as well?
I have to be with someone that I can trust, someone who respects me, and someone who can be totally honest with me. I say, how can you sleep with someone if you can't even be honest with them or honest with yourself. Do you know what I mean? More importantly, I'd like to meet someone that can have an intelligent conversation with me that goes beyond the physical attraction we have for one another.
We all have our various reasons for being on this site, but that doesn't mean I want our topic of discussion to be only one thing. I'd like to know that I have something in common with a woman besides how attracted I am to her. Wouldn't you? So, if I could find someone that has similar interests as mine or is at least willing to compromise by meeting me halfway, then I feel we'll get along fine. What do you think?
Here's one important note I'd like to make at this time:
#1- If you are the type of person that likes to spend all of their time texting someone back and forth all day & night instead of just picking up the phone and talking to the person, there's no need to message me. This is a serious pet peeve of mine that I keep running into from people on these sites. How about you? I have NO PROBLEM if you are just too busy to talk from time to time. But, at some point in the conversation I will expect you to WANT to actually have a live discussion with me. Texting can be quite impersonal at times, and it can start to make a person think that you have something to hide by not wanting to chat over the phone.
I know this may sound harsh to you, but I feel that we ALL have some type of standard when it comes to getting to know someone. So, these are mine and I don't think I'm being overly critical. But, rather ensuring that someone knows I'm not on this site to play around. Other than that, I thank you for stopping by. Good luck in your search!